Here are six main points, which are explained in the form of mind maps and words:
Generally speaking, the charm of a person's speech can be judged from two angles: sensory angle and rational angle.
The so-called sensory angle refers to the natural attraction of a person's speech, which is usually reflected in the audience's vision and hearing. When we are listening to a speech, the key to decide whether we can listen carefully must be the content and form of the speaker's speech on the stage. The two senses here obviously conform to the 28 principle: 20% hearing and 80% vision.
The so-called rational perspective relies on three good things: listening, remembering and using. What does it sound like? It can also be judged by three voices: silence, laughter and applause. Most of these three situations will only appear when a speech is particularly brilliant and excellent. When the speaker speaks well and brings the audience into the situation, he is naturally silent and deeply in love, and laughter and applause will naturally appear. The standard of rote learning is that the audience will feel impressed after listening, and I'm glad you came. Easy to use means that what you say or share can help others solve some problems exactly, such as the training of office software such as ppt, and you can improve your working ability after listening.
Charm has four elements: courage, knowledge, emotion and voice (in order of importance).
A wonderful speech, or a speech. First of all, the speaker should have courage. Only when he has courage can he be calm and confident, and he can give full play to his courage. Occasionally, there will be inspiration and creative thinking. People who have no guts are usually prone to blank brains, intermittent and unconfident. Secondly, your speech should be knowledgeable, that is, it should have good content, because content is an important transmission of ideas. We should also pay attention to two points in the content: deep and new. Profound is profound, which can make the audience gain something from it; Novelty is novelty. Talking about something that others have never heard of is easy to arouse the interest of the audience. The third is to be affectionate, which is usually reflected in the tone of the speaker, and cadence is more emotional. Fourth, we should have a sound, that is, we should pronounce the words clearly, otherwise it is very easy to make the meaning of the sentence very different.
To sum up eight words, you can be courageous and eloquent, and you are a first-class excellent speaker.
The following is a detailed explanation of the four-word trick of practicing speech-the fixed-ear dance and the production method of speech-the Pearl Four Theories.
The problem with most of us is that we are prone to hissing-hoarse, turbid-unclear and weak-weak breath, which is caused by poor use of breath.
There is an interesting common sense to demonstrate the importance of qi: we normal people can last up to 7 days without eating or drinking, and up to 3 days without eating or drinking. However, if we don't breathe, people will die within an hour at most.
Haha, it may be a bit sophistry! However, it is really important to master the correct pronunciation method. Steve Ballmer, CEO of Microsoft, made an inappropriate voice in a speech, which caused the vocal cords to be damaged, and eventually he had to undergo surgery, thus delaying his trip. In daily life, we can also find that some teachers have several classes a day, and usually their voices are hoarse at the end. Most teachers have occupational diseases such as throat.
But practicing in a low voice can fundamentally solve this problem. It mainly uses the voice method of suffocating the abdomen, which may sound a bit abstract. Some people don't know where the abdomen is. Dantian is located below the third finger of navel.
All right! If I don't understand this, I'll try my best. In fact, the principle is similar to whispering. Yes, you didn't hear it wrong, and you didn't read it wrong! That is to say, whispering.
You will easily find that when we whisper (in a voice that only one or two people can barely hear), our abdomen will unconsciously tighten, and after a long time, our abdomen will be tired and our waist will be sore. It doesn't matter, the important thing is that my voice is not sour or dumb! Haha, it may be similar to a transfer method? But it is true that the voice is more expensive than the waist and abdomen.
Besides, there are many advantages to practicing your voice in a low voice like this. First of all, there are two noes: your voice is not hoarse and does not affect others. Followed by three beauties: beauty of voice, beauty of figure and beauty of spirit. Bel canto is reflected in occupying both ends (head-mouth-smile, head-abdomen-heavy spirit) and liberating the middle (throat). The voice is not tired, and the voice is naturally not much different. Now the beauty of the body persists for a long time, the muscles are exercised, the lower abdomen is firm, and it is naturally not easy to get fat, healthy, breathing well and looking good. Body now temperament, temperament is good, quiet is idle.
Keep standing while practicing. Because when standing, our breathing is smoother, which is more conducive to letting go of our hands and feet. Besides, according to international practice, many meetings, forums and speeches have such a default rule.
The essentials of training are also three words: laughter, hands and mirrors. Laughter means to smile more when practicing, because when a person smiles, his tongue is more flexible, his voice is rounder and his words are clearer. However, when he doesn't laugh, his voice is naturally gloomy. Gestures mean that when we speak, we should also add appropriate gestures, because that is usually more vivid, vivid and easier to understand. The meaning of mirror is also very simple. When we practice, we'd better practice in the mirror, because the mirror is the most ruthless teacher, and it can point out many potential problems. When practicing, keep your eyes on the mirror and find out your own problems, just like a dancer will put a big floor mirror in front of her when practicing dance steps.
