Etiquette principle:

First, respect the principle of human beings; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, prudence, initiative, voluntariness, courtesy, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-discipline, self-control, arrogance, duplicity; The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and control; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, treat people sincerely, treat people sincerely, don't take part in accidental amusement, and behave differently.

Basic conditions: good looks, tall figure, young and healthy, elegant temperament, sweet timbre, quick response, wit and flexibility, and good at communication.

The best makeup should be: light makeup, curly hair, wearing a monochrome cheongsam with uniform style, fabric and color, with flesh-colored pantyhose and black high heels. Don't wear any jewelry except rings, earrings or earrings. Sometimes, the hostess can wear dark or monochrome clothes. However, they must dress as neatly as possible.

(1). tool

Instrument refers to a person's appearance, which is the external expression of a person's mental outlook. A person's hygiene habits and clothes are closely related to the formation and maintenance of a dignified and generous appearance.

1. Hygiene: Cleanliness is the key to beautiful appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful clothes and luxurious clothes are, if the whole body is covered with dirt and smell, it will inevitably destroy a person's aesthetic feeling. When talking with people, keep a certain distance, don't speak too loudly, and don't splash on the population.

2. Clothing: Specifically, it should be natural and decent, coordinated and generous, and abide by some established norms or principles. Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also always pay attention to the dress requirements of objective environment and occasions, that is, dress should give priority to time, place and purpose, and strive to keep in harmony with time, place and purpose in all aspects of dress.

(2) Speech

1, courtesy: be sincere and kind; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others. 2. Terminology: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy. Such as "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "you" in the second person. The first meeting was "I've heard a lot about you"; I haven't seen you for a long time. Please criticize it as "teaching"; Trouble others call it "disturbing"; Seeking convenience is "borrowing light"; Ask people to do things, such as "please". Efforts should be made to form the habit of using honorifics. At present, the polite expressions advocated in China are ten words: "hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye". These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization.

(3) Manners and manners

1, Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality. So when talking, first of all, both sides should face each other squarely and listen to each other. They shouldn't look around, read books and newspapers, look tired and yawn. Otherwise, it will give people the impression of being absent-minded and arrogant.

2, standing posture: standing posture is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, and the shoulders should be relaxed. Arms naturally droop or cross in front of the body, eyes straight and smiling. Don't bend your neck, waist and legs when standing. In some formal occasions, it is not advisable to put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, let alone make some small moves unconsciously. This will not only appear stiff, give people a feeling of lack of self-confidence, but also lose the dignity of etiquette.

3, sitting posture: sitting is also a static shape. A dignified and elegant sitting posture will give people an elegant, steady and natural aesthetic feeling. The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle when you sit down, dignified and steady when you get up, and you can't rattle tables and chairs and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what kind of sitting posture, the upper body should be kept straight, just like the ancients said, "sitting like a clock." If you insist on this, no matter how you change your posture, it will be beautiful and natural.

4. Walking posture: Walking is the main action in people's life, and walking posture is a dynamic beauty. "Walking like the wind" means using popular water to describe a brisk and natural gait. The correct walking posture is: light and steady, chest raised, shoulders relaxed, eyes looking straight, smiling, swinging arms naturally.