Some time ago, my sister was pregnant, so I accompanied her to the birth check-up. Obstetrics and Gynecology provides some simple training, such as how to feed scientifically, the diet of children aged x-xx, and some knowledge of massage for children. However, few parents attend the training. Some pregnant women often complain on the Internet that their parents' old parenting ideas don't match their own ideas, which leads to a war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Just like children's "pig hair wind", old people should wipe with water or gauze, and some novice mothers scrape with thread. Finally, the newborn baby's skin is delicate, infected with germs, and the skin is red and swollen in a large area, which requires hospitalization. The correct way is to take the child to the hospital as soon as possible. If the fetal fat is too thick, the doctor will prescribe special drugs to scrub, instead of rubbing hard to cause infection; Another example is: lactating mothers do not abstain from eating, eating spicy food or cold drinks, drinking or smoking. These all lead to various discomforts of the baby.
? When the children grow up, the bad influence of parents who work without a license is gradually reflected on the children, but all the disappointments are blamed on the children themselves. Children are a mirror of parents. On the Zhihu, there is a topic about how difficult it is to destroy a Xiong Haizi. Up to now, this topic has been read by 200 million people, followed by 654.38+06 million people, with more than 654.38+00000 answers and more than 20000 top answers. What concept? Behind every Xiong Haizi, there are at least two parents. People on earth are good at living. Every child comes into this world as a gift from God, a crystallization of parents' love and an angel of the family. However, the little angel grew up to be a little devil. The child is young, immature and has no concept of right and wrong. They need the correct education and guidance from their parents. When I was shopping in Wanda that day, when I entered the first door, I saw the curtain open and wanted to go in. As a result, a little boy threw away the curtain directly, then pulled it up, waiting for the next customer to come in, while the child's parents stood by and played with their mobile phones. Entering the second door, a little girl pushed the door and said, hurry up, aunt, I'll hold the door for you, while the child's mother watched her encourage. The little girl skipped to KFC holding her mother's hand with thanks. Perhaps by coincidence, I happened to meet two children of similar age. In contrast, I have to say that parents' education will be reflected in their children. During the summer vacation, the children had a holiday. In the Naughty Castle on the first floor of wanda plaza, many children can see the real situation of this family from their children. Some little girls cry for toys, some little girls take the initiative to pick up the garbage on the ground and send it to the trash can, some little boys rampage in the shopping mall, and some study quietly next door. Parents are children's first teachers, and their own advantages and disadvantages will be magnified several times to present to children. The saddest thing is that parents don't know about going to work without a license.
Some time ago, I chatted with my friends. During the conversation, he said, I want to break up with my parents. Why? Parents don't agree because of the chosen object. It is believed that not marrying the object of one's choice has no good economic strength and no guarantee for the parents of the other party, which will seriously affect the quality of life in the future. From the standpoint of parents, it is out of concern for their children's future life, but they ignore their own personal wishes. During this period, my friends made a lot of efforts and made great efforts. Two people make money to buy a house, hoping that their parents can see that they are fighting for a better life in the future. However, everything did not develop according to the predetermined trajectory, and parents still disagreed, criticized and abused. Finally, my friend moved out of the house and borrowed wine day and night to drown his sorrows. Why do you always put yourself in the middle and do multiple-choice questions that you don't want to do? Everyone will encounter all kinds of problems in their daily life. Parents who love their children are willing to pave the way for you, but you don't want to go that way.