How do girls start a relationship? Most people's feelings are successful only by their own efforts or those of the other party. Many times, both sides don't work hard and wait slowly. Want to know how girls start a relationship? Come and have a look if you want to know.

How do girls start a relationship 1 1? Follow your inner thoughts.

Due to family, education, tradition and other reasons, many girls dare not face their hearts and avoid their inner views for various reasons. This is the number one taboo, against their hearts, denying their true thoughts of longing for love. People's gas field and magnetic field will be extended and strengthened by the heart. Only by facing up to the psychology that you want to start a relationship can you have an atmosphere that attracts lovers. Just like "My site is my master", the seeds of love can be born in an environment with a magnetic field of love ~

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with being honest about your true psychology of wanting to be in love and being taken care of and protected. There is nothing wrong with living for yourself.

Second, a peaceful mind.

Girls often have some self-knowledge and self-knowledge fantasies about their future boyfriends, hoping that he is a gentleman, smart, clever and caring. The seemingly broad requirements are actually implemented in communication, which may include never being late for an appointment, being able to identify the location immediately when you see the location, and knowing your taboos before cooking ... But, dear friends, many boys don't have these cute and caring consciousness at first, which doesn't mean they are not good people.

In reality, there are often many girls who have a contradictory and closed attitude towards the early performance of their partners. On the one hand, I know that I haven't established a love relationship and I'm not qualified to give advice to each other. On the other hand, I silently examine each other's performance according to my boyfriend's standards. Once I fail to meet the standard, I will be sentenced to death. This distorted mentality often leads to the omission of some superficial but sincere so-called "straight men".

Only by treating the early performance of the communication partner with the mentality of being close to friends can we comprehensively consider each other more objectively. It is unfair to judge a person who is not a boyfriend by the standard of boyfriend ~ ~

Third, you can't have your cake and eat it.

Besides, gold alone is not enough, and no one is perfect. No one can live in a perfect novel world like a vacuum, and everyone has a less beautiful place. As long as you determine what are the necessary conditions for people who want to be together for life, the remaining so-called "shortcomings" can be ignored.

Most importantly, these prerequisites must be "subtracted", preferably "sorted". If you have listed four prerequisites, dear, and he happens to meet the first three perfectly, what if he doesn't meet the last one "can swim"? It doesn't involve principles. It really doesn't hurt.

Fourth, confidence.

This is probably a passport for all fields of communication. Some girls are lucky enough to cross the difficulties ahead and meet people from two of a kind. However, due to an unspeakable lack of self-confidence and belief that they are ordinary, why did they get love and care? In the early stage of emotional instability, they tried all kinds of words and behaviors, and even showed bitterness and strange spirit that they never had before, cutting off a beautiful fate that was about to begin.

Get along with the communication object with a generous attitude, show a good and true image, and never cover up your unconfident heart with a rude and sour mask. This is the real cleverness.

How do girls start a love II? How did they start a love affair?

1, the first time we met, we got to know each other and had a good impression. Get to know her first, pay attention to her silently, and then brush the sense of existence in front of her.

2, further understanding, her preferences, living habits, etc. Make friends with her.

3, understand your heart, feel that you can confess when you are almost there (feel that you really like it), and have a ceremonial confession.

4. Dating, watching movies, eating and shopping are the foundation, and she is constantly surprised in love.

5, running-in, in this process, boys should take care of girls' small emotions, maybe girls are more delicate and sensitive, many boys don't feel it, girls sometimes feel uncomfortable alone, don't let her down, be more patient, and many times girls are angry to attract attention. Communicate more, communication is very important! ! The key to running-in is never to have a cold war.

As long as it's a girl's holiday, it's best to give gifts and spend time with her. Be careful when sending skin care products and lipsticks. If you don't know about skin care products, you'd better know about it first, because girls have different skin and are prone to allergies. Different colors of lipstick can be applied to give people different feelings, some are white and some are black, and there are many minefields)

Second, chasing girls raiders daquan

1. Be a warm man and always let girls feel your concern.

Many girls have no resistance to warm men. They like to see a cup of hot milk tea on the table every morning, like to see the persistence of accompanying them back to the dormitory every night, and like to see small gifts for each birthday. Emotional girls like this little surprise in life, and they will realize that you are in his heart and you care about her very much. It is better to love at first sight than to be tired for a long time. After a long time, she will be tempted.

2, humorous and cheerful, know how to make girls happy.

If you have a relaxed atmosphere with someone, and you often smile, you will have a good impression on this person. So do girls. You have to think about what girls are interested in, create the same topic when chatting with them, make them laugh, and you win. They will have a very good impression on you and are willing to keep in touch with you.

Seize the opportunity and show him your courage.

As a man, what you need most is indomitable spirit. If you are a person who can handle things and hold up a day, girls will naturally be attracted to you, instead of deliberately teasing. What they need is a warm home. In this family, they don't need to be strong. They need your shoulders to lean on. If you can prove this to them, they will naturally want to be close to you.

4. Arrange your daily life and be positive.

When choosing a boyfriend, girls should not only look at how boys treat themselves, but also look at their own situation. If girls know that you get up early every day to exercise, listen carefully, have a wide range of interests and positive sunshine, they will be happy to get along with you. They also like people who are full of positive energy and make progress every day. With such boys, their future life will be very rich and will bring changes to themselves.

Third, the routine of chasing girls

1, don't contact frequently.

Treating women's "laziness" can be explained from one aspect, that is, don't act too inseparable from each other, that is, don't keep in touch often. If men are too "diligent", they will send messages to women whenever they have time, either to be caring and attentive to women or to talk about some interesting things happening around them. Even if he has nothing to say, let himself send a message to the other party.

