It is not just sitting still and reasoning with children, it is education. Teacher Yin Jianli, a famous child education expert, said: "Education is the detail."

You did not teach the child, but he learned it. Everything he sees, hears and touches in his daily life will exert a subtle influence on children.

Therefore, parents should lead by example and be strict with themselves in order to educate their children by example.

02. Positive discipline is very helpful to family education.

Education is a technical activity. Parents need to learn various methods to practice, choose some effective methods suitable for themselves and their children, stick to it, and make adjustments if some methods no longer work with their children's growth.

I suggest you learn positive discipline. Positive discipline provides many educational methods and discipline tools, many of which are worth learning from. If you can study hard and stick to it, you will get twice the result with half the effort.

03. Be good at guiding children to solve problems, not rushing to punish them.

Most parents are under great pressure in work and life, and they always lack patience in the face of their children. When their children make mistakes, it is easy to lose control, scold and punish angrily.

We adults will inevitably make all kinds of mistakes, not to mention children whose thoughts and actions are not yet mature. Therefore, we should be more tolerant of children's mistakes. In fact, mistakes are the best learning opportunities. We can guide children to sum up experience from mistakes and think about learning, which will be more conducive to their growth.

A good mother is better than a good teacher. The importance of family education needs no elaboration. Let's cheer together!

Candy mom, Erbao mom, middle school teacher, accompany you to raise children, welcome to like and pay attention!