Because true love is always only related to the inner spirit and soul, we fall in love with a person only because the souls are attracted to each other, and some external material conditions are not important.
If the other person tries to override your personality because of these unimportant things, it can only show that there is another important reason besides arrogance in his bones: he doesn't love you enough, and may even look down on you.
Remember, you don't need to please anyone deliberately. The more humble love, the easier it is to be looked down upon by the other party. When humble, the soul will bow its head, which is precisely the performance of not loving itself. Without self-love, it is not worth loving.
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontexq is a must-read book for women and a century-old world classic. Only by understanding the essence of Jane Eyre's thought can we live ourselves in love and find the meaning of life.