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Thoughts on reading Fu Lei's letter
During the holiday, my son and I read Fu Lei's letter again. Fu Lei's letter to his son, Fu Cong, weighs a thousand pounds, and each letter carries so much weight. The father's deep love for his children is written on paper. He can give Fu Cong guidance in work, study, love, life and dealing with people. He dares to analyze and admit his mistakes. A teacher and a father have always existed and have never been above the children. But put yourself in the son's shoes and solve all kinds of problems for his son. As a junior high school student, the father of the child often encounters all kinds of difficulties on the road of raising the child. I will try my best to solve the problem, which may not be as sharp and educational as that father. But the father's affection for his son is no weaker than Fu Lei's affection for his father. I wrote a letter to his son on the occasion of his birthday.

Dear son:

Best wishes for a happy birthday!

How time flies! 15 years ago today, you just came into this world on the due date. From your birth to now, in a blink of an eye, you have been in grade three. Watching you grow up and listening to you cry and laugh, you have surpassed your mother's height. I believe that in the third year, you will catch up with and surpass me in height. I am surprised, happy and moved. You will always be the baby in mom and dad's heart. Therefore, we believe that you are God's most precious gift.

Son, I remember when you were two and a half years old, you were in a small class in a kindergarten in the center of town. At that time, you, my mother and I were reluctant to leave for the first few days. Listening to your crying, we refused to leave, or the teacher said that parents would turn their heads and leave, so that children could adapt better. Although you have done this, your heart is full of thoughts about how you lived in kindergarten. Are you used to it? Two weeks later, you still cried.

I remember you changed to a kindergarten later, and you got used to it. At the age of three, you were able to read by yourself. At that time, the teacher often said that when you teach everyone to read words, you should read them as soon as you take them out, and then other students will follow suit. Kindergarten teachers call you "little scholar".

? When I first entered primary school, we enrolled you in several interest classes, but the longest one was probably chess. You got the fourth place at the same level in the city with the best results. Later, you practiced the piano, liked the manager, and often practiced the piano. You got the only excellent grade in that store in the first grade exam. Later, in the third grade of primary school, the school held a class football league. You began to like football and took the initiative to attend a football training class. The result is really good.

? Later, in the first day of junior high school, your grades were in the top of the class, and the school held a class football league. You also won the most prizes and scored the most goals in your class. At that time, you attracted the cheers and eyes of girls. At this time, I began to have a good relationship with individual girls, which made me happy and worried. I'm glad that you can get the recognition from your classmates, but I'm worried about whether it will affect my study. In the second day of junior high school, the school held a basketball league. You are the first substitute in your class, and your interest has shifted from football to basketball. Hehe, now you say that you are the main scorer on the field.

Son, in most people's eyes, you are excellent. Yes, in my heart, you are indeed excellent. However, you should know that this kind of Excellence still comes from constant practice. Look at your level of playing chess in primary school. Now, I beat you most of the time. Now I can't even play the piano, so Excellence comes from my initiative in learning and constant practice.

? Now is the third grade, and the senior high school entrance examination will be held next semester, which is also an important turning point and milestone in one's life. If you can get into a good school, you can communicate with a group of students with excellent academic performance, complement each other constantly, make progress together, and even get more things besides learning.

? In learning, since we know our own advantages and disadvantages, we should prioritize. Ask your classmates and teachers more. Both teachers and students want to see their best partners. Therefore, we should work harder on our own weaknesses, be targeted, and constantly strengthen analogy until we are familiar with it. Make sure you don't lose points in your knowledge. If you are not familiar with it, first grasp the key breakthrough, then grasp the second key breakthrough, and make progress in turn to improve yourself.

Son, as long as you study hard, I believe you can do it, because as long as you pay, as long as you listen carefully in class and finish your homework carefully, you will certainly receive unexpected success. Only by laying a good foundation in middle school can you lay a good foundation for high school courses, which also determines your future to some extent. Now you really don't have much time to struggle, and your future and destiny also depend on your efforts during this period to some extent. So I think you must be obedient. You are my pride and hope. Take back your heart, concentrate on these months and strive for a better tomorrow.

Dear son, mom and dad are ordinary people. Like other parents, we also expect our children to be lucky. You are a clever boy and can study independently. I hope you will walk down-to-earth to tomorrow. I also hope that you will become stronger and better under the watchful eyes of your parents.

Finally, today is very busy, my mother has to work overtime, and I have to take care of my brother. Before the end of today, I'll say it again: Happy birthday, son! Although you can't hear me at school, my father still wants to say, I wish my eldest son a happy birthday, good health, progress in study and happiness forever! ! !

The voice of exhortation, every blessing, reflects the father's implicit love and expectation for his children. Thousands of fathers in Qian Qian express their love for their children in different ways. I think my father commissioned me to preach, but don't correct any mistakes. Buddha's chatter is just a way, and I am disgusted. Now, as a father, I understand his painstaking efforts, but I will not go back to his old ways. I will learn from my letters from home, raise my children and let them grow up. In the light, I grew up with my children.