"If you don't take the initiative to find me, even if I want to find you, I won't take the initiative to find you" is a common psychological state, which reflects your personal value ranking.

Although you care more about other things, although you don't take the initiative to talk to each other,

But you really care about each other. However, this kind of nursing is relatively backward.

When two people are in a stalemate, one of them must take the first step, either keeping their distance or taking a brave step to cultivate a closer relationship.

Take the initiative to break the deadlock, maybe you will find that the other person is just like you, just afraid that you know that he cares about you.