——? About the author? ——
The author of this book, Lin Zhennian, is the top hypnotist in Japan and the director of the Institute of Hypnosis. He established the Institute of Hypnotic Induction in Tachikawa, Tokyo. He devoted himself to the training of hypnotists and hypnotherapists, and applied hypnotic psychology to psychological counseling. His main works include Introduction to Hypnosis, Hypnotic Love and Advanced Super Hypnosis, which are very influential in the industry.
——? The golden sentence in this book? ——
1. Love depends not on luck, but on strength. Only those who master skills and improve their love ability can win love.
2. Many women who have bad relationships don't want to make any changes for each other. They think this is their own loss, even failure.
Once we know that the other person's evaluation of ourselves is positive, we will want to cultivate ourselves as others evaluate us.
Staring at the other person's eyes for two seconds can not only induce his trance state, but also make the other person feel "Is he interested in me?"
5. Destroying the positive self in the other person's impression box is also destroying yourself in a sense.
——? Core content? ——
1. What is hypnosis?
Psychologically speaking, people's psychology can be divided into conscious and unconscious situations.
Consciousness means that people make decisions through clear thinking and rational analysis. Unconsciousness means making some decisions by intuition, and you can't explain why.
Although consciousness makes decisions through rational analysis, unconsciousness has a greater influence on people's thoughts and behaviors, and unconsciousness manipulates consciousness to some extent. Unconsciousness is a huge information base hidden in consciousness. It collects information through study, experience, knowledge and habits. Although there is no memory in the consciousness, all this information is received and recorded by the unconscious, which helps people push the information to the consciousness. People come up with some ideas out of thin air, which is not groundless, but the unconscious completes the thinking process before the conscious. Therefore, with the unconscious dialogue with each other, you can take the initiative and easily control each other.
Hypnosis is such a technology, which bypasses the other person's consciousness, talks directly with the unconscious, and conveys ideas to the other person in a suggestive way.
Second, how to use hypnosis skills to attract men?
1. observe the male god, understand the favorable area of the male god, and enter the favorable area.
When the brain processes all kinds of information, it will classify the information, and the area where each information is located will be conveyed through the line of sight of the eyeball. Whenever we answer other people's questions, our eyes will unconsciously turn, search various areas of the brain, and finally stay in a certain direction, which means that we have found the answers to such questions. When the eyes stay on the side of good information, it represents a good impression area.
After determining the good impression area of the male god, try to put yourself in the good impression area of the male god and let the male god see you in his good impression space. Make a good impression on him. It's that simple.
2. Action, mood and breathing rhythm should be synchronized with the male god.
There is a close relationship between body and mind. This phenomenon can be used for hypnosis. First of all, we can get close to the heart through the synchronization of the body, thus eliminating the vigilance of the other party, building trust, and finally reaching spiritual contact. This technique is called "mirror reflection" in hypnosis. When the mirror appears repeatedly, it will make the male god feel that he has known you for a long time.
It's not enough to synchronize the action, but also to synchronize the chat mood. If the male god chats with happy emotions to describe things, you should respond with the same emotions. If the male god describes things with anger, you should also chat with him with anger. This will make the male god think that you understand him very much.
The highest level of synchronization is the synchronization of breathing rhythm. Breathing is an important function to maintain life, and even the level of life can be synchronized, which shows that the connection between two people has been one step closer.
Third, how to stabilize love with heart anchor and moderate coquetry?
1. seed anchor
Heart anchor is actually a conditioned reflex, which reminds people of something through some external stimuli. One way is to choose the heart anchor when the other person is excited. Another way is to plant an anchor through repeated behavior, so that the male god has a good impression on you. Through repeated behavior, male gods are conditioned to beautiful things.
2. Learn to be moderately dependent and coquetry
The so-called dependence is to guide the male god to take care of you and let him unconsciously have a sense of superiority in taking care of you. On the surface, you need his concern, but in fact, he has a subconscious dependence on you. But you should guide him to take care of you properly, and don't make the male god feel burdened, otherwise he will lose patience and enthusiasm.
Spoiling should master the key word "contact" to keep two people in contact.
Fourth, use the impression box skillfully to keep your love fresh forever.
Learn to skillfully use the impression box. Impression box is the impression you unilaterally think you have left on others. No matter what impression you leave on the other side, you will continue to maintain this impression in front of the other side. As long as you pay attention to the other person's impression frame, the other person will pay more and more attention to you.
First of all, we should take the initiative to discover the "advantages of male gods" and send such a message to each other: I have a very good you in my heart. In this way, no matter what happens, the male god will try his best to do what you expect in order to protect his beautiful image in your heart.
Secondly, we should learn to praise male gods. People's psychology has two characteristics: as long as they are given options, no matter how many, they will choose one; People don't reject all options at the same time. Use these two psychological characteristics to learn the correct way of praise.