1. Become silent

(1) My former self seems to be a little noisy now, with a big mouth and outspoken mouth, and I can't say anything.

(2) Now I will be more silent on some occasions, understand that disaster comes from my mouth, pay more attention to myself, think about some problems and then output, and my heart will become quiet and peaceful.

2. Don't care about other people's eyes

(1) The clothes and bags I bought before were very expensive, but I always felt that.

If it's more expensive, people will respect me.

(2) I like to wear simple and comfortable clothes now.

You can put a lot of light canvas bags in the back, so the accountant will compare the price.

Than, will not pay for the brand premium.

(3) Because I found that my former self was afraid of being looked down upon, I need to arm myself with material things, and now I am myself.

I am strong enough inside, and I no longer care about other people's eyes.

What others think of me is not influenced by external interference.

3. Don't deceive yourself

(1) I always didn't know how to pretend to understand, how to hold regular meetings and how to train.

Yes, share, as long as it is, whether you understand it or not,

Will shut up, or answer: okay, um.

(2) Now as long as I feel that I don't understand, I will delve into it and ask why. Others can't explain it clearly, so I won't feel embarrassed when I come back to study it myself.

(3) Because I used to be afraid of making mistakes and asking questions, I would show my ignorance, but in fact I won't, won't, won't, won't, wrong is wrong, and wrong is stronger.

4. Don't try to change others.

(1) I used to like to worry, and I would give many people all kinds of advice. For example, if you feel that your skills are not good, write more and read more. If you feel that your product ability is not good, read more books and see which aspects are weak, which will enhance your ability.

(2) Later, it was found that these suggestions were useless, because there was a huge gap between people's understanding of the problem and solving it. If he doesn't really do it himself, it's useless to say anything.

5. Don't be greedy for petty gain.

(1) In the past, many people should be at the front of the shopping festival. How to spell the bill is the most cost-effective. Every time I buy it at buy buy, I find that I have bought a lot of things that I can't use or use.

(2) But now, I will buy the corresponding items according to my own needs, and I will use the money to buy some value-added things, such as houses, training courses, gold, funds and fixed investment.

6. Will look at the problem from different angles

(1) In the past, the world was black and white, and people were either bad or good.

(2) Now I understand that everything is relative, there is no absolute good or bad, right or wrong, reading articles and books will also use dialectical thinking, what the author wants to express, whether there is relevant evidence to testify, and will also think about his own thoughts and opinions. Girls should not be afraid to begin to understand late, once they begin to understand, they will be dark horses.

7. No struggle, no internal friction

(1) I have considered many things and problems before, and then I will act, do it or not.

(2) If you think about it now, just do it, then look at the results, and then adjust the direction and purpose according to the results.

8. Stop aimlessly brushing short videos.

(1) used to brush short videos to kill time. If I want to relax for half an hour before going to bed, I often brush until midnight.

Now we think that our most precious thing is time, so we must spend our time on valuable things, such as reading books, watching documentaries, attending training classes, exercising and accompanying children.

9. Regular recovery

(1) After the resumption of trading, it's just lip service every time.

(2) Now I will fall into practical action, and I will become more and more aware of what I want to do and what my goal is. I will regularly check my grades, why I didn't do it and how to improve it.

(3) I think one of the main reasons is that you don't know yourself well enough. If you don't know yourself, you don't know how to set your own goals and the direction of your efforts.

When you know yourself well enough, you can know what ability you need to improve before you can set goals, make action plans, implement them, get results, see feedback, make decisions, adjust goals, make plans and implement them. This is a positive cycle process, and you will dig deeper and deeper, understand more and more, and have clearer goals.

10. I believe you can handle anything.

(1) Believe in the power of faith.

(2) Recently, in the fifth season of Thirteen Invitations, Xu Zhiyuan talked to Hurun. Hurun said that he was grateful to his parents for sending him to a very good aristocratic school: Eton College, but his younger brother and sister didn't. The difference between him and them is that the school tells them that you can do whatever you want. This is also the reason why he can create a Hurun Report.

(3) So, as long as you believe that you can, you can. This kind of power is beyond your imagination.