M: 1, it is the key to determine the amount of deposit on the day of engagement, and how much the woman needs. Many contradictions arise here. 2. Inform the woman that the number of people going on the day of engagement, the loading capacity and the number of vehicles are generally in pairs, such as six cars, eight cars, twelve people and sixteen people, including yourself. The loading capacity is also in pairs, eight years, ten years, twelve years and sixteen years. So that the woman can prepare steamed stuffed buns, zongguo and jiaoyuanbao (that is, red envelopes, one car counts, one person counts. For example, if you go to eight cars, 16 people, 20 1, the woman will prepare 4800 red envelopes). 3. Ask the woman to count the number of elders on her side, prepare white sugar lotus root powder at the litchi returning garden, and give it to the woman's closest relatives, and bring it on the day of engagement. Ordinary friends just like candy. 4. As for fruit blue and cool blue, there is also wine, which is generally two loads of white wine, two loads of yellow wine and two loads of red wine. Choose your own other drinks. Try to choose the one with red shell to look happy and beautiful. Don't worry about the loading capacity requested by the woman, even if it is twenty, it is nothing more than drinking a few more cups and not spending much money. The farmer's market selling wine is available for rent. 5. The other is that if the conditions are good, one gold and one platinum will do. If the economy is not much, a pair of gold, necklaces, earrings, rings, bracelets or bracelets will do. 6, and then the woman's clothes in spring, summer, autumn and winter. Pay attention to summer clothes, don't choose short sleeves, long sleeves are ok. Short sleeves are unlucky, which means you will be swept out of the house halfway. Then two pairs of shoes. And bags, big bags and small bags. Cosmetics and other things that women need. The following things are in pairs. Take it with you when ordering, and then bring one back: umbrella, comb, sewing box, scissors, ruler, washbasin, towel, toothbrush, tooth cup, toothpaste, etc. They are all different. There may be some leaks, but I can't remember them clearly. Ask the elders. Next, the woman's: 1, how many people order drinks at noon on the day of engagement? The soup was ready when I came, one person and one pair, sweet. The son-in-law wears a suit, tie, hat, shirt, shoes and socks from head to toe and should return them to the man. 3. How much is the steamed bread in jiaozi? Five generations of jiaozi, five sizes from big to small. When the man goes back, he should put it in a blue fruit, otherwise it will be unlucky to take it back empty. 4, it is the red envelope of the person who comes, get ready, relatively speaking, the woman has less things.