Grasping happiness once saw such a fable in the reader: a spider who has been practicing in a temple for 3 thousand years always thinks that what is not lost is the most precious. The Buddha decided that she had not really achieved the right result, and she was successful in cultivation, so she became a talented and beautiful girl. She fell in love with the charming champion Lang at first sight, but the emperor betrothed her to a prince. The spider is heartbroken and dying. I saw the prince said to her sadly, "I looked up to you on the front steps of the temple for 3 thousand years, and now I finally got this marriage." I didn't expect you to be so rude. I might as well leave you first. " Then he drew his sword and committed suicide. Suddenly, the champion and the prince, one became "unattainable" and the other became "lost" The spider lost the happiness she could have for what she couldn't have. In fact, the prince is sincere to her, and the prince is also very brave. Together, they may become the happiest couple in the world. At this time, she suddenly realized that the happiness that can be grasped now is the most precious thing in the world.

Fables are always fables, and we often laugh back. However, we often inadvertently play the leading role and interpret a true fable of life. We are always sighing about the past and passing by the oncoming happiness. There are many different stages in life, and each stage should have some good memories. No matter which stage will pass, the ship of life will move on. We still have to bravely pursue those unknown happiness, which is not a denial of the past, but a continuous enrichment of life, and there should be no gap at each stage. Therefore, those who only sigh the changes of the world and live in memory are doomed to be unable to have happiness. Only by cherishing this moment and living in this moment can we grasp happiness.