One day, the math teacher told the class that there would be an exam tomorrow. After listening, the students immediately picked up their books and reviewed them nervously. However, I think: my grades are good, and my scores are above 95 in every exam. I will do well in this exam even if I don't review. Therefore, when others are reviewing, I don't review. I finish my homework and watch TV at night.
Dad said to me, "there will be an exam tomorrow." Why not review? " I said, "What's the matter? Can't I not review? It doesn't matter, I'm not afraid of exams. " Dad left helplessly.
On the day of the exam, the teacher handed out the test paper, and I did it without thinking. I finished it in about an hour, waiting to hand it in, and I didn't check it. After school, I kicked stones all the way home.
A few days later, the teacher handed out the test paper. I read the scores and we listened carefully. Suddenly, the teacher reported: "xxx, 76 points! ! ! "I was dumbfounded when I heard that. I thought it was a dream. However, this is the reality! I can't face my father. I will definitely be scolded, but I have to go home. I crustily skin of head went home. When I came home, my father saw it and said only one sentence: "Don't be proud!" " "
Since then, I have always remembered my father's words "Don't be proud", and I have learned to do my best for every small success!
2. Not proud and not discouraged. In our real life, everyone will have a successful experience and a painful experience of failure. When we succeed, there will be a bright smile on our faces. Encountered setbacks, some were defeated, some worked hard and faced difficulties.
For us students, how should we face the success or failure of study and life? This leads to the theme I want to talk about today-"Don't be arrogant in winning, don't lose with grace". The ancients once said: "The winner is not proud, and the loser is not discouraged."
This is a fact. When you succeed through your own efforts, don't be complacent and arrogant. Instead, we should sum up our successful experience, make persistent efforts and strive for higher and better goals. When you encounter setbacks and failures, don't be discouraged and collapse, but carefully check what you have done, find out the reasons, and constantly sum up, and you will move from a failure to success. Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that we can't realize our own shortcomings from it.
We often say that "failure is the mother of success", which means that failure is sometimes inevitable on the road to success. Didn't Edison, the great inventor, succeed after countless failures? After countless failures-success, success in failure, the electric light was finally invented. Edison was like this, and so was Liu Xiang, the champion of Athens Olympic Games. It is through countless failures that we have achieved such an impressive record, achieved the breakthrough of zero gold medal in Asian sprint, and won glory for China and Asians! However, we should keep learning from failures and from successful people. Psychologically, we should realize that failure is temporary. As long as you can adjust your mentality, find out the problem, and add your own efforts, you will certainly achieve satisfactory results.
We just had a mid-term exam. Because students have different foundations, some students have achieved excellent results through their own efforts, and some students feel that their achievements are not ideal and they have not achieved their goals. In this way, there are two kinds of students with mentality.
Students who do well in the exam will rejoice, but they must not be proud and move on; Students who are temporarily irrational in the exam should not be pessimistic and disappointed, check for leaks and make up for vacancies, and will eventually achieve excellent results. What I want to tell you is that the exam is only a means of testing. Passing the exam can reflect the degree of knowledge you have learned since the beginning of school. Scores can only represent the past, not the future.
As long as you can analyze the reasons for your failure from the exam and summarize your shortcomings, I believe you will be among the best in the future exams. In daily study and life, we should keep a good attitude, so as to win without arrogance and lose with grace.
I sincerely hope that every student will overcome the difficulties in his study in the future, go forward bravely, and strive to do: preview carefully before class and prepare necessary school supplies; Think positively in class, speak boldly, and ask if you don't understand; Review in time after class, and carefully complete the class and homework assigned by the teacher. Write your homework neatly. Homework should be done independently. Do your homework as well as possible. If it is wrong, it should be corrected immediately.
We firmly believe that as long as students study hard, they will get excellent results in the final exam. Win without arrogance, lose with grace.
Let's always keep a heart of struggle, sum up today's success and failure, and look forward to tomorrow's glory. After hard work and struggle, I believe everyone can reach the other side of the ideal. Please keep in mind the famous saying "Don't be arrogant in winning, don't lose with grace". I believe it will bring great encouragement and help to your life.
3. Write a short essay on the topic that people should not be arrogant. +100: "People should not be arrogant, but they should not be impetuous."
This sentence by Xu Beihong, the master of art, tells a profound philosophy of life. Indeed, one should not be arrogant.
With pride, people tend to be conceited and think that they are capable and superior to others, thus becoming arrogant. This is a harbinger of his future failure.
