Whenever you meet someone who can make your heart beat, you should cherish, be kind and bravely pursue what you love, even if you are middle-aged or even white-haired; However, if you have a wife, children and relatives, regardless of age, don't do whatever you want easily, regardless of responsibility.
In the vast sea of people, as long as we meet, it is fate; But if this fate causes a lot of trouble or even harm for no reason, it becomes doomed love, which is a disaster for two people who meet.
Then, for those married middle-aged people, is it fate or doom to meet someone who makes them feel excited?
The so-called heartbeat, sometimes just? Desire? appear and disappear
In love? Heartbeat? Is a beautiful word, indicating the beginning of a sweet love; However, the heart outside marriage is often not just the kind of heart in love, the kind of true love, but more, just in people's hearts? Desire? It's working
When people reach middle age, do you feel that you are treating someone other than your lover? Touched your heart? When you are young, you should carefully ask yourself: this? Heartbeat? To what extent does it transcend the infatuation between you and your lover, and to what extent does it give you spiritual and spiritual collision and comfort?
If the answer is no, or you hesitate, then what is this unprovoked at the moment? Heartbeat? However, it's just that the current married life is dull and tasteless, which can't give you that kind of romantic and passionate feeling.
No matter how deep love is, there will be times when you are tired. ? If you really want to do this just for the senses and spirit? Heartbeat? And decided to end the current marriage and pursue the so-called? True love? Then, it won't be long before you find that all love comes into marriage to integrate into life, from passionate love to plain love, as well as the love of relatives.
Therefore, don't indulge yourself for temporary pleasure and excitement. People's desires are endless. What really matters is to protect your life? Star? Not for those who pass by? Meteor? Consume oneself excessively.
Whether it's fate or robbery depends on how you handle it.
Thackeray once said in Vanity Fair:? In life, there are always some seemingly insignificant fragments at that time, but in fact they affect the overall situation. ?
When you meet a warm-hearted person in middle age, it is time for God to test you. Cleverly solve this problem? Obsession? It is fate for each other, but if it is not handled well, it is undoubtedly a disaster.
Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese studies, once met someone who moved him during his marriage and studying in Germany. At that time, Ji Xianlin needed a typewriter to finish his doctoral thesis, but he didn't have a typewriter and couldn't use it.
At this moment, a beautiful girl Umgard appeared. She has a typewriter, can type, and is willing to help Ji Xianlin. Pay? Is Ji Xianlin to accompany her? Go to every corner of G? ttingen? Gradually, the two developed feelings.
But Ji Xianlin had an engagement, and finally gave up this relationship and went back to China alone, and? Arranged marriage? My wife lived for 65 years and guarded this marriage for decades.
Miss irmgard, on the other hand, has never been married and has been guarding the room and the old typewriter. Nothing has changed. She has been waiting for him to come back.
Although Ji Xianlin and his wife have nothing in common in novels and literature, isn't it a wonderful marriage with his loyalty and persistence?
Although Miss irmgard is Ji Xianlin? Delay? After a lifetime, but this eternal love through time and space is not a good fate?
Love is a persistence, and true love can stand the test of time.
There is a saying in The Merchant of Venice:? In many things in the world, the interest in pursuing time is always stronger than the interest in enjoying time? .
It is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so what matters is not how many things you like and how many people you pursue in this life, but what kind of sacrifices and persistence you have made for what you love and are most moved by.
Heartbeat is always easy to happen; And love must stand the test of time. It is that loyalty and persistence that makes love great and true.
Many people should have seen the TV series "Eight Dragons". After Zhu was killed by mistake, I have been thinking, can he really stay with a dead woman for a lifetime?
Until later, even in the face of A Zi's bold love and fierce pursuit, he still remembered Arjun, and only took care of A Zi as Arjun's sister. Before I really understood the true meaning of love, I never thought about accepting anyone.
Aru is Aru. All countries have only one Arjun, which has been passed down from generation to generation. ? Maybe love never needs so many rules. True love is the person in your heart who is irreplaceable no matter how things change.
French genius writer Sally? Prudholm once wrote? There is a reliable standard of love, that is, the time people spend? .
In the long years, I only fell in love with one person, that is persistence, this is love.
As Zhang Ailing said: Maybe love is not passion, nor nostalgia, but time, which has become a part of life? .
When a person understands this, he will not be obsessed with short-term extramarital affairs? Heartbeat? It can also turn disasters into good and live up to true love.