It says that men love beautiful faces and women need a strong material foundation, which has biological reasons. The process of a woman's life is difficult and dangerous, so she instinctively needs a man to bring her a sense of security. Not only do we need shelter from the wind and rain, but we also need enough food to raise the next generation.
On the other hand, men are naturally strong and suitable for such dangerous work as hunting. Their instinctive need is to constantly improve their genes, so as to breed better offspring. Therefore, beautiful women are more attractive to them.
The difference of reproductive system also causes the difference of emotional logic between men and women. Men love philandering and express their feelings simply and directly. If this goal doesn't work, move on to the next one. On the other hand, women are more cautious when making emotional choices. Even if you like it in your heart, you will not easily agree to associate, but you should carefully examine the boys for a period of time.
The secret of this is that men have a large number of sperm and will instinctively choose the way to cast a net. Women's eggs are scarce, so we must choose the other half carefully.
Does that sound interesting? People evolved from monkeys, so it is normal to keep some animal instincts. So, the next time you meet a girl who wants a house and a car, don't rush to scold her for worshipping money. What she probably wants is a sense of security! Don't be angry when your boyfriend peeks at beautiful women in the street. He only showed animal instinct temporarily. What are you doing angry with a monkey?
Modern society is highly developed, and the living environment has changed greatly compared with primitive society. Therefore, the relationship between men and women is more complicated and cannot be simply summarized by instinct. But no matter how the times change, the essence of the combination of two people is the same. That is to face the challenges of life together and raise a better next generation.
When two people choose to combine, it is no longer you and her, but you. Think less from your own point of view and more from ours, and many differences in life will be solved.
Let's imagine that you and your other half are in their twilight years, snuggling up on a bench by the lake, watching the sunset, watching the geese fly south, and looking back on the long marriage road, will you laugh happily, or will you have an impulse to strangle him? I think the answer is yes.
So, what does it matter to indulge her a little more in life? Wouldn't it be better to complain less and encourage more when he can't meet your expectations?
Please always remember that the person in front of you wants to accompany you to your old age. Any effort you make is an investment in the future, any tolerance you make is goodwill to your mood, and your sincerity is the source of happiness!