When practicing, you should also follow the principle of four steps slow. The sound is increasing step by step, with a total of four levels. The purpose of this is to keep the sound elastic, big and small, and to adjust it in time according to the situation.
According to the formula (tongue twisters or ancient poems), muscle memory can be formed by practicing in the morning and evening and persisting for a long time. In the long run, you don't need to deliberately correct it, you naturally develop habits and have "inertia."
Here are two formulas to help you practice:
1. Children's songs
Strange, strange, strange, the sparrow trampled the old hen to death, the ant was three feet six, and the eighty-year-old man was lying in the cradle. (2 1 day, 20 times in the morning and 20 times in the evening)
2. Style
100% tempering into steel (2 1 day, sooner or later 100 times)
Yes, you are right, there are really only four words! ! ! Although it is only a four-character idiom, it contains four tones, which is beautiful and beneficial to muscle memory training.
The "common fault" of many of us is that we have no courage to the upper level, but we have courage to the lower level; There is no courage on the outside, but courage on the inside; Speak without courage, speak with courage. This situation still has many disadvantages, which can easily lead to "being inseparable", which is what we often call seclusion. So, how should we practice bravery? Listen to me slowly ~
The so-called three methods of practicing bravery are: smile, eyes and standing posture.
Regarding laughter, first of all, laughter is a concentrated expression of a person's personality charm. When we see a person smiling, we naturally feel that this person is very approachable. On the contrary, if he is always sulking, we will think that this person is overbearing and looks down on others.
The difference between a person's real smile and a fake smile depends on his eyes. When he really smiles, we will see that his eyes are curved, which is the so-called smiling state. If a person's eyes don't have radians, then he is probably smirking, which is commonly called smirking.
People who often smile usually have three good things: good voice, good health and good luck. Good voice and good health are similar to the essence of bel canto and beauty mentioned in the second point above, so I won't elaborate here. So, what is a good fate? It's good popularity. People always say that girls who love to laugh are not too bad luck. I don't think people who love to laugh are too bad, because smiles often represent positive energy, and we all love to communicate with people with positive energy and make friends.
How to practice laughing? There is another trick here, that is, to say "quote" more. When we say the word "Bao", our eyebrows will bend unconsciously, our chin will shrink slightly and our mouth will rise.
About eyes, when talking, the most taboo is to read from the book directly with the manuscript. So, what if there is too much to remember? We can also try to read a paragraph, and then recite the next paragraph and recite it to the audience. At least communicate with the audience during the process? Even in the eyes, otherwise it looks a bit stupid.
Keep your eyes focused so that someone is in your eyes. When we look at the audience, we can show respect for them and settle down more easily. Otherwise, if we face the sky, it is easy to appear arrogant; If you face the ground, you will look too inferior.
Regarding the distance, when the speaker is close to us, similar to an interview, we should look him in the eye more, which makes it easier to communicate. If it's a long distance, such as a speech, you have to watch a movie ~ well, this movie is neither a movie nor a TV series, but a partition. We should divide the audience into three areas: left, right and middle. Don't just stare at one place when you speak, but remember to keep your eyes empty and your position accurate.
Share a good example of a speech: (onstage, 1s, 2s, 3s) Leader (turn left), (1s, 2s, 3s) Distinguished guests (turn right), (1s, 2s, 3s) Hello everyone (middle)! Three seconds is counted in your mind, and you can use this time to get ready. I may not be used to it at first, but I will get better after a long time.
There is also a trick about how to practice eye gaze. See a black spot at one meter, open and close, sooner or later 100 times. It is said that it works wonders, and Teacher Yin has also verified it.
"Dancing in pairs" is actually two idioms: dancing and dancing happily. Although the number of words is small, it is absolutely necessary to do it.
First, let's talk about dancing. As we all know, adding actions and gestures often makes speeches more vivid. This is because gestures can exercise our brain, which is divided into two parts, the left brain is responsible for logical thinking and the right brain is responsible for image thinking.
