Unfortunately, after finding out the embryo abortion, I consulted a lot of information about spontaneous abortion. The sharing of every girl is very important to me. It was their selfless sharing that made me realize spontaneous abortion without professional knowledge and stick to it. Now write down my own experience and share it with my sisters in need.
Keywords: spontaneous abortion, missed abortion
Main parameters:
After 6 weeks and 5 days, yolk sac was found in the gestational sac of18 *17 *14 mm, but no germ was found.
8 weeks and 6 days, embryo sac is 39*20*37mm, embryo 14mm, no fetal heart.
1 1 week 4 days, embryo sac 45*40*39mm, embryo 15mm, no fetal heart.
13 weeks and 3 days, spontaneous abortion began.
13 weeks and 4 days, the embryo flows out.
There is 34*33* 18mm residue on the second day of outflow.
On the first 1 1 day, it was clean with a little intrauterine effusion.
It takes 33 days from the detection of fetal arrest to outflow, and 45 days from the detection of intrauterine blood flow.
Process 1, diagnosed as missed abortion, commonly known as spontaneous abortion.
I never thought there would be an abortion. After 8 weeks and 6 days of B-ultrasound, the doctor said that the embryo may be broken, and it will be rechecked after a week at most. If you can't, it will flow away. I thought it was a bolt from the blue. I looked up a lot of information and read a lot of papers. I understand that modern medicine has certain definitions of gestational weeks, gestational sac size, embryo length and fetal heart rate. If the three do not correspond to the normal values, there may be a problem. But I still didn't give up, thinking that if we wait a few more weeks, some people's fetal heart will appear late. I waited a little anxiously for three weeks, which reduced a lot of anxiety for the subsequent spontaneous abortion, because waiting hopefully was completely different from taking the embryo out of the body knowing that it was dying. 1 1 week 4 days, I changed to a specialized hospital of obstetrics and gynecology. B-ultrasound showed that the embryo sac became larger and the embryo did not grow. The doctor asked me to miss the abortion, and the doctor in the gynecological clinic asked me to hang up the family planning department. After seeing it, the family planning doctor said that the embryo has been in the mother's body for a long time and must be dealt with as soon as possible. It is not suitable for painful uterine cleaning, drug abortion and painless abortion. This is another bolt from the blue. Unexpectedly, the idea of family planning suddenly became how to expel embryos from the body after the emotional collapse in front of gynecological outpatients, and the danger of xx was not ruled out. It took only four or five hours from reporting the hope to go to the hospital, to learning the sadness that could not be retained, and then to being afraid of missing abortion surgery and risks. While waiting for examination in the hospital, I entered the missed abortion online. A sister's post that missed abortion can wait for spontaneous abortion caught my attention and met Dr. Zhang Ning who supported spontaneous abortion. After the doctor put the consent form for the operation in front of me, I refused, saying that I would go back and think about it, and the doctor took the information away.
Process two, waiting for spontaneous abortion.
After returning, my husband and I checked a lot of information. Find an article by Dr. Zhang Ning, "Abortion due to abortion vs threatened abortion vs natural abortion vs missed abortion vs curettage". This article is a Bible that makes me insist on spontaneous abortion, and it talks about the logic of spontaneous abortion, especially/kloc-abortion before 0/2 weeks is a physiological phenomenon, not a pathological phenomenon. Let me understand in principle that I can wait. A few days later, I was lucky enough to get in touch with Dr. Zhang Ning on the issue of micro-medicine. Dr. Zhang told me to live a normal life and wait. Although I know in principle that I can do spontaneous abortion, I also have the guidance of Dr. Zhang. But because many family members know about it, almost all doctors say they want to clear the palace, and it is not clear what kind of danger it is. The family also urged them to enter the palace one after another. My mother and aunt urged them by video message one day. My mother-in-law was under pressure at home, and her mother-in-law and her sisters and relatives urged them by video chat. For a few days, the atmosphere at home reached freezing point, and it felt like it would explode at the touch. Fortunately, my husband insisted on spontaneous abortion than I did and always comforted me. To sum up, this kind of thing really can't be known to too many people. Good is joy, bad is pressure. If it's not good, you have to take a route that runs counter to the public opinion, and the pressure is enormous. 1 1 In the first week after the week, I began to wait anxiously, but I didn't respond at all, because I read in Chinese medicine books that the fetus would not die and would have bad breath. In fact, as early as 8 weeks ago, I felt bitter mouth and greasy tongue coating intermittently, and this week was even worse. Under the great pressure of the surrounding environment and my own body, I am worried about whether it can flow naturally, and I am on pins and needles almost every day.
