Always be grateful to live a good life. Good habits make a good life.
I don't know which philosopher once said: the cultivation of a good habit may lead to a lifelong career. There are rules for success. There is no success without reason. Knowledge and ability are important, but good habits can often give you wings of success and help you inadvertently. And bad habits sometimes make you fall to the bottom.
On Sunday afternoon, my mother and I went shopping and walked on the road. Suddenly, I saw a UFO flying out of a high-end car and hitting a pedestrian. The car disappeared soon, and passers-by also cursed. Everything happened quickly and ended quickly. Pedestrians and vehicles on the road are still the same as before, as if this "irrelevant" thing never happened.
So I went back and thought. A seemingly trivial thing may often happen at ordinary times. It is a shameful habit for people sitting in the car to throw things outside at will, and it is also wrong for pedestrians to swear casually. Since we advocate a harmonious society, each of us should start from ourselves and develop good civilized habits.
I remember a philosopher once said: the cultivation of a good habit may lead to a lifelong career, and success is regular. There is no success without reason in the world. Knowledge and ability are important, but good habits can often become the wings of your success and help you inadvertently; And bad habits sometimes make you fall to the bottom.
Napoleon Hill, a famous American success master, said: Habit can make or break a person. Habit affects life, and habit determines fate. Once good habits are formed, they will benefit for life; And once you get into bad habits, you will go astray.
Yes, good habits are the cornerstone of our success and the ladder to success!
The lecture on "Realizing a Better Life with Grateful Heart" is divided into chapters such as "Grateful Teachers", "Grateful Parents" and "Changing Yourself".
Thanksgiving teacher-say "I love you, teacher" to my beloved teacher.
teacher for a day, father for a lifetime. Teacher Gao educates students to learn to be grateful to teachers. All the teachers present were invited to the podium, and the students and parents bowed deeply to the teacher for 30 seconds. The teachers were very moved. When teachers and students interact, all students put their hands in the air and shout to the teacher, "Teacher, I love you". The student representative thanked the teacher and hugged him. The atmosphere was pushed to * * *, and the audience burst into warm applause. The whole scene shows the great and touching feelings between teachers and students.
Be grateful to your parents-say "I love you" to your parents.
Teacher Gao first thanked his great mother, his motherland and his parents. The audience applauded and the students laughed happily. Teacher Gao touched the hearts of all the students, teachers and parents in the audience by telling touching things. The students went from crying with their heads down to hiding their faces. All my classmates, holding hands, shouted in unison: "Mom and Dad, I love you". The shouts were loud, lasting and long, and all the parents shed tears of happiness and excitement. Dozens of students who came to the stage to interact bravely expressed their feelings to their parents and everyone on the scene, told their parents' usual care and care, and told their guilt that they never returned to their parents and never thanked them. Interactive students took their parents' hands and kept shouting, "Mom and Dad, I love you". Finally, they hugged each other and cried, and everyone present was deeply moved. Really reflects the great maternal love, fatherly love and children's deep love for their parents!
? Change yourself-say "goodbye" to alcohol, tobacco, internet cafes and game halls.
Learn to change yourself. When students come to a beautiful world, they should learn to study, learn to live and learn to work. Beautiful youth is the best time to study. You can't smoke and drink, and you can't go to Internet cafes to play games, otherwise you will regret it all your life. Her words deeply touched the hearts of the students. In particular, students who often smoke and drink, go to Internet cafes to play game halls, bravely go to the stage and confess to their parents and teachers. They raised their fists and kept shouting to the audience: "No more smoking and drinking, no more internet cafes, no more online game addiction." The applause thundered and everyone was moved. Many students were moved and tears of guilt filled their eyes. Children are sensible! The children have grown up!
A good life is achieved in silence. Yes Only by calming down can we meditate and introspect, be comfortable and grow our wisdom and ability.
How far a person can go depends on who you go with; How good a person is depends on who guides you. A thousand points is not as good as a teacher's advice, and a thousand changes are not as good as your own.
To change your destiny, you must first change your mind.
Billions of wealth can't buy a good idea, but a good idea can bring billions of wealth. Giving people money is the worst policy, giving people ability is the middle policy, and giving people ideas is the best policy.
Today, many people are not unwilling to accept new ideas, but unwilling to abandon old ones.
Choosing the right partner is a happy life, choosing the right environment is a happy life, choosing the right teacher is a wise life, and choosing the right industry is a lifetime.
