Judge yourself, an idiom in China. Pinyin is shěn jǐ duó rén, which means to judge yourself first, and then judge others. Review of idiom notes: review; Degree: measure. The idiom comes from Dian Lun Wen written by Cao Wei Pi of the Three Kingdoms: "A gentleman judges people, so he can write a paper without being tired." Usage of idioms as predicate and object; Refers to a person who is good at introspection.

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"Don't judge others by yourself" means don't try to figure out each other with your own ideas. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is a Chinese saying, which means don't impose what you don't like on others. From Chapter 12 of The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." It originated in Zhou Li and was highly praised by Confucius, the ancestor of Confucianism.

That is, when you ask others to do something, first of all, you are willing to do it yourself, or you have done it yourself like others, then your request is relieved; The popular understanding is that if you can't do it yourself, you can't ask others to do it.

This sentence reveals the important principles of dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference. People should have a broad mind. When dealing with people, don't be narrow-minded, be generous and forgive others.

If you impose what you don't want on others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things deadlocked and out of control. The communication between people should really adhere to this principle, which is the embodiment of respecting others and treating others equally.

In this world, we should not only pay attention to our own existence, but also pay attention to the existence of others. Everyone is equal. Do not do to others what you don't want them to do to you.