In high school, some children may be rebellious and grow up in all aspects. You can try it first:
How to help high school students through the "rebellious period", smart parents can do these three things, and the effect is particularly obvious.
1. Know your child's "circle of friends"
In the rebellious period of high school, the student party is most afraid of being influenced by people with bad social or school atmosphere, so parents should first understand their children's "circle of friends" and see who their children usually contact and what kind of friends they have to avoid their children being influenced by people who are addicted to games or ignorant. Once children have such friends, their behavior habits will be affected, so they will do some rebellious things.
In addition, parents should also pay attention to the communication between children and the opposite sex, because adolescent children will be curious about the opposite sex. Once the child is found to be too close to the opposite sex, it is necessary to control it too early to avoid puppy love, which will easily make the child rebellious and even do many absurd things.
2. Through communication, consider the problem from the child's point of view.
Many parents believe that once children enter high school, they will have "their own little secrets". Many children are reluctant to tell their parents about their school. Sometimes, if parents ask, children will feel disgusted, so many times, parents will stop asking for fear of affecting their children's study. In fact, the student party in junior high school is eager for the care of parents, but due to physical and psychological changes, it doesn't know how to communicate with parents.
Therefore, parents should communicate more with their children in their daily lives, consider the problem from the child's point of view, and communicate with their children from simple to in-depth On the other hand, children who enter adolescence always like to treat themselves as adults, and they hope that their parents can respect and understand themselves. Therefore, as parents, we can also treat our children as adults, and discuss major issues at home with them more, so that children are willing to share their worries with their parents and master their own psychology.
Don't let children indulge in online games.
Addiction to online games is very harmful to the physical and mental health of middle school students, especially in senior three, when children are about to take the "college entrance examination", their grades will drop seriously. Because high school students' self-control is not particularly firm, once they indulge in online games, their study and life will be affected, and they will also have rebellious psychology. High school students who are addicted to games are everywhere in their lives, so parents must put an end to this phenomenon.
To prevent children from indulging in online games, we must first manage them from mobile phones and computers. When parents find that their children are depressed, unwilling to study, and even often stay up late, this shows that their children have begun to contact games. At this time, parents must communicate well with their children, love you with their teachers, use their mobile phones as rewards when they get good grades, and never play when they get bad grades, which can also enhance their interest in learning.
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High school is very important for the student party. If a child enters a rebellious period in high school, it is likely that his academic performance will decline, he will not be admitted to an ideal university, and his future will be ruined. Therefore, as parents of high school students, we must not take it lightly and learn these three points to help our children easily get through the rebellious period.