Once I went to the hospital to see a doctor, because an old lady with hemiplegia and some dementia was carried by her child in front of a famous orthopedic surgeon, and other doctors gave her a place. When the famous doctor asked the old woman face to face, he motioned the old woman to stand up, and the children should not be hugged. The old woman stood up as obedient as a child, and the famous doctor put up two fingers and said, take two steps forward, just two steps!
The famous doctor looked at the old woman expectantly. The old woman really took two steps forward, but the famous doctor still said to her with wings in his eyes, take two more steps! Take two more steps, old woman. The children were very surprised.
The famous doctor turned his head and said to the child that your mother's illness is not in the bones, but in the heart and brain. The heart governs the brain, and the brain governs the action. Heart ischemia, blood supply to the head, the head can't control the bones, just like a machine, the central part is short of oil, but you put the oil in the secondary part, and the central part doesn't work. Isn't it urgent? Muscle and other capillaries, ischemia will produce various diseases. This time, my treatment here mainly starts with enriching blood. ...
Children and patients nodded yes.
The famous doctor prescribed Chinese herbal medicine for enriching blood for the old woman, and then the children carried the old woman on their backs and left happily.
When I got home, I repeatedly thought about the famous doctor's words, "the heart dominates the brain, and the brain dominates the action." Why didn't I keep this knowledge in mind before? Indeed, you see, when we were young, we wanted to climb trees. As soon as this signal is sent out in our hearts, the brain will dominate the limbs with the command of the heart, and the limbs will climb to the trunk lightly under the control of the brain. Now, my heart is old, and when I see the potholes on the road, my first reaction is to order my brain to walk around. Therefore, people can't walk, sit, stand, speak and act without happiness and brain. Therefore, as early as the ancient man-made characters, words related to the heart were created: the heart is higher than the sky, the life is thinner than paper, and there are countless ripples in the heart, such as the heart is like a knife, and the mind is not correct. Words of the brain: brain, what is stored in the brain. ...
A few years ago, I gave my friend a book by Yu Dan. My friend said that no one can read this kind of thing now, even useful books. I think I must be old-fashioned and can't keep up with people's thinking now, so I gave the book that Yu Dan left at home to another friend. At that time, Yu Dan's works and speeches were opposed by many scholars. Soon, Yu Dan's fever was like a gust of wind. The trend of repeating benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trust has also vanished.
Once I went to repair the computer, I saw the owner's three-year-old daughter, carrying a small hand, shouting about the rules of taking an apprentice. I was shocked and appalled. I learned a little about it and learned that the shopkeepers and their wives are college students, so their way of raising children is very special. These children are too young to be raised by uneducated parents. The little girl is very cultured and has the quality of being a human being. I am in awe of the intellectuals in my childhood, who can raise such offspring by themselves.
Later, I read in the newspaper that a poor female parent in Henan killed her child alive because she taught her son in primary school to recite the Disciple Rules, but his son did not honor her according to the Disciple Rules.
A college student and a poor woman have different knowledge, different upbringing methods and expectations, and different results. The blind obedience that Confucius once said, and the dogmatism that continues Confucius, have not been well applied to the education of China people.
Personally, I think, whether in the 1930s, 1950s, 1960s or 1980s, if Confucius' benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith had been integrated into our students' textbooks, China people's civility, courtesy and comprehensive quality would be much better than now.
I heard from a friend who traveled to Taiwan Province Province that people in Taiwan Province Province have good comprehensive quality and good manners. There are no cigarette butts, nuts and waste paper on the road. All the food you eat casually is put in spare plastic bags, and then put into the garbage bin regularly. The advertisements at the street gate are all ancient Chinese characters. It seems that the true meaning of ancestors has been put to good use by a person from Taiwan Province Province, China. Century-old trees can be seen everywhere in Taiwan Province Province, and the roads in Taiwan Province Province have not fallen. ...
China is a vast country with a population of 654.38+03 billion. It is really difficult to manage its people in such a concrete way, even if they are living buddhas, not to mention that there is only one king in such a big country. Country and home, home and country, are all the same. Just like a family, one child is easy to manage and ten children are difficult to manage. Then, we China people should manage ourselves, restrain ourselves and improve our civilized quality. We are all civilized people. Which country dares to discriminate against us easily? Yes, we really shouldn't complain about students' textbooks, we should find the reasons from ourselves. Laozi laid a good foundation for us, but we didn't make good use of it.
I like civilized, inspirational, enterprising and other positive things. But growing up in the countryside, I really want to absorb the desirable people and things around me, and I have been fighting against uncivilized things. I really want to be a lotus that emerges from the mud and is not stained, but the lotus can only live in water, and it will wither when moved to dry land.
I like to look at people and things, and I like to appreciate everyone and everything in the city, but when the romance in my heart sublimates to my eyes and I look for excitement in the flowers and shade with a spring breeze on my face, inadvertently, an adult man will appear under the green trees or at the edge of the fence from time to time and pee in the field; Sometimes on the bus, when it is not out of downtown, looking at the tall buildings and the graceful gestures of the traffic police, indecent men will pee in front of them, and sometimes they will boldly face the beautiful women on the bus. ...
I feel blush and shame for such a person. Fortunately, I care about women very much and I know how to pay attention to details.