Process 3, spontaneous abortion
About 4 days after 12, in the second week of anxious waiting, redness and swelling began to appear. Three or four days after the brown secretion comes out, 13 blood begins to come out during the day, like menstruation. No more than two sanitary napkins were used, and contractions began around 10 at night. I didn't feel very painful, but I was looking forward to it, because I saw a lot of sharing in the early stage and thought it was finally here. Sleep normally at night. At about two o'clock in the morning, I suddenly felt something rush out and woke up. I started a three-hour trip to the toilet. This time a large piece of desquamation was discharged. After washing, you can see some transparent blood vessels, a large piece, about 10MM square. There is a small irregular peeling on the back. (I didn't know it was peeling at that time, so I sent a picture to Dr. Zhang for identification. The law of bleeding is roughly indefinite, unlike menstruation, this kind of blood is like pouring out, and sometimes you can feel bleeding. Find a basin quickly so that the blood can cover the bottom of the small basin. Bleeding like this from time to time before and after discharge. After 3 hours, a large number of blood clots and desquamation appeared. At about 5 o'clock, I felt less bleeding and fell asleep again. At about 10 in the morning, a large blood clot gushed out after getting up, which could not be cleaned for a long time. During the day, some small blood clots are discharged one after another, with less bleeding. At about 9 pm, I felt something fall, but it didn't come out and got stuck. I want to jump twice to get it down as soon as possible. I didn't expect to spit out a pile of blood in one jump, which could instantly wet a sanitary towel. I was scared after bleeding three or five times. I remembered that Dr. Zhang said that I was lying down because of excessive bleeding, so I didn't exercise and went back to sleep. When I got up in the morning, I contacted Dr. Zhang and said that I felt something stuck. I was actually hungry. I don't know if I imagined it. Dr. Zhang made me kneel for more than ten minutes, trying to go to the toilet. As a result, I felt something coming out when I went to the bathroom. I grabbed it with my hand. It looked like a cylinder with a length of about 10Mm and a diameter of 5 mm. When I took it out, I was shocked. This is a big piece. At that time, I thought it was a flying capsule. Blood still flows out after the embryo sac comes out, just like menstruation. There is a little blood clot in the back. I prepared boxes, saline and so on. Just before the holiday, I washed everything, soaked it in normal saline and put it in the refrigerator. (Myth: To have a chromosome examination, you should send the embryo for examination as soon as possible and send it to a specialized hospital with a family planning department. You can get it at any time in case of emergency. )
Process 4, residue.
The second day after the outflow, the embryo was sent to the hospital for examination. The doctor said that the time was too long, and it may have been necrotic, which affected the detection. I wonder what affected the exam. B-ultrasound showed 34mm residue. The doctor asked if the palace was clear, and I said I wanted to wait. The doctor prescribed the medicine for observation and checked it about 10 days later. 10 There was some blood two or three days ago, stopped in the middle two days, and then there was some blood. It's no longer blood, but rust. 10 days later, the examination was clean and there was a little intrauterine effusion. The doctor said there was nothing wrong. Intermittent bleeding, completely clean for a few days, and rusty blood for a few days should still be in the sewage. But nothing serious. Feel a heart falling and dust falling.
Process 5, reporting maternity allowance.
Coordinate with Shanghai to pay maternity insurance for employees, and abortion can also receive maternity benefits. The precautions are as follows. Personally, I think that no matter what hospital the fetal arrest was found in before. Everyone should go to a maternity hospital with a family planning department for reexamination and leave a certificate of abortion in the hospital. Because both maternity leave benefits and sick leave require reproductive medical proof (abortion only). Some hospitals without family planning departments cannot issue this certificate. After leaving a medical record in a maternity hospital with a family planning department, the embryo will be sent for inspection after spontaneous abortion, and a pathological diagnosis will be issued for the test object. It should be diagnosed that the effluent is an embryo before a reproductive medical certificate can be issued. Therefore, it is suggested that sisters who want to apply for maternity allowance, if they need spontaneous abortion, leave medical records in maternity hospitals with family planning departments after abortion, and send embryos to this hospital for testing after spontaneous abortion.
Postscript:
It's a pity that it happened to a person who thinks he is very kind. I'm sad, I blame myself, and I can't help it. I was so sad that I lost control several times and quarreled with my husband. After all this, I feel that I have grown up psychologically and physically. I hope you will never read my article, and I hope you will never know about fetal arrest. But if you are experiencing spontaneous abortion and read my article, I hope you will try your best to overcome it, both physically and psychologically. If human beings have to bear the abortion rate of about 15%, I will bear it, and others don't have to bear it. If you think so, you have also made a contribution.
Finally, spontaneous abortion can be successful without surgery. Thanks to Dr. Zhang Ning's guidance, during that waiting time, it was difficult for me to persist without Dr. Zhang Ning's guidance. I also thank Dr. Zhang Ning for his article "Abortion VS Threatened Abortion VS Natural Abortion VS Missed Abortion VS Curettage", which made me understand the principle of spontaneous abortion, and I am no longer afraid. I also thank the sisters who have never met for sharing. In the process of waiting, I read their articles over and over again, looking for rules and confidence in waiting. I hope my article can also help people in need.