With arrogance, when words of praise and flattery come at him when he succeeds, he will be on cloud nine, unable to listen to criticism and advice, unable to distinguish between true and false and right and wrong, and eventually fail. But there must be "pride" without "pride".
What is pride? That is, you should have ambition, self-confidence and indomitable character. The road of life is bumpy, failures and setbacks will come at any time, and cold eyes and satire will follow.
Do you regard these things as "your own lack of talent" and never recover from it? Still not afraid of ridicule, looking for reasons and facing difficulties? It depends on whether there is "pride". Confidence in yourself is the first step on the road to success. People who are proud and confident are not discouraged after failure. On the contrary, they will continue to explore on a new basis.
4. "People should not be arrogant, but not arrogant" composition: "People should not be arrogant, but not arrogant." This sentence by Xu Beihong, the master of art, tells a profound philosophy of life.
Indeed, one should not be arrogant. With pride, people tend to be conceited and think that they are capable and superior to others, thus becoming arrogant. This is a harbinger of his future failure. With arrogance, when words of praise and flattery come at him when he succeeds, he will be on cloud nine, unable to listen to criticism and advice, unable to distinguish between true and false and right and wrong, and eventually fail. For such people, success is tantamount to "poison".
But there must be "pride" without "pride". What is pride? That is, you should have ambition, self-confidence and indomitable character. The road of life is bumpy, failures and setbacks will come at any time, and cold eyes and satire will follow. Do you regard these things as "your own lack of talent" and never recover from it? Still not afraid of ridicule, looking for reasons and facing difficulties? It depends on whether there is "pride". Confidence in yourself is the first step on the road to success. People who are proud and confident are not discouraged after failure. On the contrary, they will continue to explore on a new basis.
5. Walk with pride, walk with adversity and argue with elegance. Xiao Ming and Xiao Li both study in Hongxing Primary School and live in the same yard. One day, Xiao Ming got 100, while Xiao Li only got 50. Xiao Ming is very happy, but Xiao Li is very sad. After school, Xiao Ming proudly came to Xiao Li with an examination paper, and Xiao Li looked for her with his head down. Didn't say a word Xiao Ming did not comfort Xiao Li when he saw this. Instead, he cocked his thumb and boasted, "You are so stupid, you should learn from me!" " "Say that finish, she left the classroom carrying a bag. As for Xiaoli, because she didn't do well in this exam, she secretly made up her mind to make up her studies, so she took the initiative to find a teacher to point out her shortcomings. When Xiao Ming saw it outside the window, he was still so conceited and self-righteous He pointed to himself with his thumb and said, "I am a genius! "Xiaoli went home, kept reviewing, and did the homework assigned by the teacher seriously, without noticing the sweat flowing from her forehead; Xiao Ming rolled a hoop outside, sweating profusely. After repeated efforts, Xiaoli finally gained something. The composition in the third grade of primary school is "winning without arrogance, losing with grace". The school organized the second exam. A few days later, the results came out. This time, it is very different. Xiaoli 100. Xiaoli, who was originally sad, became happy. Just like last time, the other way around. But Xiaoli was not proud or sarcastic. Instead, she patted Xiaoming on the shoulder and said, "Don't be sad. If we work together, you will definitely get 100 again." Xiao Ming was ashamed and nodded slowly, indicating his agreement. At this time, birds are singing in the sky, as if to say, "modesty makes people progress." "
6. People should not be proud of writing. In my mind, many things have happened.
Among them, the most unforgettable thing is what my sister said to me. This happened when I was in grade one.
One day, the school issued a certificate, and I got two, one was "excellent class cadre" and the other was "second prize of Chinese subject". When I got home, my parents kept praising me. After all, it was the first prize of my primary school.
Neighbor's children are here. I proudly asked, "What did you win?" . He lowered his head and said, "I didn't win the prize."
I went on to say, "No, there is a great chance of winning this prize, and you don't even have it. Then the next chance is smaller, and you are the last one. " This is him running home angrily.
My sister had no choice but to say to me, "Are you really so proud? You were so proud for the first time, how can you help in the future? " I talked back after listening to it.
Now that I think about it, I have to admit that I was really proud. At that time, I was carried away by pride, so I did it. And what my sister said, she helped me very hard and overcame my pride.
Pride may harm yourself, or it may fall behind again and again. Pride proves that you are satisfied with your achievements. The so-called "learning is like sailing against the current." If you don't advance, you will retreat. "
Everyone should not be too satisfied with what he has done. Otherwise, how can we do better? Make yourself work harder.