The best gift for parents is glory, the best gift for children is example, the best gift for yourself is success, and the best gift for friends is hope.
The most important thing in life is not hard work, not struggle, but choice, and choice is more important than hard work. The direction is wrong, and the efforts are in vain.
No crisis is the biggest crisis, and satisfying the status quo is the biggest trap.
What the eyes can see is called vision, and what the eyes can't see is called vision. Today's advantages will be replaced by tomorrow's trends. Doubt is valuable, but verification is more important. Others can succeed, why can't I?
If you are sure that you are right, you should go your own way.
Lack of self-confidence is often an important reason for weak personality and unsuccessful career. The most important quality of successful people is self-confidence.
What we want in any career is not the appreciation and applause of others, but our own applause. This is indispensable self-confidence.
If you lose confidence, you will become a coward.
Doubt is the beginning of pain, and sincerity is the beginning of happiness. The success or failure of life is often the difference between one thought and another. The gap between the rich and the poor lies in different ideas. People who care about the present will lose the future.
The saddest thing in life is that a good teacher doesn't learn; Good friends don't pay; Don't seize the opportunity.
An empty pocket can't hinder your future, and an empty head will keep you poor forever. People should have not only a pair of beautiful eyes, but also a pair of wise eyes.
What kind of ideas have what kind of future; What kind of thoughts, what kind of life. People often judge the unknown by what is known, and take the wrong inference as the correct conclusion. Rich is not satisfied, expensive can be refined; Poverty means lack of knowledge, meanness means no backbone. If I had known that a thousand dollars is hard to buy, it would be hard to buy regret medicine. There are dead wood in the 1920s and evergreen trees in the 1980s.
Opportunity is like a thief, it comes without a trace, and it makes you suffer heavy losses when you leave.
What we don't know doesn't mean it hasn't happened, and what we don't know doesn't mean it doesn't exist. We must never be "third-class" citizens: waiting for work, waiting for salary, waiting for retirement.
People who don't see opportunities are fools; People who can't grasp opportunities are mediocre; He who does not seize the opportunity is a sinner. Find a spare tire when people are good, and find a way when people are bad. It is better to be laughed at for a while than to be laughed at for a lifetime. Adversity bankrupts the weak and makes the strong break records.
Good conduct makes a good life. You may meet many people who make you feel excited, but it's hard to meet people who always make you feel at ease!
Good habits make a good life. Good habits make a good life. Materials:
1 Make your body language more infectious.
Beautiful appearance and elegant demeanor are a long-term recommendation letter.
Isabella
Proper speech and elegant body language are regarded as symbols of status and temperament.
In the western business and political fields, leaders deeply understand the role of body language in leadership, and their needs provide a broad market for body language training. William Danforth, an American writer, once described this function of body language as follows: "When I pass by a person, his head is held high, his shoulders are flat, and his abdomen is closed. He is an inspiration to me, and I will stand up straight involuntarily."
Therefore, many famous brands will regard the cultivation of body language as an important lesson, and it is this good and intentional training that has created their elegant manners.
In the TV program of Diana's funeral, we will soon distinguish between royal and non-royal celebrities. Because members of the royal family have received formal and traditional royal standard etiquette training since childhood, their every move reveals pride, nobility and elegance. No matter how much you dislike Prince Charles, you have to admit that he really stands out from ordinary people. He doesn't move much, but he's different. His hand will never be placed defensively in front of his stomach. This subtle movement can distinguish experienced politicians, royalty and ordinary people, and distinguish a confident person from a shy person.
Prime Minister Churchill has a classic gesture-"V". "V" is the first letter of "Victory" in English, which means "victory". For example, when he was elected prime minister, when he delivered a speech, when the allied forces landed in Normandy, and when fascism collapsed, he always liked to stretch out his index finger and middle finger and make a heroic "V" gesture. Now the "V" gesture has become a universal gesture in the world.
In his speeches, Charles de Gaulle of France always shrugged his shoulders and made a gesture of grasping the sky to incite people's emotions.
2 talk about "extraordinary"
Language can best express a person. As long as you speak, I can understand you.
Ben Jonson
American John Brusk summed up people's remarks brilliantly in his book Style. He said, "A person's speech is always a sign of his family background and social status." Philosopher Gracian warned in his Book of Wisdom: "No human activity needs to be so cautious as conversation, because no activity is more frequent and common than conversation, and even our success or failure depends on it." In ancient China, there was also a saying that "people are known by their words".
