Professor Xiaowen is the director and vice president of counseling in Jinan International University in Taiwan Province Province, and also the supervisor of my psychological growth. I have gained a lot in Xiaomen's growth plan!
Xiao Lao, 68, is a combination of knowledge and wisdom. His profound knowledge, rigorous supervision, keen thinking, humorous language, diverse personality and vivid teaching all surprised me.
I remember when we first started to accept supervision at the beginning of the year, as soon as we met, we said, I'll play with you in class, but don't take it seriously. Don't take anything seriously, especially psychological counseling. Or you're dead!
During my time with the teacher, I chose a few shots to entertain you.
About the family:
Xiao Lao: Who knows who my supervisor is?
? ……? !
? Xiao Lao: This is my wife, really! All of us here really need the supervision of a family, so that we can make progress without detours in our studies! You should always report to the supervisor, for example, if I come to the mainland to give you a class, the supervisor will be relieved!
About food:
Xiao Lao: I'm a big fan of food! There are many delicious foods on the mainland, which are extremely delicious! When I am invited to class, the first thing I usually ask is what's delicious? Tell you a secret, when I came, the luggage compartment 1/3 was full of food, and of course there were snacks in the car! I especially like wearing a suit. I can put cigarettes in one pocket and snacks in the other. Last night, I invited my teacher to dinner. He tasted several Beijing snacks with satisfaction. After careful tasting, he sincerely said to me: Yu Kai, you are a professional, thank you!
About cigarettes:
Teachers love smoking, but they never smoke in class or in public. No matter when and where, there is always a Marlboro in the clothes bag.
Once in the smoking section during recess, I asked him if he couldn't quit. I see you always smoke a certain brand of Marlboro?
Xiao Lao: Resign? Do you really want me to die early? Yu Kai, I'm telling you, I started smoking when I was studying in the United States more than 40 years ago, and I only smoke this brand. One is love, and the other is brand loyalty!
About growth:
When I consult, it's as easy as you
He looked at me solemnly and said, are you over forty this year? Multiply that age by 2.5, just kidding!
About libel:
Xiao Lao: Some people say that my lecture has no content, damn it! I never respond, so as not to give others a topic.
Let me tell you the truth! At my age, only three or four people in Taiwan Province Province are still consulting for front-line jobs, but there are about 500 people who have graduated with master's and doctor's degrees in psychology under my guidance. At present, they are the backbone of psychology active in three places across the Taiwan Strait.
About class:
From time to time, he will walk among the students and play a serious joke with you. For example, he will say that he just came here today.
For example, if you answer a question that no one answers, he will say that what you said is a fart!
Sometimes when your answer makes him very satisfied, he will smile and say, go to hell!
Well, if you are absent-minded in class, he will point at you and say what the hell is that? …
So the class is always full of joy, relaxation and knowing laughter!
About mobile phones:
Xiao Lao: Have you seen the mobile phone I'm holding? It's an antique from 15 years ago. I hope you treat me like a fool. The other mobile phone used for surfing the Internet is for my office use, and I don't usually give it to others.
About film and television:
Xiao Lao: I especially like watching TV, movies, foreign ones, Hong Kong and Taiwan! Specially shot in Chinese mainland, it's great! I have many directors and actors, and that is life, which is the inspiration and material for our consultation.
I suggest you read more books, not just professional books! After a long time, you will know whether it is you, me or him.
About the generation gap:
Xiao Lao: Times have changed. There must be a generation gap! I must try to adapt. I live in Taichung and my son is in Taipei. Sometimes I ask him to come back to see me, and he will say, Dad, you have to pay my high-speed rail fare! I will laugh at him and say, let's AA, half for each person. Aren't you going to do your thing when you come back?
About courseware:
Teacher Xiao usually doesn't do courseware. He can talk for days on a few thin pieces of paper. Knowledge, connotation, stories and allusions are all there. Oh, my God! Far better than that courseware!
Regarding supervision:
He will lead you to a new vision, a new height, a new realm and a new consciousness in silence.
Metaphor is like the book of songs: "fish play with lotus leaves, western fish play with lotus leaves, eastern fish play with lotus leaves, southern fish like to play with lotus leaves, and northern fish play with lotus leaves." On the question of visitors, you should be comfortable between lotus leaves, east and west, north and south, and enter the context of visitors during the game. Wonderful!
Professor Xiao Wen is like a thick book. On the road of psychological growth, I am fortunate to have the opportunity to get close to him and understand him!
Word got out. Stop!