About Duan, once, I went out to do business, and the toilets in this place were not open to the public. I'm in a hurry to pee and go out to find the toilet. There are so many tall buildings here, the roads are spacious, and the green belts are faint. I can hardly hold my eyes, so I called my son and asked what to do. My son said that "the living can still hold back urine", but I can only hold back until it's over. Going home by bus, incontinence, abdominal pain. I released light blood, followed by red blood. I went to the hospital immediately, and the doctor said that my abdomen was suffocating, and it took hundreds of dollars to cure it. At this time, I understood the men who used to make me sick. I think if we divide the city into regions and tribes and set up some public toilets, will these indecent people be few?
I think even if there are so many toilets in the city, these phenomena can't be eliminated, because the education and cultivation of China people from childhood are far from enough.
I like dealing with people. In the past two years, I have given my clients haircuts. What I have learned most is that a person's sitting posture can represent a person's psychology, a person's ideological morality and a family's civilized education. You can tell a person's quality from his sitting posture.
Sitting posture is first dominated by the brain, and sitting posture comes from habitual psychology. A person, let alone teenagers, because teenagers are driven by their parents in advance. Parents' words and deeds are children's model teachers, and children like to imitate their parents. If you go to school, you will imitate your teacher. Teenagers grow up for a long time, so they have the opportunity to learn, do and change.
But old people often say that from the age of three to adulthood, parents' guidance and education are the most critical. Geographically speaking, children in the south are particularly sensible. No matter whether the family is rich or poor, their self-reliance ability is very strong, which is directly related to the influence of their parents since childhood. This is what parents and children in the north should learn.
Southern children will stand up straight in barber chairs. He behaves like an adult, and the level of civilization will surprise you. He is descended from the same country, but he is completely different. This is what the old people say, a mother has nine children, and nine children are different! I am proud that my country has such descendants.
For rigid adults, an adult man with inner self-cultivation comes to the hair salon, says hello to the price, takes back his legs after sitting down, leans his head straight and consciously on the chair, waiting for you to take care of his hair. This dignified sitting posture and motionless and respectful psychology make you feel very comfortable. Most of these people are soldiers from the army, and the melting pot of the army has created groups of China people. The contribution of the army to society is enormous, no less than that of famous universities. The people who came out of the army, their posture, manners and comprehensive quality, brought us an elegant and extraordinary landscape. Soldiers are very strict about sitting posture, not affectation, but essence.
Educated people, the more educated, the more civilized. Although they have not received formal training like the army and seem to be self-taught, at least they have stood. Know how to respect others.
Then there are businessmen, who fully understand people in terms of price and don't care too much. Sitting posture? It varies from person to person, and you know how to cooperate.
The bad reviews are all freelancers, migrant workers, or small children who dropped out of school early. From entering the room to sitting strangely, they have no thoughts and do whatever they want. They don't hold their heads high, but stagger, making you waste time and effort, but he is complacent.
I want to post a notice in front of the mirror several times. Please sit down!
A person's quality can be seen from his sitting posture. A person who sits well will first insist on strict requirements for his sitting posture, because his brain dominates him sitting like this, and his brain is dominated by his old thinking.
I learned my sitting posture from my aunt when I came to the city. My aunt works in Mudanjiang International Travel Service. At that time, their service industry often exchanged training by walking, standing and attending classes. When menstruation sits, he always puts his legs side by side, with his fingertips interlocked and placed on his thigh. She leans slightly when talking with others. Her eyes should be aimed at Tang Yin above the other person's eyes, and she must never look directly into people's eyes. My aunt's overall comprehensive quality has been very good all her life. Even when she was dying, she still left a good impression on us.
My mother sits stiff, just like a little girl (but my mother is a half-foot girl), and her legs are twisted into a cattail leaf fan, which is very quaint. Although my mother doesn't have much education, her heart is very strong, which makes her gradually practice herself very morally.
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A person's sitting posture is very important. Once, a college student dragged a worker to sit on the back platform of a bus, holding his knees, very stiff, afraid of getting his clothes dirty. He photographed it with his mobile phone and posted it on the Internet, causing a sensation. I admire this wage earner very much. Although he has some inferiority complex, his first concern is to respect others. He knows to put himself in his position.
Many people, I'm afraid, can't even see their own shortcomings and don't want to get rid of them. They are always recognized because of their own advantages, complacent and complacent.
People, no matter what they do, must first have virtue and walk with virtue; Going to the toilet has the virtue of going to the toilet; Eating is good. Once a person went to a small restaurant to spend money and ate a plate of spicy tofu. No matter how busy the hotel staff is, he cries for toothpicks. Will tofu plug your teeth? The waiter delivered the toothpick late, so he made things difficult for him. As a result, the next table looked unfair and got a fat beating. The man left with a black face. Such people don't know where they are and spend a little money thinking that they are really gods.
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From a person's sitting posture, you can really see a person's quality. Good sitting posture, standing posture, language and comprehensive quality. In my eyes, I will respect this kind of person, whether he is a local, a foreigner, a boss or a wage earner, as long as he enters the room and sits in a chair, and respect his own civilized quality and moral cultivation.
I'm not a scholar, I just worship people with culture and quality! Civilization, literature and culture, I have nothing to talk about. I just poured my countless experiences on paper. Maybe you will have some feelings after reading it, which is helpful to educate children. ...