The first year of graduation is really important. First of all, you only do it for six months. To others, you are still a fresh graduate. You've been busy for half a year! And the timing of resignation is not right. I've had the same experience. Every time I resign, it's the wrong time and I've been unemployed. At that time, the whole person's energy was very bad.

Let me tell you something about my work experience and experience in the past two years.

I am introverted and quiet by nature, and my family are all in business and work hard, which leads to my dual personality: on the one hand, I become very introverted and silent, on the other hand, I am eager to be strong and a little independent and outgoing. So after I went to college, I did various part-time jobs: promotion, event planning, cosmetics sales, Taobao operation. ...

I am a foreign trade major, and I am very confused after graduation. At that time, I felt that I was more inclined to marketing and copywriting planning, but obviously, it was not appropriate for me to find copywriting planning, so I still found a job in foreign trade. After working for several months, I felt that my salary was not high and my personality made it impossible for me to communicate with my customers, so I resigned. Just when it was hard to find a job in July and August, it took me nearly a month to find a small company (of course Yiwu is a small company! ), took an order from Alibaba International and resigned at the end of the year, because I found that everyone in this company didn't talk and the atmosphere was like JS. I greeted them warmly and didn't even lift my eyelids! I couldn't take it anymore, so I resigned.

I think Yiwu is a small company with no future. When I was in college, I took the Taobao project and did it myself. But after more than a year, I found it didn't work. The year before last, most of the savings were used to buy SLR and equipment, and a small part was used to purchase goods. Because I also studied PS in college, I want to rely on myself. However, a person is exhausted from 8 am to 1 am every day, and no like-minded people come to help me. And business is not good, and the diameter is difficult to turn. Later, when I came home, my mother saw that I was black and thin like a refugee! And the college student loan program is a fool! After running for two months, it was not approved for me because of the omission of the bank's unilateral audit procedure. Because the funds can't keep up, I have to borrow from others. Anyway, I can't hold it, and I can't turn much every month. All the money I earn is goods!

At this time, my sister was 25 years old and accomplished nothing in her career. It is too late and unrealistic to learn a new industry, and I am forced to get married by my family. Marry a good man if you are high or low! So I escaped.

I finally understand a few questions:

Now Taobao, a single person is not the enemy of team division of labor ability, but also the enemy of enterprise financial ability, which will only be exhausted!

Resignation must be at the end of the year or at the beginning of the year, when it is easier to find a job.

Finding a job is the same as finding a lover. Better short than extravagant. Find a company with a good environment and good treatment and stay in it for three to five years. Then it is definitely better for you to go out and look for a job than those who have stayed in the other three companies for three years, because that is synonymous with "practicality"! ! ! My classmate stayed in the first company for two years after graduation. Although their boss is very stingy and hypocritical, saying that he is very kind to her and values her very much, he can do something that she can tear up documents in front of her and organize company activities, so my classmate is very patient! ! ! It is absolutely impossible for me, which leads to the difference between me and my classmates.

A person's life is too short to be omnipotent and all-encompassing. It's past prime time when you're swinging!

Think clearly about your strengths, skills and knowledge. Even if you don't love it, as long as it can make you make money in this society, you must use it wholeheartedly and carry it forward! ! !

Well, that's basically it. Career planning is very important anyway.

My friend graduated from technical secondary school. He is good at repairing household appliances and machinery. He can make his own finished machine with thousands of pieces bought by PK people, and he has also done stone carving. At present, he is doing Taobao customer service (because he doesn't understand it at all, he was tricked into doing odd jobs and packing).

My advice to him is: think about your own advantages, and mix in industries that you don't understand and don't work hard enough, and you are destined to be at the bottom. He knows technology (even can be said to be gifted) and can take the road of "technician-assistant engineer-junior engineer-senior engineer". Even if he is forty or fifty years old, he will get the title of "senior", but as long as he is on this road, he will have a good harvest one day! Running around in all walks of life, he can never mix well, and he can only get two or three thousand wages forever!

You too, think about your own path. Really, you can only choose one. Of course, it may not be very narrow to choose only one item, so I told my friend that if he can be an engineer and be proficient in all aspects, it will be very advantageous to switch to R&D!

Therefore, if you want to do research and development, you must also know how to lay the foundation first and then adapt!