The source of the allusion: "Knowing without doing is just unknown" comes from the fifth part of Notes. "This has been cut off by selfish desires, not the ontology of knowing and doing. Those who don't know but don't do it, know but don't do it, just unknown. "
Practical explanation: Many parents are troubled by this phenomenon-children know everything when they tell the truth, waste everything when they do things, or often just talk and do nothing at all. Why is this? A Xing and A Zhi said to Xiao Yi and Xiao Liang, "Knowing but not doing is just unknown", and we should truly "integrate knowledge with practice". Only in this way can we become a trustworthy and reliable person.
Section 2 I know what I am doing and do the right thing.
"Dad, classmate Manqi invited me to attend the COSPLAY ball organized by her mother tomorrow. Do you have time to accompany me? " Xiaoyi asked his father.
"Ok, no problem." Emirates replied.
Tomorrow is Saturday. We got together early in the morning, put on the costume of Balala's little devil fairy, took the wand, got in Dad's car and went to the dance.
The dance scene is in the square in front of a big shopping mall. When Xiao Yi and his father arrived there, there was no one there, only a makeshift stage in the square, and some people were busy. Xiaoyi scanned a circle and didn't see Maggie. Maggie made an appointment with her at eight in the morning, and the first one came on time, no more, no less.
Ten minutes later, Xiaoyi saw Manqi and her mother arrive at the scene unhurriedly. Xiaoyi greeted her quickly, greeted Manqi's mother and asked Manqi, "When does the dance start?"
Maggie looked around absently and said, "It's still early. You play by yourself for a while first. I have to help my mother. "
Xiao Yi gave a cry and walked away with some grievances.
The sight seen here is not quite what she imagined. Yesterday after school, Manqi told her that she invited other students to the dance, and the scene would be very lively. She particularly stressed that she must wear beautiful and novel clothes in order to have fun.
Maggie glanced around. None of the students saw anyone except Manqi. Only around the stage, there are many little girls who look as big as their younger brother Xiao Liang, wearing dance costumes, as if they are ready to perform. Standing in the crowd, Primary One feels very different. Her face is burning. Hiding behind my father, I dare not plunge into the crowd.
O line also feel strange. He gently stroked Xiao Yi's hair and said, "Is Maggie mistaken? It's not like a COSPLAY ball! "
Before Xiaoyi could speak, a young woman came over with a pile of leaflets and handed it to A Xing, saying, "Do children need to learn to dance?" If you are interested, just look around. "Emirates took a look. That's an enrollment leaflet for a dance training class. The contact person on it is Maggie's mother.
Emirates learned that Manqi's mother opened a dance training class. Today's activity is to promote enrollment, not a COSPLAY dance specially held for first-year students. The reason why Maggie is called Xiao Yi is nothing more than to gather a group of people and look lively.
Thought of here, and then look at her daughter with a disappointed expression on her face, Emirates couldn't help feeling angry. But on second thought, since I'm here, I'd better wait a little longer, in case someone really does a COSPLAY dance.
Manqi and her mother are busy arranging people to distribute leaflets, answer the consultant's questions, and organize those children to perform on stage, which will arouse popularity. After passing xiaoyi several times, manqi didn't even look at it, as if she hadn't invited xiaoyi.
Xiaoyi looked down at his costume and looked at the wand in his hand. He had a feeling of being teased. She didn't expect that Maggie turned out to be such a person! It's so unreliable!
A Xing lowered her head and asked her daughter, "Xiaoyi, let me take you to the mall to see if there is anything you want to buy?"
Xiaoyi is in a bad mood and can't bear to go shopping. She looked up and forced a smile and said, "No .. Dad, let's stay here for a while, in case Maggie has any plans. Beware of delays. I promised her. "
In this way, the father and the daughter stayed in the corner near the stage until the end of the performance. Manqi was almost busy and came over to Xiaoyi and said, "We have nothing to do here. Go back first if you have something to do. "
Xiao Yi's heart was completely cold at what Manqi said. She wouldn't give up and asked, "Maggie, didn't you say there were other students coming?" Why can't you see anyone? "
Maggie said crossly, "They have no credit! We promised to come, but none of them came! Well, I won't play with them anymore. "
"What about the COSPLAY ball you said?" Xiaoyi asked.
"Ha ha ha!" Looking at Xiaoyi's serious expression, Manqi smiled: "I'm just teasing you! I didn't expect you to take it seriously. "
"How could you! ? "XiaoYi finally broke out.
"No way." Seeing Xiaoyi angry, Manqi explained: "Mom's dance training class is going to enroll students. Let me help her find some classmates to heat up. I said it was a COSPLAY ball, only you came; If I tell the truth, I'm afraid nobody will come. So are those students, one after another. You are sincere. "
Xiaoyi is speechless. She held back everything she wanted to say and calmed down and said, "All right. I will go back first. "
On the way home, Xiao Yi bowed his head and said nothing. Emirates knew her daughter was sad and comforted her assiduously.
As soon as he entered the house, Xiao Liang jumped up and shouted, "Sister, is it fun to dance?"
Azhi also smiled and asked, "What about Xiao Yi? Did you have fun today? "
Xiaoyi complained about attending the dance. Later, Xiao Yi added angrily, "I wasted the whole morning! I will never do such a stupid thing again! "
Hearing Xiaoyi say this, Azhi was very distressed and said, "Son, it's not stupid, it's right."
