What if the child is not confident? Parents' education is very important for children to change from introverted personality to extroverted personality. For example, when a child wants milk, if you are busy and can't satisfy it at the moment, you might as well tell the child to get it for you when he is busy. I believe this answer will not make children feel neglected and lose confidence.

Second, give children the opportunity to choose for themselves.

Spend more time with your children, such as taking them out on weekends. Asking for children's opinions, asking them if they want to go, or giving them a choice between two goals can also increase their self-confidence.

Third, don't laugh at children.

In a family with a baby, if the child has just learned to speak, for example, if you teach the child to say "big watermelon", but his pronunciation is "catching the west", don't laugh at him at this time, and don't deliberately emphasize it. You can teach another day, because your ridicule will make children lose confidence and interest in learning a language during the language learning period.

Fourth, take children's questions seriously.

As a parent, you should listen patiently when your child asks you questions. If you can't answer, you can honestly tell the child that mom doesn't know, and then look it up in the dictionary or solve it in other ways. Don't make a wrong definition. This will let the child know what no one can do, which is also a condition for him to increase his confidence.

Fifth, let children feel that they are needed.

In daily life, we might as well provide children with more use value, such as "please bring the newspaper to mom", so that children can feel needed and do a lot of things, thus improving their self-confidence.

Sixth, show children's works at home.

At home, we might as well provide children with a place to show their works, such as putting up children's paintings and certificates. Hang it on the most eye-catching wall at home, or show her small works, so that children will have a sense of honor and stimulate their self-confidence.

Seven, let the children make decisions occasionally.

In fact, more often, the mother's tolerance is the soil to cultivate children's self-confidence. For example, children should not blame their children for making a mess at home. You can teach them to clean up by themselves, or you can clean up with your mother. If you take your child to the supermarket, you can put the payment in her hand and let her give it to the cashier herself. Gradually, children will be full of confidence in life.