7. Isn't it strange that the composition with two sides as the topic, the same 800-word question, comes up with four different correct answers, all of which are reasonable? Not at all. Really, as long as you are good at looking at the problem from another angle, you will find that in fact, many questions have colorful answers. I remember the story about such a little girl published in Reader magazine. One day, the little girl's beloved Persian cat died of illness. She stood at the window and watched the servants bury her lovely kitten, so she burst into tears. The little girl's grandfather came over and opened another window for her. The little girl went to another window. At this time, she saw the gardener at home pruning the branches and leaves for those beautiful roses. The little girl soon forgot her grief and laughed happily. In fact, the old man is good at seeing things from another angle, and he is also good at teaching his granddaughter to see things from another angle to get happiness. The world is ever-changing and life is ever-changing. In real life, we often encounter problems of one kind or another. We are moving forward. Be anxious when encountering setbacks. Have you tried looking at it from another angle? When you are in trouble, you may even be pessimistic and disappointed. Did you solve it from another angle? All problems are small, all setbacks are short-lived, and all difficulties are not eternal. When you encounter these problems, please try to solve them from another angle. These problems, setbacks and dilemmas do not belong to you. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, wuyue competed for hegemony. At first, Wu defeated Yue, but Gou Jian, the king of Yue, was not depressed. He worked hard and regarded failure as a temporary result. What made Yue win the final victory? Is to think from another angle. Life is colorful, and the answers are colorful, as long as you are good at looking at the problem from another angle. Indeed, you can't change the length of life, but you can expand its width and make your life more meaningful. You can't change your appearance, but you can show a sincere smile and make others happy because of you; You can't change the weather, but you can control your mood and make your day full of sunshine; .
Leaves are flying in the sky, but without wind, it can't be free.
Morning glory blooms beautifully, but without a fence, it loses its support for growth.
The rainbow is so beautiful and moving, but without the sunshine after rain, it is difficult to shine.
Some people may stand out and be above others, but once they lose their dependence, they are nothing. Therefore, people should have a little spirit-rely on it.
The whole world thinks that Zhuge Liang did his best for Shu Han, but Shu Han did not unify the whole country in the end, but was the first to perish among the three countries. People say this is because Liu Chan is weak and incompetent, but I think Zhuge Liang has an unshirkable responsibility for it. It is true that he has made great contributions to Shu, but he doesn't know how to be a man on his own, and he just plans and handles everything, which makes him lose his temper. Also gradually lost the ability of self-reliance, therefore, Shu Han can not be revived. If Zhuge Liang doesn't do whatever he wants and cultivate Liu Chan's independent ability, maybe history will be rewritten from now on, instead of having an unbearable weight.
People rely on their hard work to create a happy and beautiful life. At present, many teenagers live like parasites. Have you ever thought about how to survive once you leave your parents and family? Therefore, each of us should establish a sense of self-reliance and exercise our ability to live independently, so that a happy life will last long.
A person's success depends on himself, isn't it the same for a country?
Our great motherland has risen today. Looking back on the ups and downs of New China in the past 60 years, we can achieve today's amazing achievements precisely because we have a glorious tradition of self-reliance and hard struggle. When New China was founded, we resisted the pressure of international anti-China forces and relied on our own strength to carry out economic recovery and national construction. Later, because we didn't want to be controlled by others and the Soviet Union disintegrated, we always adhered to the principle of independence and self-reliance, so the dragon took off and the Chinese nation rose, and we embarked on a road with China characteristics.
If a country wants to survive and develop, it must also rely on itself and be independent and self-reliant. Only in this way can it stand firm in the world.
Don't be a leaf blown by the wind, even if it flies higher, it will eventually fall; Don't be a morning glory, even if it is beautiful, it will eventually fall down; Don't make a rainbow, even if it is gorgeous.
9. Grasping the distance with the topic of both sides A group of hedgehogs snuggled up to each other to keep warm, but I didn't expect that the spikes used for self-defense on weekdays turned out to be "dangerous" weapons.
After a commotion, they finally found the best distance from each other, which is warm and safe without hurting each other. Too far away, lonely; Too close, easy to get hurt: this is what people often say "hedgehog theory".
It is said in "Augmented Xianwen": "Words are not true gentlemen, but the prescription is strong men." "Good" means "practical".
So, what is "good"? To put it bluntly, it is a word-degree, which is to grasp the appropriate distance. In terms of types, distance includes natural distance and psychological distance; As far as the objects involved are concerned, it contains many categories, such as closeness, beauty and ugliness, whole part, personality and so on.
