Just a few days after the start of school, children's kindergartens began to sign up for various interest classes. When the teacher began to speak, the parents didn't make any moves. In private, you ask me what to ask you. When the teacher announced the class list in the class group, few children signed up. A parent asked:
"Is art taught by our class teacher?"
"yes"
"Teacher, our family reported it."
"Teacher, our family also reported it."
"Teacher, our family also reported it."
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Now most children enter the park in two and a half to three weeks. I remember when I first entered the park last year, some parents asked the teacher if he was interested in taking classes and wanted to sign up. The teacher said that the child is still young, only next semester, not in the first semester. In the second semester, various interest classes came. When the children in the class reach three or three and a half weeks, some children are still young, and some parents have enrolled their children in dance classes. I just did a search on the Internet, and found that everyone has the age to start learning dance, but the most common thing is to start learning from the side. Just a few days ago, I just heard a parent in the children's class say that there is a child in the class. I signed up for a language performance class last year, but I didn't take any classes. This year, the child's parents signed up for several classes.
I remember when my niece was in elementary school, on the eve of a holiday, a parent suggested to all parents in the class that the teacher in the class should open a remedial class for the children during the holiday, so that all the children in the class could participate, and each child would give the money from the normal remedial class outside to the teacher. Although the teacher said that the Education Bureau would not allow in-service teachers to open remedial classes, the whole class participated because of the persuasion of parents. As a result, the Education Bureau conducted a severe investigation that holiday and stopped it a few days ago. Later, it changed the place into a basement and stopped for a few days. There were not many classes in the end, and the money was not refunded. The most terrible thing is that the teacher stopped talking about any classes at the beginning of the main class, and the real classes were in the remedial class. Students who don't report will not follow in class.
A parent was still discussing with me yesterday. These children are too young to accept regular classes. What interest classes should they enroll in? Yes, there are more than 20 people in an art interest class, all of which are the capacity of a class. When traveling with friends last year, she was carefully selecting gifts for her children's teachers. She told me that she was giving gifts to her teacher now. If you don't give them, who cares about your children? How's the atmosphere? During the Spring Festival, my sister also discussed how to invite teachers to dinner at home. I said:
"Why are you still doing this? Children study very well. "
"People began to give gifts. Don't pay attention to the teacher at the critical moment of the third grade, okay? "
What are our parents thinking? I really don't understand. Was it the same at the beginning of my child's primary school? This is really a kind of parenting anxiety. I don't know how to educate and treat my children well. Our aim is to let children learn well and don't want them to lose at the starting line. We have been enrolling children in various interest classes since kindergarten, with the aim of making them better. Did the child learn? How much did he learn? Have our parents asked the children who really want to operate and study? Do they like it? Have you ever thought about what children will think in such an atmosphere? What kind of education will be given to children?
Often parenting anxiety is actually our parents' own anxiety about life, which puts pressure on children. After working, our parents often worry that their children will work as hard as they do now, so they report endlessly to their children. When I saw other children reporting for class, I began to panic, saying that it was for children to compete, but in fact, parents were competing. It is the children who suffer in the end, and the children who are tired.
If you really want to reduce your child's burden, you need to correct this trend and treat your child's future correctly. Give children a happy childhood.
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