How to be a parent today? What kind of people do we want our children to be?

The ultimate goal of education is to cultivate children's lifelong happiness. Happiness does not come from blessings, but from our own efforts.

A harmonious family is the soil for children to grow up, and the relationship between husband and wife is above everything else. Don't try to change others by learning. Whoever learns will realize and change, and living a good life is the real skill. Believe in the power of faith. Only by believing can we teach excellent children.

Second, why do you know but can't do it?

Because I don't believe, I don't have enough inner strength, so I make excuses for myself. Only by going deep into the subconscious can we achieve the unity of knowledge and action. Through repeated study and practice, and then teach others, enhance the sense of responsibility, the greatest altruism is self-interest.

Third, how to influence children?

The real purpose of learning is to lead to the change of behavior, and the unity of knowing and doing is the ability. Opening children's active thinking ability is not to impart knowledge, but to change the way of thinking. If you want your child to be a thoughtful and innovative person, don't use orders and instructions. Direct interference between hands and feet is the way to keep pets.

Make good relations, be sure at any time and criticize regularly!

Let go of anxiety and look at children's lives with a developmental perspective. Cultivate children's ability to work hard and learn actively before the age of 20. 20 to 40 years old is a glorious period for a person to grow up. The bitterness of childhood will become the greatest wealth in the future.