Zhou Enlai, the first prime minister of our country, was famous for his extraordinary personal charm.
At a reception, a western female reporter hurriedly asked into the microphone:
"Mr Zhou Enlai, may I ask you a personal question?"
"yes." Zhou Enlai answered with a smile.
"You are over 60 years old. Why do you still look so young and handsome? "
Friendly laughter and buzz came from the meeting place. This is exactly what many people want to know.
Zhou Enlai smiled gently, and when the meeting was quiet, he replied quietly and loudly: "Because I live according to the habits of the orientals, I am still very healthy!"
The translator translated Zhou Enlai's words fluently, and the whole hall rang with prolonged applause and cheers. Journalists from all over the world were deeply impressed by Zhou Enlai's clever answer.
At another press conference held by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, after Zhou Enlai introduced China's achievements in economic construction and foreign policy, a western reporter asked, "Excuse me, how much money does the People's Bank of China have?" This is actually a mockery of poverty in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China.
Zhou Enlai primly replied: "The monetary fund of the People's Bank of China is 18 yuan 88 points." The audience was shocked and silent.
Zhou Enlai explained in a humorous tone: "The People's Bank of China issues ten kinds of principal and secondary currency RMB with denominations of 10 yuan, 5 yuan, 2 yuan, 1 yuan, 50 cents, 2 cents, 10 cents, 5 cents, 2 cents and 1 cent, totaling 188 yuan 88 cents. The People's Bank of China is a financial institution led by the people of China, backed by the people of the whole country, with outstanding reputation and strong strength. The currency it issues is one of the most reputable currencies in the world and enjoys a high reputation internationally. " Zhou Enlai was surprised, and the audience immediately applauded in the hall. Many people are deeply loved by people, largely because they are good at rhetoric. The first impression is the most important, and people with good eloquence are most likely to leave a deep first impression. Elegant speech can make you popular and contribute to the success of your career. Many people can become members of parliament or other senior officials because they are good at rhetoric.
An African missionary once preached the Bible to the aborigines in tropical Africa. When he read the sentence "Your sin is crimson, but it can be turned into snow white", he suddenly froze. At this time, the priest thought, how can these natives who live in the tropics all the year round know what snow looks like and what color it is? But the coconut meat they often eat is very white. Why don't I use coconut meat as an analogy? Therefore, the clever priest changed the Bible to: "Although your sin is crimson, it can be as white as coconut meat."
Although "white as snow" is very vivid, "white as coconut meat" is also very vivid. Clever priests use the latter, but this message has been effectively conveyed to the aborigines. This makes his speech more touching and has unexpected effects.
Stop, sit and walk, and be "tangible"
People's manners should be consistent with their clothes, and their designs should not be too narrow or too strange, but they must be unconstrained and unconstrained, and they must not hinder their actions.
Francis Bacon
At the Oscar ceremony in 2000, the achievements and manners of various stars were unobstructed by their gestures and manners.
Most North American stars are disappointing.
When they talk to reporters, they are surprisingly impolite, sloppy in posture, casual in action, inarticulate in speech, erratic in voice and not neutral. There is no "god" in the whole person. It can be seen from body language that quite a few people have not received professional dance training and stage performance training. Some people are interviewed while chewing gum. In the early days of Hollywood, many stars had strict dance training and stage performance experience before filming. First a dramatic actor, then a movie star. Although today's stars have no shelf and are not so eloquent, as professional "beauties", they have no professional charm, which is disappointing. It seems that the rules of the whole North American society are no rules, no manners and casual social etiquette, so everyone can come as comfortably as possible.
In sharp contrast, China movie stars.
Chow Yun Fat is one of them. At the award ceremony of Hollywood night in 2000, he appeared in a black suit, tall and smiling, bowed his head and walked freely to the microphone, holding a white envelope in his hand and putting his empty hand in his trouser pocket-just like Mark in a Hong Kong movie! The combination of handsomeness and chic is the embodiment of the traditional China gentleman-full house applause, applause for his demeanor, and applause for the guests from afar. He smiled, still looking at the floor, turned to the audience, slightly raised the envelope in his forearm handle and waved it, which was a greeting to the audience and also to stop American enthusiasm: thank you, I see, no applause. It is this small gesture of waving his hand and this smile on the floor that clearly expresses Chow Yun Fat's China cultural tradition. American stars tend to thank the audience casually, shouting I love you, shaking their arms, bowing and blowing kisses.
