When dealing with people, we should pay attention to discretion and avoid being too rigid or too soft. Too rigid and easy to fold; Too soft and easy to bully.

As the saying goes, a clumsy epee has no advantage. He who knows how to be measured must know how to hide the edge of others. How can a sharp weapon be lightly shown to others? Full of losses, modest benefits; Excessive high-profile, is bound to attract the wind, enemies on all sides, easy to lead to unnecessary disasters.

As Taoist Laozi said, people are born weak and die strong. Everything is born weak and dies and withers. Therefore, the strong die and the weak live.