When I was in college, I heard that high IQ and low EQ would not succeed. At that time, I was also a "favored son of heaven", and the high IQ I admired since I was a child was pulled down from the altar, so I quickly popularized what EQ was. Emotional intelligence mainly refers to people's qualities in emotion, will and frustration tolerance. Generally speaking, there is no obvious innate difference in EQ between people, and it is more closely related to the cultivation of the day after tomorrow. Unfortunately, I didn't care at that time, and I was more focused on school study. I can't find another word except calling myself stupid.
No one with high IQ has participated in any comprehensive and systematic courses to cultivate, improve and change emotional intelligence, and entered the work unit from the ivory tower. After working for several years, I heard another new term "financial quotient". Financial Quotient: Originally meant as "financial quotient", financial quotient refers to the ability of individuals and collectives to know, create and manage wealth, including three aspects: concept, knowledge and behavior. Financial quotient includes two abilities: one is the ability to create wealth and understand the law of wealth multiplication (that is, values); The second is the ability to control wealth and use it. Financial quotient is the three indispensable qualities of modern social ability alongside IQ and EQ. Money is a concept, and money is also a quantitative expression of the ability to control the material world. Money thought can show a person's IQ, EQ, financial quotient, adversity quotient (the ability to bear adversity and frustration) and so on. Financial quotient is not produced through training and education. Financial quotient is cultivated, edified and experienced through spiritual world and business mind. Through the cultivation of financial quotient, its purpose is to establish a correct view of money, values and outlook on life. Financial quotient is one of the key factors for a successful life. In a person's life, the main time period for the formation of financial quotient, IQ and EQ is adolescence.
Now there is another "quotient" and "adversity quotient". Adversity quotient)AQ comes from English adversity quotient, the full name of which is generally translated as frustration quotient or adversity quotient. Refers to the way people cope with adversity, that is, the ability to face setbacks, get rid of difficulties and surmount difficulties. IQ, EQ and AQ, also called 3Q, have become the only magic weapon for people to succeed. Some experts even assert that 100% success =20% IQ +80% EQ and AQ. AQ not only measures a person's ability to overcome work setbacks, but also measures a person's ability to overcome any setbacks. The same blow, people with high AQ have low frustration, while people with low AQ have strong frustration. Psychologists believe that a person's career success must have three factors: high IQ, high EQ and high frustration quotient. When the IQ is not much different from others, the frustration quotient plays a decisive role in a person's career success. The same high AQ can be cultivated, and it is best to cultivate it from an early age.
Can you live a happy and healthy life by cultivating high emotional intelligence, high frustration quotient and high financial quotient (it seems impossible to cultivate high IQ) from an early age? Do people who don't have "three high quotients" really live in "hot water"? Personally, I don't think. Personally, I think everything depends on your health as well as your life. Perhaps we should cultivate "health quotient" or "medical quotient" from an early age, so that we can clearly know what is really beneficial to the body, not what is popular health. The present nutrition is more in line with the western eating habits than the constitution and eating habits of China people. What's more, what these nutritionists admire now may be criticized ten years later; Things that were criticized ten years ago are now respected, such as cholesterol and aspirin.
What is the most fundamental health knowledge? Personally, I think Chinese medicine may be more suitable for me than western medicine. After all, it has gone through thousands of years of tests and experiments. Without western medicine, our ancestors were not extinct for thousands of years. Why do you want them to be mice of western medicine? Of course, I also know what I am facing when I say this. I always say, I'm fighting against the windmill, and I'm sailing against the current, so I only say it once to people around me, willing to listen and do, and I'll continue to say it, otherwise I won't say it again, so that I can calm down and have more energy to think. Of course, it has also been criticized by people around, but I said that life is my own, and life and death have nothing to do with me. In fact, as long as you listen and watch more, it is more important to think more, ask more questions and learn more, and you will naturally understand. In this information-intensive era, we need to have the ability to distinguish between true and false knowledge, which is particularly important in health knowledge. For many ambiguous statements, we should verify them, so that we can step by step towards true knowledge.
A healthy life requires us to learn from an early age and prove it with practice, instead of pinning our health on doctors and making our own decisions.