The French writer Hugo once said; The widest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the human mind wider than the sky. Wise people show their rational behavior in all aspects of life in various ways, and one of them is called tolerance. Nothing can stop the gratitude behind tolerance and nothing can be done.
Compared with a heart full of reason and tolerance.
According to legend, in the first year of Zhou Ding's reign, Chu Zhuangwang put down the rebellion, held a special banquet for the generals, and honored my beloved concubine Ji Xu. Suddenly a gust of wind blew out all the candles. In the dark, a man was flirting with Ji Xu's sleeve. Ji Xu didn't allow it, so he tore off a corner of the man and asked Zhuang Gong to check everyone's clothes. Zhuang Wang smiled twice after hearing this and said.
Drunk and crazy is inevitable. If you are punished, it will hurt your heart, and the officials will break up in discord, which will not pay off. "After listening to JiXu gasp in admiration. Later, on the battlefield where Wu Bing attacked Chu, a soldier was extremely brave and made great contributions to defending Chu. Zhuang Gong asked him why, and he said, "Those are the things in the temple. "
In fact, forgiveness is not difficult, and it doesn't need much. It is enough to be more tolerant and open-minded, but not everyone has the rational attitude and tolerant mind like the king of Chu. They often lead to irreparable tragedies.
In those days, there were many brave soldiers. Counselor Xiang Yu once owned a large number of warriors such as Han Xin, but he was so domineering that he couldn't tolerate people running around, which made many counselors and good generals run away one after another, and eventually he was besieged on all sides and committed suicide in Wujiang River. Turgenev once said: "People who will not tolerate others will not be forgiven by others." This sentence was best verified by Xiang Yu. If he can face his advisers who are loyal to him everywhere with a broader mind than the sky, he will be more rational and open-minded. Why did the overlord of Chu sigh heroically?
Carnegie once said that tolerance, forbearance and kindness are important signs of personality maturity. There is another element in the definition of reason called tolerance, which is the starting point of all wisdom.
As the saying goes, "decent people, decent people, and villains are often sad people." On the road of life, even if you are hit hard, you can start from this bottom line again, because there is a reason called tolerance-for others and for yourself.