Choose honesty
Choose honesty. Because it is more reliable than beauty. A life without beauty may be a life without enough sparkle; But a life without integrity is a life without a glimmer of light. You may not be Pan An or Shi, but you must not lose the most basic trust of others. "People, based on sincerity, take faith as the sky." Without honesty, do you want to be a dust suspended in the world?
Choose honesty. Because it is not so much clever as foolhardy. Honesty is like a country boy, who bows his dark and broad back every day and works silently on the fertile soil of life; Smart is more like a computer hacker. He is always so witty and flexible, but he is always nervous about not revealing the truth. In the script of life, an honest and practical actor is always more popular with the audience than a treacherous and eccentric character.
Choose honesty. Because it has more meaning than money. Holding the banner of "money makes the mare go", life is doomed to be a hard and boring life, and the smell of copper will eventually bring nothing but a cold grave piled up with money; Honesty can polish the foundation of life, make life tall and full, inject intoxicating colors and rich connotations into life, and make life full of attention from beginning to end.
Choose honesty. Because it is more timely than honor. There is no one-time performance, and there is no fixed country. No one can live with the aura of honor all his life. Honor is short-lived, it is only a small piece of beautiful scenery on the journey of life, and no matter how beautiful it is, it is only a short life; But honesty is the seed to cultivate the beautiful scenery of life. If you keep working hard, you will always be beautiful. If you sow the seeds of honesty all over the earth, your life will be beautiful forever.
Choosing honesty is the right choice. Waiting for you to weigh one by one, waiting for you to screen one by one, you will suddenly find that the most fascinating thing under the veil of life is the least artificial and unpretentious frankness! You will find that life is so dull without honesty!
In the baptism of life and wind and waves, with honesty, you can sing in the most sunny mood. To die and live, integrity can't be lost!
Bitter and bittersweet
Everyone longs for joy, but not everyone really understands the meaning of "joy".
Some people think that no suffering is fun, and only a carefree life is fun. This seems reasonable at first glance, but it is absurd. Because the world is contradictory and unified, with joys and sorrows; What fun is there without bitter comparison? Bitterness and pleasure are unity of opposites and inseparable.
First of all, suffering is the premise of happiness.
As the saying goes, "neither bitter nor sweet." This shows that happiness is based on suffering. Imagine, which successful person in the world is a successful person who enjoys smooth sailing for life? Of course not. On the contrary, people who succeed are often those who can hone themselves in hardships and work hard. As Sima Qian said: "King Gavin was arrested and went to Zhouyi; Zhong You wrote Spring and Autumn Annals; Qu Yuan's exile is a tribute to Li Sao ... "It can be seen that there is no joy of success without painful struggle.
Secondly, pleasure is the purpose of pain.
Everyone must have a belief to support it, so that it is possible to endure the "bitterness" that comes at any time. This belief is "music"-that is, ideals and pursuits. Only those who have ideals and pursuits will not be intimidated by some difficulties, and it is possible to get the final "music". Imagine, if there is no firm belief and determination not to learn from the scriptures and never look back, can Xuanzang calmly face the difficult road and get the scriptures? I'm afraid he can't get out of Chang 'an, so he'll have to complain bitterly and go back to Baosha.
Again, happiness in suffering is true happiness.
If a person eats, drinks and enjoys endless happiness all his life, it seems to be a kind of "perfect happiness". Actually, it's not. It's just a mindless lowest pleasure. Not to mention its illusory nature, even if there is such joy, it can only make people laugh like Liu Chan's "I don't think about it". True happiness can only be achieved through hard work and unremitting struggle-happiness in suffering is true happiness.
In short, bitterness and happiness are dialectical unity, which requires us to correctly treat the relationship between bitterness and happiness, and chewing sweetness from bitterness is the correct attitude. As young students, only by constantly honing themselves in practice can they make due contributions to society and thus obtain "real happiness".