Reconciliation is a favor, a feeling, a solvent, a lubricant of mutual understanding. Reconciliation is like an umbrella, which will help you walk in the rainy season. People should reconcile with life at an appropriate time, but it doesn't mean giving up principles and not loving life.
Reconciliation with today is to challenge tomorrow. For example, an excellent dancer, by the age of forty, the functions of all parts of her body will deteriorate, and the flexibility, coordination and flexibility of her limbs will be greatly reduced. Years of competition will also leave her scarred. If she continues to challenge the stage and insists on training to participate in the competition, she will not only fail to achieve good results, but may also cause lifelong pain to her body. At this time, it is time for her to bid farewell to the stage and reconcile with this life. She can be a coach or any other profession, and changing careers is another part of her life that she has to challenge.
Reconciliation with yourself is for a more relaxed and happy life. People will encounter unpleasant things and people in life. If you don't learn to reconcile, you will have a very painful and tired life. Forgive yourself for not being able to achieve great things, get ahead, be brilliant, and be rich. Forgive yourself and don't cling to your weaknesses, shortcomings and mistakes. Being too hard on yourself will only make you lose confidence and courage, give up hope and ambition, put down the burden, decompress yourself, reconcile with yourself, and believe that there is still a chance in your future life.
Reconciliation with others will enhance friendship and make you happy. There will inevitably be collisions, frictions and contradictions between people. Maybe the other party has no intention at all. Maybe the other person is hiding something, so it's better to take a step back, try to smile indifferently, give others a chance, and give yourself a chance, and maybe there will be unexpected gains. Reconciliation with others requires a spirit of self-sacrifice and a lofty and broad mind. Losing doesn't mean weakness, because reconciliation is far better than revenge! When is the time for revenge? Hatred will not only cause hostility between people, but also aggravate anxiety and anxiety in life, which is not good for people or themselves. There is nothing that can't be reconciled between people, and there is nothing that can't be discussed between people. Life is neither long nor short. Why waste time on meaningless quarrels? In fact, reconciliation is very simple. It's something you said on your own initiative after the stalemate. This is the yellow rose you gave him after your mistake. This is a friendly smile and a small gift ... as long as there is a real friendship, the reconciliation is completed.
Reconciliation with life, because life is always the same as the sky, and it is not always pure and transparent. Wan Li has a clear sky. Occasionally, there will be lightning and thunder, which will make you laugh and make you sad. It won't make you lucky and happy all the time, it will make you taste the ups and downs. If you can't reconcile, it will be unbearable, and the consequence will be to live in "hot water" and be miserable.