A 42-year-old woman in Xiaoshan collapsed and cried because she could not support her newborn. According to her own introduction, her husband can only stay at home to take care of the children because of physical reasons, and the economic burden of the whole family is on her alone. Because she works outside all the year round, her husband is far away from home, and there is no one around after giving birth to this child. Coupled with the danger of giving birth at an advanced age, all this made her collapse and cry, although some welfare agencies promised to help her solve some difficulties.

1. Economic Difficulties The old woman lives in the countryside. She came to Hangzhou to work alone more than ten years ago, but her husband has been unable to work because of physical reasons. The old man, husband and two children in the family have to rely on her to support them. Her financial pressure is very great, and the life of the whole family is extremely tight. However, under such circumstances, the husband and wife decided to have a third child. This woman mentioned it when she cried to the police. She was still working when she was about to give birth. On the day of giving birth, she barely survived with some pieces of bread given by the nurse on duty. It can be seen that from the economic conditions, they are really not suitable for giving birth to this child. After all, it is very difficult for the original two children in the family to support themselves, and her husband can't support a family financially. The decision she made can only make herself miserable.

Second, although she is an elderly woman who is unaccompanied after delivery, Ms. Shen's long-term delivery is still very smooth and her child is healthy. This should be a very happy thing. However, when she thought that she would not only continue to work to support her husband and children, but also raise the newborn alone, she could no longer be calm and even cried in front of the police regardless of the image. It's really distressing Fortunately, some welfare agencies have helped her find a suitable job, so that she can take care of her children and work.

Although the country has relaxed the birth policy in recent years, as an individual, one should still take one's physical condition, economic ability and raising ability as reference factors for giving birth to children. If the family is well-off and has enough ability to raise several children at the same time, and all the children can receive a good education, it is natural to have a second or third child with the help of the elderly. However, if the financial conditions are relatively tight and there is no one around to help themselves,