The original meaning of the school WeChat group is to facilitate parents and teachers to communicate, understand and report the learning-related situation in daily study and life. Just because children don't take part in dance competitions, they accuse parents of "treating your children as human beings, not you as human beings" and "you don't deserve to be a mother". This harsh tone makes a teacher lose his morality.
It is true that there is nothing wrong with the original intention of the school to organize dance competitions. It is understandable to call on parents to actively encourage students to participate, which can help children to some extent. However, in line with the principle of voluntary autonomy, parents have the right not to let their children participate according to their learning situation and personal interests. As we all know, giving children various art training classes must conform to their wishes. Don't compare with other children by ranking and honor. Parents should never put pressure on their children. However, this kindergarten teacher doesn't even understand the most basic truth. In my opinion, it stems from the decline of personal morality. In this teacher's eyes, both parents and students must obey the teacher's arrangement. Once there is any disobedience, they will swear at each other. Parents or parents, teachers or teachers?
In recent years, the quality of teachers in school education management departments is uneven, and cases of child abuse are frequent. It is conceivable that people in the WeChat group, as observers, can see the communication between teachers and parents. The language is ironic, and the reputation of the school and teachers is lost. On the one hand, the education authorities must strictly assess teachers' access standards, ensure regular inspections of in-service teachers, and strictly regulate teachers' personal words and deeds in a responsible attitude towards children and parents; On the other hand, teachers need to stick to professional ethics, treat students as their own children, and rebuild their professional ethics with warmth.
Wechat is a good communication platform. The communication between teachers and parents needs to be cautious. Don't ruin your reputation because of a disagreement, and avoid similar tragedies from happening again.