Psychologists say that some people can't communicate with others at all, so they sit down and ask, "What do you do?"? How much do you earn a month? There are also some excellent female white-collar workers who always show their own advantages and make men feel inferior and shrink back. The problem of not making friends can also be solved through training, but at present, the biggest problem of female white-collar workers in marriage and love is to pursue perfection too much, so the standard of mate selection is too high. Training will help them understand themselves and correct their incorrect mentality. Some people have dated 100, but they still can't find it. This is not a problem of a few people, but a lack of self-awareness and unclear expectations of mate selection. Some people have a strong ability to work and study, but their ability to love is not necessarily strong, which also needs to be learned. Female white-collar workers should first have a correct understanding of themselves, define their goals, and expand the scope of making friends with a positive and open mind, so that it is easier to get happiness.