To do a good job, you should always cooperate with others. After making achievements, please * * * share them with you, and don't show them off everywhere.
Thinking of others is also manifested in giving a helping hand and helping others when they encounter difficulties and setbacks. Good interpersonal skills.
Secondly, open-minded, good at accepting others and accepting yourself. Don't waste time praising others. But you should be careful not to exaggerate blindly, which will give people a false feeling and lose others' trust in you.
Thirdly, we should master the skills of talking with colleagues. When talking with colleagues, pay attention to his speech and give appropriate feedback. Attentive listening represents understanding and acceptance, and it is a bridge connecting the soul. When expressing your thoughts, you should pay attention to tolerance, humor, conciseness and vividness. Implicit not only shows your elegance and accomplishment, but also plays a role in avoiding differences, expounding opinions and not hurting relationships. When commenting and pointing out others' mistakes, we should pay attention to the occasion and use peaceful words to avoid hurting others' self-esteem and causing resistance. Humor is the spice of language, which can make conversation lively and interesting. Conciseness requires that when talking with people, you should master what you should say and not say what you shouldn't. When talking with people, you should have your own emotional input, so that you can impress people with your feelings. This is called vividness. Of course, to master the skills of expressing yourself, you need to keep practicing, constantly increase your cultural literacy and broaden your horizons.
Finally, take time to mingle with colleagues. This is also a good way to cultivate your various interests and make friends with them. In addition, exchanging information and learning from your own experience can coordinate interpersonal relationships.
Good interpersonal relationship is an art. All people need constant study and practice to master it. I hope you can make a self-analysis according to your own specific situation, break through the self-enclosed barrier with an open mind and build a harmonious interpersonal relationship.
Everyone wants to get along well with others and have good interpersonal relationships. In college life, interpersonal relationship has always been an important factor affecting one's mental health and the quality of campus life. Then, how can we get along well with people on the university campus, have a good memory that will never be forgotten, and make full preparations for the future society? We might as well start from the following aspects:
(1) We should fully understand the characteristics of interpersonal relationships on campus.
From the day I became a college student, the objects and characteristics of getting along with people have undergone fundamental changes. Before middle school, the objects and meanings we got along with were narrow, just an extension of friendship or intimate relationship. In addition, the interpersonal relationship at that time was relatively simple. For example, we can only associate with people we like, and people who don't like or don't want to associate can ignore him. However, once we become college students and live in dormitories on campus, we can no longer associate with others only by our personal likes and dislikes. For every member of the collective, whether we like it or not, we have to face it every day and get along with it. Therefore, we should not only associate with people we like, but also keep friendly relations with people we don't like. This is a prominent feature of campus interpersonal relationship. In addition, in college life, the new feature of interpersonal relationship is that you can't only ask others by your own standards, but also realize that your behavior and lifestyle may be accepted and rejected by others. Therefore, when there is conflict or disharmony between the two, we should not only blame and blame each other, but also understand and adapt to each other. In other words, college students must gradually get rid of the self-centered way of thinking, gradually learn to put themselves in others' shoes, and on this basis, establish independent and coordinated new interpersonal relationships.
(2) Pay attention to the cultivation of one's own personality and ability.
I often hear a classmate say: