My second boyfriend, at the beginning, joined the company, trained and worked together, and experienced a lot together. Because of the accumulation of time, Zhao Kun and I gradually developed feelings. After that, we were soon known by our colleagues. They are very happy for us and often urge us to get married as soon as possible.
At that time, his parents knew that his family conditions were not good, so they were very dissatisfied. They thought I had no future with him and asked me to break up with him at once. But I have a good relationship with Zhao Kun, so I naturally don't care about my parents. We just want to be with him. But after a long time, many disadvantages appeared, and I realized that what my parents said to me was still reasonable.
When I was with Zhao Kun, I paid almost all the expenses, and I was responsible for most of the food, clothing and fun. At first, I didn't feel too concerned, but after a long time, I spent too much money, and gradually felt that it was really not a particularly correct step for a woman to spend too much money for a man in a love relationship.
Finally, we broke up. I have paid so much for him before, which is too wasteful, so I don't think girls should raise boys when they are in love.