In fact, there are two kinds of remedial classes: one is the shortcomings of gifted teenagers. We can only look at this type of results. If the child easily gets the first place in the class and the first place in the grade after making up lessons, then he is a genius and finds the right teacher. Second, not the first, you (parents) really have no education and no time to take care of children. In this case, there is no need for a famous teacher or even a specialist teacher, because all children need is someone who can urge them to endorse. The fact is cruel, and the root cause of most unsatisfactory grades (one book at a time) is that the most basic book knowledge has not been memorized. In this case, it is a waste of time to look for famous teachers everywhere and brush the questions assiduously. What the cram school lacks is to seriously urge the children to recite their words carefully. It seems very embarrassing, and I am very embarrassed to collect money.
The reason why I tell parents in this way (especially) is to remind everyone that it is extremely dangerous to push their children into cram schools without personally checking the root causes of their children's problems. It's actually quite simple. Take the book and give the child a test. If I am not wrong, the child can't carry it, then you can accompany the child to carry it. Just recite it at the beginning, and recite all subjects, whether you understand it or not. Memorize it (only by memorizing it). If you don't understand, try to think about it yourself first (hint: decomposing the subject, predicate and object sentence by sentence can effectively improve your understanding ability), and then ask the teacher. The key is that after reciting, children will slowly keep up with the teacher's rhythm in class. In that case, you will find that the child's progress is real. Of course, it is not easy to do this. What is "hard work" is to turn hard work into a habit. Finally, I tell you responsibly again that those who know it by heart must have a very easy life (no skills). Of course, 985,211needs some talents.
Children don't want to learn from their parents and spend more money to train them. That's a ghost. Some children are actually very smart, but their minds are not focused on their studies.
Actually, my parents were careless.
At present, there are many social tutoring institutions with uneven qualifications and high fees. Moreover, in order to win the favor of parents, some social tutoring institutions adopt the teaching mode of "one-on-one", "holding hands" and "teaching in small classes" in order to make parents willing to pay for it to the greatest extent. In the process of teaching, we use "cheating" means and false scores to gain parents' temporary happiness.
From the perspective of parents, parents should take seriously the problem of children attending social cram schools. Since the cost is huge, parents should not regularly check their children's learning status and grades, and should not make a mountain out of a molehill, thinking that everything will be fine if they pay high tuition fees.
Furthermore, parents should analyze the reasons why their children's academic performance is relatively low, and should not generally consider it as the teacher's education and teaching level, but should consider the problem from the child's point of view. Check children's usual study habits and learning inquiry ability, and analyze children's study habits during school. It is also necessary to conduct a comprehensive analysis from the aspects of children's own efforts.
Individual children's poor study is largely related to their parents.
The children described in the question are actually caused by parents' carelessness. Besides, children are actually very naughty. They may be naughty and don't study hard. Even any teacher can do nothing, let alone a money-centered social cram school.
Spending 200,000 training fees, 220 points in the senior high school entrance examination and 2 points in physics, such a remedial effect, parents are not dizzy, just strange! This kid, pretend to sleep. He is not interested in learning at all.
There are five days in a week in school: during class, the teacher's voice is blocked: people are in the classroom and their hearts are outside. Let your teacher talk nonsense in class, and my heart will be at ease. After class, he is full of blood and energy, and the classroom is his main battlefield.
When doing homework, he knows those questions, but he doesn't know them. Either don't do it at all, or draw a peach symbol. Holding a mobile phone in the middle of the night, the game is in full swing and I am very excited!
On Saturday and Sunday, I was dragged into the training class by force. The lecturer who was beaten with chicken blood was passionate; He, quiet inside, is very calm. What test sites to take in the senior high school entrance examination, how to solve problems, and the pressure of entering a higher school ... have anything to do with me? Teacher, save it! Your voice is so loud that it bothers my sleepwalking heart!
Such a child will spend another 200,000 training fees, and the result is still the same. Because children who don't want to learn don't want to learn anywhere.
Pretend to sleep and you'll never wake up! Such a child, with a training fee of 200 thousand, can still hear the noise when thrown into the river. You can't even hear the noise when investing in training institutions.
Friendly reminder: it's the school season again, and parents have begun to plan what training classes and cram schools to enroll their children. Before you sign up, do a few things. First of all, understand the child's learning situation: see which classes need to be made up? Don't fill all the doors, so that children are more tired of learning!
2 Communicate calmly with children: See if children need to make up lessons? Which subject do you want to fill in most?
(3) Do a good job in market research: privately ask or visit training institutions to learn about the curriculum, teachers and students. If this training institution or class has many students from key middle schools in this city to make up lessons, it is generally good.
Remind children not to put the cart before the horse: pay attention to studying at school five days a week. Don't relax or give up your studies just because you signed up for the training class.
Training institutions are commercialized and market-oriented education industries. Children are customers, parents are investors, and the purpose of training institutions is to make money. Of course, it is called "helping children realize their dreams". Not every child who walks into a training institution can become a talent! Not every parent investment training institution can make a steady profit! It is your wish to let your children make up lessons in training institutions, but the problem now is that their parents can't accept the results of the senior high school entrance examination. The child's training fee has cost more than 200,000 yuan, but the results of the senior high school entrance examination have disappointed parents. The total score of children's senior high school entrance examination is only 220 points, and physics is only 2 points. Parents' psychology is definitely unacceptable: money is spent, but children's grades are far from their psychological expectations!