Make your actions more capable.
Keep your word.
-"The Analects of Confucius Lutz"
Believe that you can do more and better. Benjamin Franklin was the founding father of the United States and one of the successful presidents. He was also a drafter of the Constitution, a businessman, a writer, a scientist and an explorer. He thinks he is an ordinary person, but he can do more if he works hard. He has a famous saying: "Don't hide your talents, they are born to be used." If you work hard and take the time to do it, you will certainly be able to do it and not waste your life.
arm oneself with knowledge
Every day when the cock crows, it is the best time for boys to read. Teenagers only know how to play, but don't know how to study hard. When they are old, they regret why they didn't know how to study hard when they were young.
-Yan Zhenqing
Interest in reading is not innate, and reading habits are not immutable. It will be influenced by tradition, current situation, education, occupation, interest or other reasons. Therefore, people who love books are always addicted to different fields again and again, mixing all kinds of irrelevant knowledge in their own thoughts-you understand knowledge in your own way, but knowledge is quietly changing your lifestyle.
The wife of former US President Roosevelt once said: "We must let our young people form the habit of reading good books. This habit is a treasure, worth holding in both hands, watching it and not throwing it away. "
Lincoln made amazing achievements in this way. Except for him, no other American has ever woven language into such a beautiful form, or uttered a short sentence with such an unparalleled musical rhythm: "Don't hate anyone, love all sentient beings." Lincoln's father was a lazy and illiterate carpenter, and his mother was an ordinary woman without special knowledge and skills. Is he especially loved by God and has a gift for making good use of language? There is no evidence to support this inference.
During Lincoln's life, he received no more than two months of school education. So, who is his mentor? Sagalyn Bernie and caribou Hager of Kentucky Forest, Jago Dusai and Andrew Knoff of Indiana are all roving primary school teachers. They wandered from this pioneer's settlement to another settlement, and they would stay as long as the local pioneers were willing to exchange ham and corn for them and teach the children to read, write and calculate. Lincoln got little help and inspiration from them, and his daily environment didn't help him much.
The farmers, businessmen, lawyers and litigants Lincoln met in the Eighth Judicial District of Illinois had no special or magical language skills, but Lincoln didn't waste his time here. He can recite the whole poems of Baines, Byron and Browning, and once wrote a speech commenting on Baines. He kept a book of Byron's poems in his office, and besides, he prepared another book to keep at home. The one in the office, because I often read it, will automatically spread out on Don Juan's page as soon as I pick it up. When he entered the White House, the tragic burden of the civil war consumed his energy and carved deep wrinkles on his face, but he still often took time out to take a book of poems by the English poet Hood and read it in bed. Sometimes, when he wakes up in the middle of the night and inadvertently opens this book of poems, he will happen to see some poems that have special enlightenment or make him happy. At this time, he will get up immediately, wear only pajamas and slippers, quietly find the secretary, and then read one poem after another to the secretary. When he is in the White House, he will also take time to review Shakespeare's masterpieces that he has read well, and he will also criticize some actors' views on Shakespeare's plays and put forward his own unique views.
Lincoln loved poetry. He not only recited and recited in secluded places, but also recited and recited in public, and even tried to write poems. He once recited a long poem of his own at his sister's wedding. When he reached middle age, he filled his notebook with his own works, but he had no confidence in them and never even allowed his best friends to read them.
Robinson wrote in his book Lincoln's Literary Literacy: "This self-taught figure can be called a genius or a gifted scholar if he wraps his thoughts with real cultural materials. His achievement process is the same as Erasmus, one of the Renaissance leaders described by Professor Emerson. He has left school, but he has successfully educated himself with the only educational method, that is, never stop studying and practicing. " Constantly learning, constantly enriching himself with knowledge, finally achieved Lincoln's great life.
Good habits make a good life. Good habits make a good life.
Famous psychologist William? James said: "sow the next action and reap a habit;" Sow a habit and reap a character; Sow a character and reap a destiny. "As the saying goes, when ideas change, actions change; When actions change, habits change; Habits have changed and personality has changed; When personality changes, fate changes; When fate changes, so does a person's life.
French writer Bacon once said: "Habit is the master of life, and people should strive to pursue good habits." Indeed, behavioral habits are like compasses on us, guiding everyone's actions. Habit is like a meat cleaver, and many people's personalities are their works.