"We are separated from Wan Li, and each is at the end of the day" is about distance, "Climbing the East Mountain is a path, and climbing Mount Tai is a small world" is about competition, "Poor people don't ask in the street, rich people have distant relatives at the foot of the mountain" is about intimacy, "It's hard to paint a tiger's skin and bones, but people don't know their faces" is about phenomenon and essence, and "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain" is about. Proper distance will give each other a sense of security.
If there is a pair of young men and women sitting on a bench in the park, the woman is sitting in a dangerous position, and the man is half * * *, it must be the object he just met in the sixties and seventies; If they are just doing what they are doing with peace of mind through one or two bodies, they are probably two strangers; If they sit together, only half a body apart, the relationship must be closer; And if a young woman leans her head on a man's shoulder, it must be a couple. You see, the natural distance shows their different emotional depths, and this distance will make them feel safe with each other.
If you change this distance at will, I'm afraid the other party will feel embarrassed and embarrassed, even a little strange. Distance affects each other's feelings.
In ancient times, emperors always pretended to be the center of the world. There is an insurmountable distance between courtiers and emperors. The courtiers are in "your majesty" ("chasing" means ladder), and the emperor is on it. In this contrast, the majesty of the emperor is highlighted, so there is the fear of "accompanying the king like a tiger" and walking on thin ice.
This is similar to the situation of interrogating prisoners. Unscrupulous officials live under the "hanging mirror" and exclaim "tell the truth!" Coupled with the "mighty" sound coming from the ear, the general "unruly" has already scared away the second soul. This is a trick used by the ancients and is not worthy of praise.
But in daily life, we must shorten the psychological distance through face-to-face equal dialogue between teachers and students; When the elders say "Lao Zi ……", if the "Lao Zi" who oppresses people by status is removed, the result will certainly not be so bad; The boss changed "come to my office" to "I'll wait for you in my office", and the atmosphere must be much more relaxed; Less polite words and more sincere words between friends must feel a lot more cordial; ..... Distance has something to do with emotion, and "Far fragrance is near stink" and "Getting married is better than leaving" are all popular and vivid interpretations. Distance affects beauty.
Beauty is beautiful, and the moon is bright, because we are at an appropriate distance. If someone takes a magnifying glass to observe Jia Baoyu, whose face is like a mid-autumn moon and whose color is like a spring flower, or takes a microscope to observe his boss's daughter, "Too red for ink and too white for powder", the result will definitely surprise you and even make you feel ugly.
In the poet's imagination, there were "lonely Chang 'e dancing with wide sleeves" and "WU GANG holding out osmanthus wine", but when the Apollo spacecraft arrived, the cold reality broke our dream-the moon was so desolate. What a wonderful imagination it is to "look far and wide, and all rivers run into the sea", but only when we know the truth can we know that space is not so romantic. Black holes open their mouths to devour all the invading matter, and deadly rays travel through the universe. It is precisely because of our special position that our earth keeps a proper distance from other planets that a vibrant miracle appears. This is an inevitable accident! Walking too close, Mona Lisa also lost her mystery; If you are too far away, flowers will be abstracted without beauty.
The progress of science is worthy of recognition, but life has given us profound enlightenment: beauty often comes from a proper distance. Distance affects the cognition of things.
"The advance of truth is fallacy." If we can't reach the highest peak, we will be covered by clouds. If you can't jump out of the mountain, you won't know the true face of Lushan Mountain. If we can't escape from the concrete garden, we can't abstract the essence of things; If you can't explore deeply, you can't understand the meaning of things.
Distance exists everywhere in life and embodies truth, goodness and beauty. Understanding distance is a profound knowledge, and grasping distance is an art full of wisdom! = = = = = = = = = = = Seize the time and strive for the future. It is a gradual process from birth to becoming a child, then becoming a youth, then getting old and finally going. In the final analysis, it is the result of time.
Time is like an invisible catalyst, which makes everything in the world change all the time, and nothing can be divorced from this law. And time, like a kind of "* * *", makes everything change unconsciously. People often shout, "I am young and I have capital." They do nothing all day and live a wandering life. However, when they wake up one day and find that they are no longer young, they have nothing to do at this time, which is painful, because the lost time will never come back.
Confucius, an ancient sage, once said: "The deceased is like a husband, staying up all night." Indeed, time flies like water, and what is in front of us will become history in an instant. Life is only a few short decades, which is insignificant for the long history of human development. However, we can use these short decades to create infinite brilliant achievements, which is the greatest value of life. Therefore, we must grasp this short life, work hard and create.