I am a competitive person, unwilling to lag behind. A week before Bauer was born, my husband and I went to visit clients together. First, I really can't let go of my business. Second, I want to earn more money for milk powder before giving birth to a baby. I couldn't get on the bus at that time, and I needed my husband to help me push it behind, but I felt very fulfilled.
After the child was born, life was wrapped in shit and urine, and all the energy was given to the child, almost losing himself.
Gradually, I felt something was wrong. Especially when I ask my husband for money, I obviously feel his pressure and unhappiness. The sensitive string in my heart was touched again, and I felt that my self-esteem was crushed to nothing.
So I tried to do WeChat business, but most people refused. As a result, I spent a lot of money and hoarded a lot of goods that I couldn't sell. Opening a Taobao shop is too tiring to take care of children; Then apply for a driving school. I've never got 80 points in subject one. ...
I spent a lot of money, but I didn't see anything. My husband is completely desperate for me and is no longer willing to invest a penny for me.
Learn from a painful experience and make up your mind to find a breakthrough for your dignity.
Suddenly one day, I saw the news of writing training on WeChat, and my childhood dream came out unconsciously and signed up without hesitation.
Attend classes with a group of aspiring students and write articles to correct and improve each other; Watch picture books with children and listen to English to grind their ears; Later, I signed up for a hand-painted course, Wei Li's super memory course, and joined a rice ball and a community about self-media operation. The days became busy and full, and I saw the long-lost appreciation and admiration from my husband's eyes.
As a mother of two children, I feel I have a lot to write about parenting. I can spit out my mother-in-law and husband, and I can also write about my parenting experience and experience. Mothers are interested in topics that always resonate with many people. I feel that I am no longer a person, but living in a warm group. With so many mothers reading and communicating with me, I am also making progress.
But even this would not be enough We try to contribute to earn money and run our own official WeChat account. At the same time in today's headlines, Baidu Baijia, Zhihu, Douban have registered accounts. Later, I met the real parents of today's headline parenting channel, Mr. Xu Zhiming and Mr. Chin Hung Kao, who gave me great help in writing parenting articles.
Even if you don't write well at first, you should stick to it and say that you will meet people constantly. When writing, you will choose the platform that suits you best and give yourself a precise positioning. You should not only write about growth, but also have income, which is enough to prove your value in fighting against secular prejudice.
Economic independence, personality can be independent. As long as your husband's brain is not disabled, even if you can't make money temporarily, as long as he sees your efforts and efforts, he will respect and support you from the bottom of his heart.
Now there are many free trainings and many paid platforms. Whether you come or not, it is there. As long as you are willing to learn to charge, it is never too late to start.
What? What? No time?
There is a popular saying at the moment, and I deeply agree with it: time is like cleavage, as long as it is crowded, there is still some!
* * * Encourage!