On Friday, 20xx 10, I specially asked the company for half a day off to attend the parents' meeting of my daughter's kindergarten. Because, like many parents, parents are most concerned about the education of their children. Kindergarten is the first stage for children to leave their parents and face unfamiliar environment alone. Here they learn the self-care ability of daily life, the social ability of getting along with others, and the reserve ability of learning basic cultural knowledge. Every parent-teacher meeting in kindergarten is undoubtedly an excellent opportunity for parents to understand their children's situation in kindergarten and learn from experts and teachers how to educate their children.
We first went to the music hall of xx kindergarten and listened to teacher Zhang's speech on "children's sharing consciousness". Teacher Zhang elaborated on the problems existing in the only child, the significance of cultivating children's sharing consciousness, how to cultivate children's sharing consciousness and how to teach children to share with others through different channels. Teacher Zhang gave a speech by combining theoretical knowledge with real-life examples. Parents feel the same way and take notes carefully.
Today's children are basically only children, so parents and teachers have also found their biggest problem, that is, "self-centeredness", which is the so-called "independence", so the speech arranged by the kindergarten this time is of great practical significance. My family is a little girl. I don't know how she is in kindergarten, but I can feel from some parent-child classes that she will be more cautious in the new environment and a little reluctant to let go. She wanted to express herself, but she didn't have the courage and confidence to stand up. Originally, I always thought it was my personality, which seemed to have a lot to do with our parents' usual education, because she was very active and naughty at home, perhaps because I spoiled her too much, and I seldom criticized her severely and loudly, let alone hit her. Therefore, the daughter is particularly vulnerable, which is the crying and physiological and psychological femininity in the one-child problem that Teacher Zhang said today. I carefully recorded how to solve these problems and will summarize and correct them when I get home.
Afterwards, we went to the children's classroom. Although we occasionally see the classroom when we pick up the children, we never go in and observe it carefully. The classroom is spacious and bright, with neat tables and chairs, uniform white towels on the wall, and a water glass cabinet with pictures of children on it, so that we don't have to worry about children's hygiene. On the first day of school, I held a parent-teacher meeting and met the head teacher, Mr. Chen. At first glance, she is a good teacher with gentle personality and self-restraint, and my judgment has been verified by later contact. Another teacher, Miss Li and Miss Zheng, I learned their surnames from children. Because of work reasons, I usually pick up fewer children. My child's original words are: "Miss Li, Miss Zheng is also very kind to us. I like them very much! " "
Teacher Chen said that the "Parents Open Day" will be held next Wednesday, so that parents can come to the classroom and experience their children's learning life. I believe many parents, like me, especially want to know their children's performance in kindergarten, how they eat and sleep, how they learn knowledge and play games, whether they are naughty like at home, or whether they dare to show themselves in front of everyone and keep up with the teacher's rhythm ... This "Parents' Open Day" activity is really necessary, and I am looking forward to it. Teacher Chen also talked about some children's problems in kindergarten, praised several students who usually performed well, talked about special classes in dance and art, and suggested that parents and children plant potted plants together, bring them to the classroom after germination, and also created a QQ group classroom intimately ... It is estimated that because of time, parents did not arrange interaction with teachers, that is, parents asked some questions and teachers and parents discussed them together. In fact, parents really hope to communicate with teachers through parent-teacher conferences to discuss some problems existing in children's kindergartens and homes and how to solve them. In the discussion, you can learn a good way to educate your children, and you can also harmonize the relationship between teachers and parents, and the relationship between parents and parents, so that you can have one more job!
This parent-teacher meeting not only learned the methods of educating children, but also saw the children's classrooms, which made me full of confidence in the learning environment and teaching staff of xx kindergarten. I believe my daughter will grow up healthily and happily under such a good environment and the education of such a good teacher!
The second experience of kindergarten parent school As a student of xx parent school, I benefited a lot from participating in the training of this parent school. I deeply understand the importance, care and love of the school for students, and also deeply understand the key to being a parent in the process of children's growth and learning. Now let me talk about my feelings after listening to the class.
First, cultivate children's good interests and habits and benefit them for life.
Interest in learning is the main motivation, or almost the only motivation. Habit is the mindset of people, and it is a subtle force. For the cultivation of interests and habits, Teacher Fan explained various methods to us from various aspects. I will learn from the method explained by Teacher Fan Xinbin. According to the actual family environment, we should start with living habits, study habits, work habits and thinking habits, and cultivate children to form good habits from some casual things.
