Many mothers require their children to have good grades, high scores and outstanding talents, but neglect to cultivate their sense of responsibility. The sense of responsibility is first to be responsible for yourself, to know how to respect your feelings and ideals, and then to be responsible for the society. This is the embodiment of the real growth of boys.

A responsible boy will take care of the needs of others and will not shirk his responsibility, so it is easier to gain the trust, recognition and support of others, and it is easier to get opportunities for progress and success.

To cultivate boys' sense of responsibility, we should start from an early age and step by step. Mother should give the boy a chance to grow up by himself, and don't do everything instead. Let boys know the worries and difficulties of some parents, guide children to think and choose independently, express their opinions boldly and respect boys' choices.

It is also necessary to allow boys to make mistakes and educate boys to dare to bear the consequences. What boys do is mainly to affirm and encourage, so as to enhance their self-confidence and develop a positive and serious attitude towards life.

Recommendation 2: Cultivate the integrity of boys.

"People can't stand without faith". To teach boys honesty, mothers should be honest first. Boys have strong imitation ability and are easily hinted by some behaviors. If the mother doesn't keep her promise, the boy will be hinted and imitated.

For example, mother promised the boy to take him to the park on Sunday, so she had to go. If something happens temporarily, you must make it clear to the boy and make an appointment again, so as to win the trust of the boy.

One day, Cheng Xiao's family is going to visit a friend's house. His parents are all dressed up and ready to go, but Cheng Xiao is still sitting at his desk reading. Mother shouted, "Cheng Xiao, let's go!" "

Cheng Xiao stood up, but soon sat down again and said, "I can't go to my uncle's house today."

"Why not, son?" Mom asked.

"I promised Maruko yesterday that he would come to our house today," Cheng Xiao said.

"It's nothing important. Let's play together next time! " Mom said.

"No, Maruko will be fanned when he comes to my house." Cheng Xiao said.

"Otherwise, after you come back, go to Maruko's house to explain and apologize to him. It doesn't matter if you call tomorrow. " Mom said again.

"No, mom. Don't you always teach me to keep my promise? I promised others' things, how can I change them at will? " Cheng Xiao firmly shook his head.

"Oh, our little achievement is a child who keeps his word," mother smiled knowingly. "Then you can stay!"

Parents should strengthen the education of honesty and quality for boys, and educate their children to be trustworthy and responsible from an early age. Tell the boy that no one wants to cooperate with a man who breaks his word.

Recommendation 3: Cultivate boys' courage and strength.

To cultivate a boy's brave and strong character, we must start from an early age. Mother should instill such a truth in boys, boys should be brave, strong, brave and bear hardships, not poor people who only know how to escape and cry when they meet things.

Mothers should encourage boys to be brave and resolute, and cherish their independence and creativity. For example, the boy likes to climb stairs, and his mother should not frighten him loudly at this time: "If you fall, you will die." This will make boys less and less courageous.

Mother should appreciate the boy's brave spirit and explain to him that he can only climb high under the protection of adults, which not only protects the boy's lively temperament, but also increases his safety awareness.

When cultivating the boy's brave and strong character, the mother should prevent the boy from changing from strong to rude and from brave to reckless, and guide the boy to move in the right direction.

Recommendation 4: Cultivate children's filial piety.

Filial piety is a person's basic moral character and needs to be cultivated from an early age.

Li Hongshan is ten years old and in the fourth grade. Li Hongshan's mother is a very filial daughter and wife. Usually they live in different parts of the city with four old people, so they don't have much time for filial piety. But at the weekend, my mother began to get busy. She went to Li Hongshan's grandparents' house to help them wash clothes and cook.

Almost no rest, she rushed to Li Hongshan's grandparents' home to do some housework or chat with them. Li Hongshan goes with her mother every time. She has observed her behavior since she was a child and learned a good character of respecting the elderly and filial piety. He often helps his mother choose vegetables and cook, or sweeps the floor and washes clothes as soon as he gets home, and often rubs his mother's back.

To cultivate children's filial piety, we should start from childhood and start from small things. Usually educate children to care more about busy parents and appreciate their hard work. At the same time, mothers should set an example for their children's filial piety. Teach children to be grateful, and at the same time, mothers should talk more about life with their children. They can take their children to experience a day's life, let them understand their parents' difficulties and develop good filial piety.