It is often said that in order to mix well in today's society, high emotional intelligence must be the top priority. Therefore, many parents will cultivate their children's EQ when they are young and help them enroll in various EQ training classes, which makes the current EQ training classes more and more popular. In fact, if children can do these four things when they are young, their emotional intelligence will be high when they grow up, so parents don't have to worry at all, and children can get along well in society on their own. How many children are there in your family?

1, know how to read words and feel emotions.

Although the children are still young, some children are already very attractive. They can judge whether adults are happy or unhappy according to their faces. If adults are happy, children can take this opportunity to make their own demands, which not only satisfies their own wishes, but also makes adults angry. If you see that adults are in a bad mood at that time, children will be smarter and will not take the initiative to make adults unhappy. Such a child is called a villain, but it is undeniable that his emotional intelligence is really high and he will be very popular in dealing with others in the future.

2. You can play with friends.

People with high emotional intelligence will make others feel comfortable when they speak or do things, so people with high emotional intelligence are very popular wherever they go. If your children have been fond of their friends since childhood, they can mingle with them and make like-minded friends wherever they go. It shows that your children have high emotional intelligence in making friends, and parents can rest assured that there will be good friends to help them after entering the society.

3. Be able to manage your emotions

If a child is optimistic from an early age, he will digest bad emotions by himself. Even if there are contradictions and conflicts with children, you will not complain and lose your temper if you are unhappy, but you can properly manage your emotions and adjust your mentality in time. Parents should be really happy to meet such a child, and don't worry that the child is always in a bad mood and feels sorry for himself. People who know how to manage their emotions can better grasp the initiative in life, so that children will be full of passion in their future work and life.

4. Education

Nowadays, education is very valuable for a child, because many children have become Xiong Haizi under the spoil of their families. And education is the most direct embodiment of a person's emotional intelligence. Educated children can not only abide by public rules, but also control themselves at all times without causing trouble or discomfort to others.

Children's emotional intelligence is not innate, but also needs to be cultivated. If parents want to make their children more relaxed in society, they should set an example and cultivate their emotional intelligence.

How many children with high emotional intelligence are there in your family?