1) Wang Anshi and Su Dongpo have conflicts because of their different positions. Later, some people who were jealous of Su Dongpo caught him writing poems to laugh at the court and the new law, and gave him a book to Song Shenzong. Song Shenzong was so angry that he threw himself into the jade platform Dayu.

But just when everyone thought Su Dongpo was in born to die, Wang Anshi, who lived in seclusion in the mountains, heard the news. He didn't bear a grudge, but wrote to the emperor that when a country employs people, how can it kill a learned and talented scholar because of the trouble caused by some small words?

Zong Shen read Wang Anshi's letter, thought and thought, and found it very reasonable. He ordered Su Dongpo to be released and demoted to a remote place to be a small official. Because of this letter, Su Dongpo saved his life.

Since then, "Wang Anshi saved Dongpo with one word" has become a beautiful talk of "literati dating" in history.

(2) After Zhuge Liang's death, the State of Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over state affairs. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".

(3) Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing, above Lian Po, for his meritorious service of "returning to Zhao intact". Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

(4) In the Ming Dynasty, Dong, a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, was an official in Beijing. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.

⑤ Rong Zhixing, a famous football player in China, participated in many domestic and international competitions during his football career of 18, and always maintained a good sports style. 198 1 In a match with New Zealand, his left ankle was kicked by the opposing player with a 6 cm hole. He was sent to the hospital for treatment and received 10 stitches. A month later, in the match with Kuwait, he was kicked down twice by the other side, which caused the wound to rupture. Someone asked him afterwards, "Why don't you get angry and get back at each other?" Rong Zhixing said: "The opponent was punished by the referee, condemned by the audience and criticized by his peers. His thoughts will also be touched, which will help him correct. If you retaliate against each other with right and wrong, it will encourage rude behavior. " Rong Zhixing, with his tolerant, kind, considerate and reasonable moral character and noble sportsmanship, has won the love of fans, the appreciation of peers and the praise of comments.

Here is a model essay for your reference-

Be kind to others. This sentence is easier said than done. Many people talk, but few people do.

When we calm down and think about it carefully, we will find that we seldom praise others. When we compare with others, we will always find each other's shortcomings and always say that someone has done something wrong. So-and-so is so stupid When someone succeeds in something, we will say to ourselves, "What's the big deal, if I can definitely do it better than him." And when a person fails to do something, many of us will say to ourselves, "Look, how stupid he is. If you can't, you can't. " ..... These are actually the results of our unwillingness to see the advantages of others and our unkindness to others.

When Armstrong set foot on the moon, he was famous for one sentence: "I personally took a small step, but mankind took a big step." But there was also a man named Aldrin who went to the moon together. Although he is a stranger to us, he also makes us admire him. At the press conference to celebrate the success of landing on the moon, a reporter suddenly asked Aldrin a very sharp question: "As a colleague, Armstrong became the first person to land on the moon. Do you feel a little sorry? " The relaxed atmosphere at the scene suddenly solidified. Under the embarrassed eyes of everyone, Aldrin replied humorously: "Ladies and gentlemen, don't forget that I was the first to get out of the space capsule when I returned to Earth!" He looked around and said with a smile, "So I was the first person to come to earth from another planet." Everyone gave him the warmest applause in laughter ... from his words, we can deeply understand the meaning of being kind to others. Smart people know how to be kind to others and don't cling to their mistakes. He will tell a fruitless story in his own way. Perhaps decades later, people have long forgotten Aldrin, but they can't forget his sincere virtue of sharing happiness with friends.

Life is always different, and people's abilities are varied. In fact, this is the same reason that our ten fingers can't be as neat. When a person who is not as good as himself is doing something through hard work, our heartfelt praise may be nothing to us, but if we imagine ourselves as him, what kind of mood will we feel when we hear such praise? When a person who is better than himself finishes something easily, we will praise him and find out the reason for his success. We will pay attention to him and find out why he is better than us. We will ask ourselves to work hard towards his success. Isn't this better than being jealous of his unconvinced? When we meet a person who has done something wrong, especially a person who has done something wrong and hurt us, if we forgive him and give him a chance to mend his ways, we will certainly never get angry again. When a person is in trouble, we try our best to help him and be kind to him. Imagine what we get when the other person says thank you.

Giving others a clear sky is giving yourself a bright sky. When you sincerely discover the strengths, benefits and abilities of others, they will also discover your strengths, benefits and abilities.

I remember someone said, "Being kind to others means respecting yourself." This is the true meaning of being kind to others.