"I've been teased. Isn't it stupid enough?" Xiaoyi asked.
"Is Maggie your classmate?" Azhi asked.
"Yes, of course." Xiaoyi's face was blank, and she didn't know why her mother asked.
"The classmate invited you to her activities, and you agreed. Do you have to abide by the agreement? " Ah Tong then asked.
"Of course. Since you have promised others, you must do it. " Xiao Yi replied.
"Did you do it?" Azhi asked.
"I arrived earlier than Maggie. I listened to her, dressed in Balala's little magic fairy suit and holding a wand. I did everything she agreed to do. " Xiao Yi replied.
"So, did you do something wrong?" Azhi asked.
"I don't think I did anything wrong." Xiao Yi replied.
"So, who is wrong?" Azhi asked.
"It's all Maggie's problem. She shouldn't lie to me. Even if she tells me the truth, I think I will help. " Xiaoyi said.
"Mom asks you, is it stupid for a person to do the right thing?" Azhi asked.
Xiaoyi thought for a moment, with a relieved expression on his face, and said, "I was angry with Maggie. She did something wrong, why should I bear the consequences? "
Azhi smiled and said, "That's right. Daughter said to do it, knowing and doing, and having a clear conscience. Mann should be ashamed of his behavior. "
"Alas," Xiaoyi sighed, "it's a pity that I wasted half a day on my beautiful Saturday."
"I don't think so." Azhi said, "I understand that you didn't waste your morning time, but you gained something."
Xiaoyi looked at her mother with puzzled eyes and thought, what have I got?
Azhi went on to say: "I think you have at least two gains." First of all, you know yourself. I know what I did was right, not stupid; Second, you got to know Manchi again. If there is no such thing, then you can't understand that Manqi has a problem of lying and breaking the agreement. "
The little one nodded and said, "Mom is right. I will never trust others again. "
Azhi shook his head and said earnestly, "Son, if you think like this, you will lose yourself again. You trust your classmates because you live in the same environment and know each other to a certain extent, but the understanding may not be enough. A classmate cheated you once, and you no longer trust her, even others. This is because others have influenced your heart and lost your own. If so, aren't you and Maggie the same? She lied to you because she was afraid to tell you the truth and you didn't help. The root cause is that she doesn't believe you. If she believed you, why did she lie? On the other hand, you no longer trust others because of this, are you like Maggie? "
The little one nodded and said, "I trust others." What if I am cheated again? "
Azhi said, "For example, if you choose to trust Manqi again, if she cheats you again, it means that she doesn't realize her wrong behavior. In this way, you can basically judge whether to continue to be friends with her, which is what people often say, just three things; If she stops cheating on you and is honest with you from now on, it means that through this incident, she realized her mistake, and at the same time, she realized you as a person and really believed you. In other words, she has been changed by you. In this way, you get a friend. The most important thing is that in this process, you have never lost yourself, and you have not been affected by Manqi's mistakes. Imagine that a man can affect you. In the future, there will be more manqi, and everyone's mistakes will affect you. What did you do wrong? I'm afraid I won't even know myself by then. "
After listening to her mother's words, Xiaoyi suddenly realized, saying, "It's a good thing that my mother helped me analyze so much, otherwise I wouldn't know that I made Manqi's mistake in the future."
Conscience: people often say that society is a big dye vat. In fact, dye vats are everywhere. Family and school are also vats. The only difference is the dye.
On the basis of this premise, how should we define "person"?
Some people say that a newborn person, or a person who has just entered the society, is like a blank sheet of paper. The metaphor is good, saying that everyone's nature is pure. However, in this way, there is a big problem. White paper itself can't decide what pigment to dye, but it can only be at the mercy of others, coming out of this vat and then going to that vat, dyeing and dyeing, even I can't recognize myself.
Although no one wants to do this, in fact, many people do. These people are people who lack independent thinking and self-awareness ability.
There is only one way to get rid of such a tragic fate, and that is to become a person with a brush. Take a paintbrush and it's up to you to decide what paint you want to be contaminated with. At this level, at least you have the ability to think independently.
Even so, you may not be able to draw works that satisfy you, but you should also master the methods of painting: how to compose a composition, how to brush, how to match colors and so on. If you don't master these methods, there will be a big gap between the painted works and the imagined pictures.
These so-called methods are knowledge; The writing process is ok.
Mr. Yangming said, the knower does what he knows, and the walker knows what he does. Mastering the method is the beginning of success.
The relationship between Xiaoyi and Manqi is a tiny part of her life picture. Manqi handed Xiao Yi a box of inferior dyes. Xiao Yi's brush has been stained with this pigment, and he is almost ready to start painting. Aki stopped her at the right time.
First, A Zhi told Xiao Yi what was right and what was wrong. This is cleaning the brush and washing away the inferior pigments that were originally contaminated on the brush.
Secondly, Aki told Primary One to do the right thing and not be influenced by other people's mistakes. This is the right way to re-pollute high-quality pigments and paints.
Life is the process of painting. When you draw, you draw yourself. When I was a child, before I went to school, my parents taught us to draw. A little older, when we were at school, the teacher began to teach us to draw again; It was not until adulthood that this brush was really in my own hands.
Only those who know and can do can draw works that satisfy themselves and please others.