Secondly, when dancing, we should follow the principle of three movements: vivid expression, imitation and the first move. Vividness and imitation mean to be good at finding actions in life and try to imitate the prototype in life. Don't do anything too strange, or the audience will feel strange. Move first, that is, put actions before words, try to move again at one stroke, first use gestures to mobilize feelings and attract the attention of the audience. Don't finish talking quickly, and then the action doesn't keep up. The result is probably a tragedy, at best a comedy ~
Then, we must abide by the three-handed principle: lift the arm, the wrist is hard, the tiger's mouth is open, the fingers are closed, the fingers are closed, and the tiger's mouth is open. This is a training skill, which should also be used in practice to make the audience feel beautiful and generous. Remember the third-hand principle, otherwise it is very easy for the audience to think that the speaker is more like singing opera and throwing his sleeves, so it will make a big joke.
Let's talk about happiness. Being happy has two advantages: attracting feelings and practicing feelings. The so-called attraction means that when we are smiling, dance creates scenes (association), scenes create emotions (substitution), emotions turn into anger (infection), and air creates sounds (virtuous circle). Practicing love means that a happy state can burst out our passion, and with cadence, your speech will be more infectious.
All the above are speech skills. Let's talk about how to make the content of the speech-a simple and vivid formula.
The so-called conciseness means that the views of the speech should be concise, and it is best to express them in one word. This advantage is that it will be particularly easy to remember. For example, the four elements of Beijing opera: singing, acting and cross talk: speaking, learning and teasing, are concise and clear, and are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
The so-called second job is to be good at expressing your arguments with examples, details and figures. This advantage will sound good. For example, if we insert some short stories that fit the theme in the speech, it will make the speech come alive and use the mysterious feeling that is touching and reasonable.
The so-called three formulas are to be good at compiling more than two small ideas into common words. The advantage of doing this is that it will be very easy to use, easy to spread, suspenseful, organized, not overtime, and the content will not be too scattered. Take chestnuts for example. Yu Dafu once commented on his writing. He used three words: fast, short and life. Many people don't understand! Say this, isn't this too taboo? Later, as soon as he explained, everyone understood. Fast means to feel very happy when writing; Shortness means that most of the time, you will express more meaning in short language and will not appear redundant; Life is to pay special attention to propositions and not stray from the subject. You see, it makes people feel short and pithy.
Explaining the four theories of pearls is actually the four steps of speech writing: choosing pearls by divergent thinking, choosing pearls by convergent thinking, beading by inspirational thinking and decorating pearls by image thinking.
Divergent thinking means that when we are looking for materials, we definitely hope that the more the better, which is convenient for later analysis and synthesis. Therefore, this is actually the performance of divergent thinking. At the same time, we should abide by three principles: smell, understand and do. What you see and feel should be recorded in time, maybe it will be used at some time.
Convergence thinking chooses pearls, that is to say, when we are screening materials, we should screen the information, get rid of the rough and get the essence, and take one as ten. This is the performance of convergent thinking. We should also follow three principles: profundity, innovation and vividness. Only something deeper, more novel and more vivid can make our speech better, otherwise it will be a cliche and follow the trend.
Beads of inspirational thinking means to be good at compressing sentences with different words into formulas as much as possible, which will test one's imagination and inspirational thinking. We should also abide by three principles: jumping, touching and dreaming. Jumping refers to the generation of inspiration, which can generally appear when listening to music and walking. Touching is to make full use of association to connect some events and contents in series. Dreams are more mysterious. Teacher Yin said that he usually gets inspiration from his brain when he dozes off, but I think it should be a state of freedom, which makes it easier to connect seemingly unrelated things!
Thinking in images embellishes pearls, that is to say, when we prepare the speech, we should whitewash it in a concrete and vivid way to make it more perfect and use thinking in images. For example, when giving a speech, you should read first, read a little, remember a little, and leave room for eye contact with the audience. There is usually a rehearsal before the speech, and problems are found in that process. By comparing some typos and uncommon words in the manuscript, we can find them in time and avoid making mistakes and making jokes when making a formal speech. Also, when you speak, your voice should be low and high. Try not to turn your voice too high at the beginning, otherwise you will be hoarse later and the effect will be greatly reduced. The sound is gentle, which is conducive to the climax behind.
Having said so much, not doing it is just an egg ~
2 1 day is the minimum time for a person to form a habit from the perspective of behavioral psychology. 2 1 day, from quantitative change to qualitative change!
There is a story in India. Share it here:
You did. I forgot.
You performed. I get it.
I have done it myself and studied it.
So we can see the importance of personal practice!
Finally, share two words:
Ear dance is practiced every day, and voice and emotion have become habits.
Simple practice to the extreme is the trick, and genius is the person who repeats the most!
Alas, I finally finished writing this article. It took four days to write this article, watching videos, drawing pictures and typing, and it took 14, 15 hours. I hope I can help you!