Habit is not a whim, nor is it a short-term behavior for days and months. Once it is formed, it has strong vitality and sustainability, and often accompanies people all their lives.
For the vast majority of students, academic performance, although related to intellectual factors, is more closely related to non-intellectual factors. Habit plays an important role in the main non-intelligence factors such as confidence, will, habit, interest and personality. People who have made academic achievements at all times and all over the world have good study habits. For example, Darwin, the founder of evolution theory, said: "My life is as regular as a machine on a clock. When my life is over, I will stop somewhere. " Darwin's "law" is "good habits", and of course it also includes good study habits. Even the students in the juvenile class of HKUST with superior intelligence emphasize that they have good study habits when talking about the reasons for their excellent grades.
Senior one students, you have finished junior high school life and started senior high school life in three years, which requires a process of adaptation and adjustment, and in this process, it is particularly important to cultivate good habits. It can even be said that what kind of habits you develop directly determines your success. Please form the following good habits as soon as possible: actively cooperate with the teacher in class and don't be distracted; Work hard and remember things by hand; Be diligent in thinking and ask "why" when something happens; The knowledge learned that day was "clear" that day; Be good at summarizing and summarizing, and conduct "weekly knowledge" every week; Don't take the homework assigned by the teacher as a burden; Think independently and never copy other people's answers; Have a specific study plan every day and every time, and stick to it; Talk less and read more; Strive for perfection in everything (such as cleaning the blackboard and mopping the floor, never doodling); Communicate with teachers and parents frequently; Speak your mind bravely, especially dare to announce your goals to the public; Make a plan for the day after getting up every morning; Summarize what you did in the day every night; Always reflect on what you have done; Wait a minute. Students in Grade Two and Grade Three may wish to compare whether you already have these good habits.
Here, I need to point out to my classmates that you need perseverance to develop good habits. In fact, the premise of successfully getting rid of bad habits and forming good habits is that you must have tough qualities. In fact, tenacity itself is a habit and a high degree of self-discipline. With this high degree of self-discipline, you can form good habits. Persistence is the most important thing, the most difficult thing is persistence, success is persistence, and good habits are developed through persistence.
The coach of a high school football team tried to motivate his team to get through the difficult period of poor record. In the middle of the season, he stood in front of the players and lectured: "Michael? Did Jordan ever give up? " The players replied: "No!" He raised his voice and shouted, "What about the white brothers? Have they given up? " "no!" The players answered again. "So, Elmer? What about Williams? Has he given up? "
The players were silent for a long time. Finally, a team member summoned up his courage and asked, "Elmer? Who is Williams? We have never heard of it. " The coach disdainfully interrupted the player's question: "Of course you haven't heard of him-because he gave up!" " "
Years are long and the road is long. The key to a person's life is just a few stages. And three years of high school is undoubtedly the most important of these stages. This is a critical period for the formation of a person's world outlook, outlook on life and values, and it is also a period for you to lay the foundation for the future. Every day, every step should be taken well.
Let's form good habits from now on. Yesterday's habits make us who we are today, and today's habits determine our tomorrow. I wish all our classmates can have more good habits and lead us to the other side of success.
Love-a newsletter for a better life. Books are a key that opens the door to a treasure house of knowledge for me. Books are ladders for me to climb the peak of knowledge; Books are a bright light, illuminating my way forward.
The ancients said, "If there is no book for a day, nothing will be born." Such is also the case with me. I have enjoyed reading since I was a child. I think books are like a good friend of mine. Once my mother bought me books such as One Hundred Thousand Why, Three Hundred Tang Poems and Five Thousand Years' History of China, and I couldn't put them down. Slowly, I grew up, but the book is still my good partner. However, being too persistent will also hurt me. One Saturday, my mother was going on a business trip and told me to remember to turn down the soup in half an hour. I was reading a book, so I agreed casually. I was enjoying reading a new book, so I didn't think about the pot of soup. It will burn in half an hour. Mom came back, saw it and was very angry.
Bing Xin said, "Read well, read well, read well." Reading not only helped me to learn useful knowledge and enrich my after-school life, but also helped me to appreciate famous works written by famous writers, which improved my understanding and writing ability. Whenever I get a book, I will read it with relish. Reading is the best thing in the world. I hope everyone will read more!
Develop good habits and achieve a better life. Haha, hippo. Just go to school tomorrow and copy mine.