Throughout our vulgar culture in China, quarreling is a bright color. Of course, it doesn't mean that foreigners don't quarrel by nature. I was fortunate to travel in Europe for a short time and saw many disputes between foreigners, but the quarrels between China have the characteristics of national quintessence in both frequency and manner.

Everyone knows that people in China like to argue about anything. Of course, it's reasonable for you. As for the dead reason and the living reason, speak rationally and stand still. Therefore, it is necessary to quarrel when taking a taxi, and it is necessary to quarrel when pulling out garlic on the second floor and the first floor. The child had a fight in the kindergarten, which was even more noisy. Noisy, but also bring two helpers, just one phone call, okay, second grandpa is wronged, can our younger generation be idle? Go together, go together. So we often see a group of people making noise, one person making noise, the whole family making noise, three aunts and six grandmothers making noise together! As a result, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

I once asked an aunt who helped fight, "Why did you help your nephew fight?" Aunt is very angry: "My nephew, can I not help?" He cursed my ancestors. Can I pretend not to hear? ""Do you know it's your nephew's fault? Would you still help if you were an outsider? "Aunt said nothing. Wow! In fact, it is true that people say that quarrels are full of anger. So whether it's right or wrong, it's all intentions. Are we really good people or bad people? No You are not stupid, but why are you impatient to get on the thief boat? Why? Because the quarreling party is your close friend, you have a sense of trust and closeness to him, and this is a trap that hides right and wrong and weakens your understanding of things. Think about it, if it's not my aunt's nephew, my aunt will probably think about it. Who is wrong and who is right? Naturally, she won't make any noise.

Just fighting. so this is it？ No, life is the same. When everyone is doing things, it is easy to let his own subjectivity control him, and he loses his sight and makes a big mistake with his emotional preferences. Anyone who cares about current politics knows that Saddam Hussein is typical. Of course, people are emotional animals, and it is normal to have feelings. When they meet acquaintances or even relatives and friends, their impressions will go up. However, don't forget that there are basic points and objective points behind the impression. A society needs emotion as a lubricant. But the existence of society has its right path and its black and white justice in the world. Personal feelings are too active and intense in the face of the law and the understanding of right and wrong, which will only run counter to the right and will only blind you, because feelings cannot replace understanding, and we are rational.

Starting from quarreling, let feelings stop you from understanding correctly and give the world more fairness.