This happened to Ms. Zhou of Zhengzhou.
In order to make her children get ideal results in the middle school entrance examination, she sent them to a cram school. From June last year 10 to July this year, each child has a tuition fee of more than10,000. After studying for ten months, the total cost exceeded 200 thousand. Now the score of the senior high school entrance examination is 220, and the scores of the two children add up to be inferior to those of listed high schools. How can she stand it?
Now the children's scores in the senior high school entrance examination are so poor that it is completely unexpected for Ms. Zhou. This is mostly what she should bear, and she can't blame others. First of all, she blindly believes in the propaganda of extracurricular tutoring schools. When she first chose a school for her children, the principal said that her children would either be admitted to a city high school or a foreign language school in the future, as long as there was "enough food and grass" (the tuition fee was in place), which made her completely at ease. In this way, she completely put her hopes on training school teachers, thinking that spending more money can solve the problem, ignoring the children's foundation and learning ability, which is the biggest problem.
Secondly, she chose an extracurricular tutoring school and what kind of classes she took. At the beginning, Ms. Zhou chose a small boutique class for her children, and the teacher gave them one-on-one counseling. Before the formal class, she must have communicated with Ms. Zhou about the cost, otherwise she wouldn't have spent so much money.
Therefore, when you spend more than 200,000 yuan, you should make a psychological assessment of the risk, instead of spending money blindly without considering the possible consequences.
In addition, learning is a gradual process. It is possible to improve your grades in a short time, but it is not very possible to improve them greatly. She should know that. She should know more about how children usually study at school. The total score of Henan senior high school entrance examination is 700, and now the total score of children's senior high school entrance examination is 220. The gap is so big that the children's academic performance in school can be imagined, and she can't help but understand it.
If you can buy academic performance by spending money on training, the more money you spend, the higher your score will be, so there will be no fairness in the college entrance examination.
Not to mention any problems with training institutions, I think the responsibility lies with parents first.
Parents always think that it is not bad to spend money to train their children, and even think that the more money, the more knowledge children will gain.
In children's learning stage, they think that money can solve all problems. They never pay attention to the actual situation of children, why children need training, what level their academic performance is when they enter training classes, what changes their learning has had over time, and what difficulties they have in learning.
Sitting at home, paying the money and waiting for the flowers to bloom, are parents stupid? For example, a boy in Guangdong scored 235 points and forged the admission notice of Tsinghua. His parents were stupid enough to shoot and pull banners. Don't they usually contact the school teacher once? Don't you know anything about your child's academic performance?
I met a similar thing at school. Parents go to school to find their children and don't know what grade they are in. Do you find it ridiculous?
Everyone who grows crops knows that in order to have a good harvest, it is necessary to fertilize, spray pesticides and weed, and often go to the fields to see what crops need to do at this stage, and never wait until the seeds are planted before harvesting. What are the chances of such a good harvest?
Parents who call their children to school here should care about their children from reality and communicate with teachers and children more, so that there will be no "fainting"!
What else can I say?
It always does, and it's not the first time. Something similar happens almost every year.
And the "plot" is not bad, the basic development route is:
First, the remedial class promises to get a certain score or be admitted to any school, and then parents pay a large sum of money to send their children.
As a result, the remedial classes for children's learning problems don't communicate with parents, and even they can't wait for their children to learn. Parents are also big-hearted, thinking that it's okay to spend money, and then they don't ask.
As a result, in the end, the children's grades did not rise but fell, and parents began to complain about how hard they worked, saying that the remedial classes cheated money.
Then the remedial class began to defend.
Finally, the two sides negotiate, and usually the result is to refund some money.
Of course, during this period, if there are problems such as illegal running schools, they will also be punished accordingly.
Anyway, the end result is:
1, children's grades have not improved, and their studies have been seriously affected.
2. Even if the money spent by parents can be repaid, some of them will not come back after all;
3. If the organization wants to make big money, it may lose more in the end.
There is no right or wrong in this matter.
Because no one is right!
On the surface, the institution has done its duty as a professor, but the discerning person will know at a glance that you don't even give the most basic feedback to your parents. What responsibility is this?
After all, aren't you afraid that your parents will be dissatisfied and then drop out of school?
In the end, the big deal is to give people back some money when they are finished. Anyway, they made a big profit ...
Parents are also "big-hearted" and don't care about the effect after spending so much money?
If remedial classes are so effective, what else do you study?
Isn't it more than 200 thousand a year?
We can't go to school. We only go directly to the remedial class. 1800,000 can be more than Tsinghua Peking University. Even at the end of C9, there will be a large number of people willing to set this money!
That's not true.
So are the children. Why waste your parents' money if you don't want to learn?
What should come will always come. Can you hide?
Living a life of constantly weaving lies every day, not afraid of your own psychological distortion?
It doesn't matter if you don't like learning or if you don't learn well. There are many students who have this problem. How many of them will be so self-deceiving and self-deceiving like you?
So everyone did the right thing!
It is the top students who really help make up the lessons. This is called icing on the cake. You may say, what are top students made of? That is wrong. The more top students make up, the more poor students don't make up. Even if we make up for it, we are also making up for the gap with top students or other poor students. Poor students don't want to study in school, and they expect him to study in training classes.
Also, don't go to those big institutions for training courses. Basically, they are teachers who have no experience in running schools. Model teaching is good at packaging and deceptive. You'd better find a local teacher to teach you so much money.