Naturally, we always favor people who have deep feelings with us, but not necessarily. During the period of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, the mother of a long-term study family was widowed and worked as a primary school teacher in the village. Two brothers, both know how to read and be polite, but they are handsome. As an adult, my brother joined the * * * production party and finally buried his bones in the castle peak. My younger brother, who studied at school and was proficient in Japanese, became a Japanese "translator". On the eve of the Japanese invasion of China sweeping the village, my brother went home late at night to pick up his mother and entertain himself. The mother knows everything, but she keeps a straight face and just cooks her son's favorite dish. During the dinner, the mother spoke softly and praised her son's promise with joy. When the son took the last sip of wine, the mother's tears fell into the wine, and she put cream in it. Then she restrained herself and went to the village to sound the alarm. Here, reason triumphs over emotion, and the deep affection between mother and son does not affect her cognition. Man's greatness lies in that he can control his feelings, and some things must be done, even if his heart drops blood and hurts little by little.
In this story about the affection between parents and children, emotion triumphs over reason. Lecturer in physics department of a university, proficient in engineering mechanics. Once, he said that if something falls from the upstairs, don't pick it up, because the undertaker is under great pressure, even fatal, due to the acceleration of gravity. At this moment, he heard an exclamation, and his six-year-old son was standing on the railing on the third floor, teetering. As soon as his son slipped and began to fall, he rushed to grab him firmly. However, as he himself said, under great pressure, his leg hit the ground and became a comminuted fracture. Later, the students went to him and asked him why he knew he would get hurt. He said, "In love, there is no mechanism."
The same is true love, one is because the conscience is patriotic and forgets the family, and the other is because the family forgets the basic knowledge they have learned. I think the closeness of emotion has an influence on cognition, because there will be partiality and care when there is love, but I can't decide whether emotion makes us see more clearly or blindfolds us.
Maybe this is clearer, patient mother.
Maybe it's impulsive, brave father.
Maybe, maybe, this balance will not level off.