Second, the cooperation between home and school can effectively cultivate children.
Now they are basically single-family families, and they are all only children. Children are exposed to adults after school, which is relatively the family environment of adults. Moreover, the learning environment of the school and the family environment are very different. In the middle, parents and teachers played a bridge role. Only when parents and teachers fully communicate, discuss their children's education and reach a * * * understanding can they help their children grow in all directions. After Wang Xiaofeng's lecture, I learned the skills of home-school cooperation, including: parents' committee, parents' garden, children's publications, parents' open days, online communication, telephone communication, parent-child activities, parents' volunteers and so on.
Third, let me know how to make my children grow up healthily.
Health is the basic right of human beings and one of the most precious wealth in life. Health is the best state of life, and health is the foundation of all activities. Through the lecture given by Director Huang Xinxin, I have mastered how to make children eat scientifically and cultivate their eating habits. For example, there are all kinds of foods, mainly cereals. Eat more fresh vegetables and fruits, and often eat proper amount of fish, poultry, eggs, lean meat, etc. Drink milk every day and often eat soybeans and their products. Talk about eating less salt, choosing snacks correctly, drinking less drinks with high sugar content and so on. Cultivate children's habit of exercising at home and so on. I have benefited a lot.
Fourth, parents should keep a normal mind and treat their children correctly.
As the saying goes, "children are their own good", most parents feel that their children are good and can't bear any grievances. Criticism of teachers can sometimes not be treated correctly. In fact, the teacher's criticism of children shows that teachers attach importance to children. If our parents and teachers agree, it will be more beneficial for children to correct their shortcomings. On the other hand, we should also see the advantages of children, even if the children have made small progress, we should also give affirmation, just like Gong Xiaoxin's successful teaching concept "Good children are boasted" to build children's self-confidence. At the same time, parents and teachers should downplay the concept of achievement and pay attention to the cultivation of children's comprehensive quality and learning ability in all aspects.
Fifth, understand and respect children's choices; Trust children and get along equally.
Teacher xx explained that our education for children should follow the concept of respect, understanding, appreciation and encouragement. Every child is an independent individual. For the legitimate demands and reasons of children, I think parents need to analyze the pros and cons from her perspective. As long as it is reasonable, you should generally agree. This can also help to cultivate children's self-confidence and autonomy, and can also make children trust you more.
Parent school is a good communication channel among schools, parents and students. I hope the school can continue to establish a good way of home-school communication. Thanks to the hard work of teachers and the scientific family education learned in parents' schools, I believe it will be very useful in children's follow-up study. At the same time, thank the school for giving us a chance to learn. Children's educational ideas also apply to us adults.
Experience of kindergarten parent school I attended the course lecture of kindergarten parent school on March X. The lecture started when children entered kindergarten. According to children's physical and mental characteristics, parents were explained in detail from the aspects of reasonable nutritious diet, prevention and treatment of common diseases, education for children by parents and kindergartens, family cooperation and educational methods for raising children. Many parents participated in the listening, and everyone learned relevant educational knowledge in combination with their children's personality characteristics.
As the mother of a small class, I also learned a lot of new educational concepts and knowledge, which was deeply inspired. I summed up the following points to encourage other parents.
First of all, to educate children, we must first understand them. The first point is to learn to discover the advantages of children and expand their own advantages appropriately. In other words, parents should be good at discovering the bright spot of their children, even if it is a small thing, they should praise and encourage their children and let them know that she is very capable (that is, we say valuable). She has been praised by her parents and will continue to do so in the future. This is so-called appreciation education. In this regard, Bao Dad and I have done a good job. For example, before eating, we always tell Bao Er that it's time to eat, and she can take the initiative to get chopsticks and bowls. Maybe she can only take one bowl at a time, but she will put it on the table bowl by bowl and give it to everyone. At this time, we will praise her: "The baby is really capable, what a diligent child!" "Bao Er is very useful, so every time I ask her to have a meal, she will be happy to do these things.
Second, create feelings, be firm and confident, and let children find the feeling of self-confidence. After parents understand their children's personality, they should also prescribe the right medicine for their baby's education. Sometimes we need our children to be our teachers, so that Bao Er can feel better than his parents, and then he can feel confident. This is obvious in my family, Bao Er. One night the other day, after dinner, I played with her. She rolled the paper tube into an angle with a piece of hard paper, and the bottom was very sharp. She asked me, "Mom, guess what I folded?" I looked puzzled and said, "Bao Er folded so well that my mother wouldn't even fold it." She opened her eyes wide and asked, "Mom, I folded my pen for writing! Are you sure you won't fold? " I said, "Bao Er is so amazing that Lian Bi can fold it! Can you teach mom? " The little guy was so happy that he immediately took a piece of paper and taught me in a good way. Of course, I also study very hard. In this way, the child is very confident, and she knows that she can also be her mother's teacher.