This kind of behavior, not only will not make women moved, but also may make the other side disgusted. Maybe a man's "hard work" behavior will impress the other party at first, and make women feel that you really have this sincerity and perseverance, but it will be boring if you have more times.

2. Don't be too attentive to women.

Don't be too concerned about women, that is, men don't take the initiative to help women, even her relatives and friends to do a lot of things. Paying too much attention to anything and being too hospitable will scare a woman and make her want to escape.

Therefore, men should learn to be "lazy", and don't think that pursuing women means being attentive to her, behaving well in front of her and leaving her with the impression that she is willing to pay for her.

The result of doing this often is either that women take your hard work for granted, do not cherish your behavior at all, and finally regard you as a spare tire; Or I think you are too enthusiastic for women to accept. Anyway, it's not what men want to see.

3. Don't pester women to death.

Some men seem to have too much energy when pursuing the person they like, and they have to appear in front of women countless times every day. Even though the woman has shown the meaning of refusal, she is still obsessed with her and has no idea of giving up.

Men are so persistent, and the most taboo in feelings is persistence and struggle. Pursuing a person with persistence and struggle mentality will be worn away even if the other person has a little affection for you.

Therefore, in the pursuit of women, men should be "lazy", relax for a period of time, not always tense, and strive to advance and retreat properly. I have to admit that everyone has a mentality of "regret if you lose it". Sometimes you don't pay much attention to her, but she will contact you actively.

In fact, there are many ways, skills and even routines to pursue girls. Besides attacking each other, don't forget to improve yourself. An excellent boy is naturally easy to please girls and get twice the result with half the effort. Efforts to improve themselves and treat feelings sincerely are the way to pursue lovers. Therefore, in love, we should also pay more attention to girls' careful thoughts and give some gifts from time to time, so that love can last for a long time.

How do girls start a relationship? 3. How did a relationship communicate at the beginning?

1, with your boyfriend, don't praise other men. Boys are also jealous. If you are with your boyfriend and often talk about another man, or even the advantages of others, your boyfriend will definitely feel uncomfortable, thinking, if others are good, you will go with others and fulfill you.

When chatting with friends, try to say that your boyfriend is good, don't just spit. The spread of news is sometimes a closed trend, so we should believe in people's gossip psychology and ability to spread gossip. What you said is likely to reach your boyfriend after many twists and turns, and your boyfriend will think that since he is so miserable in your heart, it is better to break up.

3. Couples should have more spiritual communication. We can't talk less, because we have been in love for a long time. In fact, sometimes it is more important for men and women to listen to each other's hearts, so that couples can better understand each other.

4. Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as people in love like to listen to sweet words, so don't be stingy with your sweet words, and love should be bravely said. Maybe it's just a kind word from us. Both men and women should learn to care more about each other and love each other, so that each other can feel your importance. You can say: you don't have time to accompany me, which makes me a little lost and uncomfortable. Not: What the hell are you doing? Why didn't you call me? When you express your feelings, you will find that your heart will gradually calm down and you will know what your true feelings are. Sometimes some bad emotions will disappear, and the other person can understand your thoughts and feelings better. Express your feelings and express them in a loving way. Remember, the starting point is to let love flow and make you better. I tried. When the other person didn't say hello for a long time, I felt a little lost and almost wanted to start complaining, but I didn't. After a while, I could feel my true feelings, so I finally said: I miss you.

Second, how to get along when you start to fall in love

First of all, we often send messages and chat with each other.

If both men and women are introverted and don't know how to chat at ordinary times, they will be embarrassed to talk about their feelings. Especially when we first met, it felt unnatural to speak. At this time, two people can chat through various chat tools and express their feelings in the form of words, so that they are more courageous to get familiar with each other.

Second, boys often ask girls out to meet.

The reason why we were embarrassed when we first fell in love is because we are not completely sure about each other, and we always want to show our perfect side, but we feel that we are not doing very well everywhere. At this time, you need to get used to each other and go out on dates with each other more often, so that you can slowly get closer and get familiar with each other, and a lot of words will naturally come out.

Third, travel with friends like * * *

If you have just fallen in love and feel uncomfortable or even ashamed when you are alone, then you can also ask two friends to come out to play together. This will make it easier for a third party to be present and the scene will not be too embarrassing. We can open our hearts and accept each other. Two people are familiar with each other, and they can get along naturally without this friend.

Fourth, sincerely praise each other.

Love is blind. I believe that when you first establish a relationship, you look at each other as if they all exude the aura of the Virgin Mary. These are all advantages. If so, don't be stingy with your praise, praise each other a little every day, but mainly don't be too grandiose, don't praise so much, just praise a little, and don't make each other proud or make your relationship cold. Who doesn't want others to praise themselves?

Say hello every day.

Of course, you have to fall in love every day. Whether you go to work in the morning or rest at work, eat at noon and go to bed at night, you should contact each other and greet each other. Otherwise, if something happens to the other party and you don't comfort them in time, it will make the other party feel that you care very much. So if you want to maintain a budding relationship, you must try to water it. Communicate with each other every day, and you will certainly gain something. But be careful not to talk too dry, so that the other person will not be interested in you.

Six, regular long talk

Just like every semester at school, teachers talk to every student and ask them how they are studying recently. The same is true of something as important as love. You also need to have a long talk with each other regularly, such as finding an ambiguous coffee shop, where you can snuggle up and talk about your recent life or favorite movies, music and food, as long as it can make you know each other better. After such a long conversation, your feelings for each other will certainly deepen.