Third, learn to explore and create self-confidence and self-improvement. This is to let our parents and kindergartens constantly discover and refine their children's advantages in the long-term educational life, and often give them affirmation and praise, so that children can become self-reliant and strong while having self-confidence and grow up healthily and happily.
Secondly, we should go into the child's mind. This is very important and I need to learn from it. When you enter the child's heart, you must learn to trust, respect and make friends with the child. Although Bao Dad and I usually tell Bao Er that the three of us are good friends, sometimes the child is willful and disobedient, and after the preaching is ineffective, we lose patience and start yelling at her, reaching out and hitting her if she doesn't listen. After listening to the lecture, I felt guilty and thought about it. I can't do this anymore. If you want to be friends with Bao Er, you really should treat her as a friend, especially when she makes mistakes in Bao Er. As a friend who studied psychology once told me, if you were a friend, you would say that your friend made a mistake. Would you blame her or even hit her? I regret every time I used to use force against Bao Er, and I will be Bao Er's true friend in the future, and I will be good friends with Bao Er. Anyway, smile and say to her: how kind of you!
Before we want our children to change, as parents, we should first change our educational concept, communicate with our "good friends" actively, learn to listen to children, learn to discuss with children, and learn from them, so that she can grow up healthily and happily through loving communication and become a confident, self-reliant, self-reliant, intellectual woman with good morality and wisdom. This is the educational goal I hope to achieve.
Finally, all the feelings will be put into practice in the future educational life. The road to education has a long way to go, but everything is for children. Whether it is smooth sailing or thorny, our three "good friends" will go hand in hand.
Parents are the best teachers for their children, so parents should pay attention to the details of their children's daily life, set an example and make a good start. Read and study with children, create an atmosphere of reading and learning, and occasionally seek children's opinions to cultivate children's pride in reading and learning more and being a knowledgeable person. Don't judge teachers and others in front of children, learn and exchange children's educational methods and experiences with other children's parents, and be a caring and tolerant parent.
In today's society, the education of the only child has become a concern. It is the common wish of our parents to have a successful child and a successful daughter. As parents, we should train our children to be independent people with enough potential and confidence to leave us and become independent individuals in family life and social life. But how to educate children, especially how to do a good job in early childhood education, has become a difficult problem for every parent. Family is the first living environment for children, and parents are the influence of children, so it is great and far-reaching. The following are some of my experiences in educating children.
First, respect children's questions and pay attention to the cultivation of intelligence. We never deliberately taught her what to learn, but only answered her questions seriously when the child asked questions; Teach her to recognize the words on some books she likes to read, give her some books and dishes she likes, let her learn how to play and tell stories by herself, tell me stories once at ordinary times, and then let her tell them to me, so that she has a strong interest in learning.
Second, respect and guide children's thoughts and cultivate children. Pay attention to children's moral cultivation, no matter what the occasion, it is required not to hit people, swear or swear. Our parents are the children's first teachers. At home, when we are with children, we shouldn't swear or do excessive behavior. When a child finds out that his parents have done something wrong, we parents should take the initiative to admit the mistake and guide her to admit it when she makes a mistake.
Third, pay attention to the cultivation of children's independence. In the process of children's growth, education is inseparable, and education is inseparable from respect. Respect does not mean connivance. In normal times, if you want to treat your child as an independent person, you must listen to your child's thoughts, discuss problems with your child, and learn to put yourself in the child's shoes. What should we do if our parents encounter the same problem? Will they do it like children? We can't use our own ideas, patterns and ways of thinking to decide what children should and shouldn't do, let alone use the authority of parents to suppress children's thoughts. Let children have their own ideas and independence, respect their independence, give them their own space, let them learn to brush their teeth, wash their faces and dress, let them learn to think independently, and let them have their own potential and knowledge.
These are just some of my experiences in educating children. At this moment, it is the era of only child. In early childhood education, we have also experienced a process from ignorance to gradual understanding. In terms of educating children, the differences in family environment have created different educational methods. Parents expect their children to grow up healthily, be outstanding and be proud, but I believe that as long as parents can pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, their children will surely succeed and move towards glory.