The hardest thing in this world is love. For example, no one will say that they don't love nature, otherwise it will be difficult for you to understand people's enthusiasm for traveling and the advertising motives of house sellers with convenient transportation and beautiful scenery. The author Su Tong doesn't love the two fruit trees in front of his window. But what kind of love is the real love and the love that the tree needs? After reading Su Tong's Three Trees, you will finally understand the true meaning of love like the author. I was eager to have my own tree. It is for this reason that the platform name "Three Trees" aroused my special interest and imagination. "I" envy the children in Xishuangbanna, the descendants of loggers in Daxinganling and the teenagers in rural areas; "I" envy trees in the city and many families in the small streets; I transplanted a neem tree, and I like it to the extent that I know how many leaves it has. But then I lost it. First, because it has not been provided with the land necessary for its growth (instead of cement land); Second, it misunderstood its requirements and kindly put it on a very dangerous balcony; Third, when the wind is blowing hard, "I" can't feel how the wind will insult it. "I" directed a play of "killing my parents by mistake". I am deeply saddened, but I don't really know how to love a tree. "I" later got two fruit trees by accident. "I" was surprised and couldn't help repeating: "Guess what tree this is? Two fruit trees, one is pomegranate and the other is loquat. " "I also have a tree. I have two trees at the same time Amazingly, they are two fruit trees! " "Now there are two trees in front of my window, one is pomegranate and the other is loquat." These two trees have given me a lot. The first is to surprise "me", which goes without saying. The second is to give "me" a favor, which goes without saying. The third is to give "I" spiritual support. "I always pay more attention to the world than enthusiasm, and doubt more than trust." "I used to be a pessimistic skeptic. Trees have built a bridge between me and the whole world ",with their enthusiasm and sympathy, tolerance and frankness. "My parents once told me how lucky I am. I don't believe it. My friends also told me how lucky I am. I don't believe it. Now two trees tell me that I am a lucky man in the end. I believe. " By contrast, how much I trust trees! Fourth, give me a spiritual reminder. "I" looked at the posture of the tree with wishful thinking and mistakenly thought that the tree would tell me that I am your tree! I am your tree! " Just because I mistakenly thought that the tree was "mine" and out of the narrow concept of protecting personal interests, "I appeared at the window in time and told the children to leave my tree." The tree is "Nothing happened", "Remind me that it was not an injury, it was an accident", "The dedication of the tree is endless. I am not only your tree, but also a tree passing by children!" The tree gave me a lot, but it was not publicity; The tree quietly pays attention to "I" and contains "I". "The tree won't make any decision of betrayal ... The tree found all my details, including my privacy, but if the tree doesn't say anything, others won't know. The tree just stared at me. " This is a highly respected equal love, a deep and true love.

But "I" finally lost these two trees. What is the reason? What does this make me understand? On the surface, it is a "blueprint for urban construction" ... and many people's trees have been buried. "Blueprint" is a social group's plan for its future life. However, when people pursue a better life, they do not hesitate to occupy the living space of trees. Similar things have been staged in many places, and they are even being staged. Some people want to find a new home for the tree, but forget (or pretend to forget? As the old saying goes, "People move and trees die", some people never think that trees have their right to exist, let alone respect and love them equally and amicably. Don't people love trees? Don't! It is the "egoism" thought of human beings that makes people despise or ignore trees and occupy them without knowing it. With the "I" who once yearned for trees, do I really understand, respect and care for trees? Didn't I direct the tragedy of "killing my parents by mistake"? Didn't "I" mistakenly think that this tree is my tree, so I want to monopolize it and control its dedication? As a representative of a far-reaching individual, "I" has an amazing internal consistency between this exclusive desire for trees out of love and the indifference (even indifference) of this group of society to the right to survival of trees. Because we love the beauty of flowers, we pinch them off the branches so that we can smell the flowers at any time. Because I love tigers, I put them in cages from the mountains for us to see. Because I love the tenderness of sheep, I use sheepskin to make clothes and wear them on my body. We do "scientific experiments" with animals. We have completely changed the mountains and rivers. We claim to be the spirit of all things, relying on our strong position, killing our brothers and sisters in nature and disposing of them at will, and we are proud of it ... If our social groups don't abandon the concept of "anthropocentrism", don't realize that trees are children of nature, don't exist independently like people, don't fully respect trees, and treat them equally, then trees will definitely give way to human desires and ignorance and become human beings. This is the real reason why the tree left me. "I" realized how one-sided and even wrong my understanding of love was. The tree gave me a lot, but what did I give the tree? "I" gave the tree "I" surprise and gratitude, gave the tree "I" exclusive desire, and gave the tree "quietly ignored". Therefore, when "I" lost these two trees, "I" deeply blamed myself: "I was unaware of pomegranate's parting" and rudely stepped on pomegranate petals when I came home! Therefore, fundamentally speaking, "I" is not worthy of these two trees. Why does someone always get it and stop cherishing it? Why do you always know the value when you lose it? Comparing my love for the tree with the tree's love for me, how short, selfish, superficial, insignificant and hypocritical my love is! After the second tree throwing, I remembered the sad plot of the first tree throwing. "I asked myself, and then I heard a response"-the response of the "I" in my heart to the material "I". I seem to hear the cry of "I am here, I am in the water", which is anxiety without complaint and dependence. It is the symbol and cry of neem seedlings killed by my ignorant love. It is saying: Let me go back to my original field quickly! I should live in this land and stay in your heart for a long time, that is my destination! At this time, "I" finally understood that pomegranate trees and loquat trees are not my trees, nor the trees of the former landlord, nor the trees of urban planners. No one deserves it, and should not want to have it, let alone really have it. It belongs only to yourself! Only belong to yourself, can belong to human beings! what is love ? Loving one's children is something an old hen can do. But not everyone knows how to love children. Doesn't Grandmother Jia love Baoyu and Daiyu? Starting from love, she stopped the development of Baodai's love, ruined Daiyu's life and ruined Baoyu's happiness. Don't parents love their children? From the beginning of love, they spoil their children in every way, and finally make their lives useless and their spirits mediocre. There are too many examples in human history, and love is finally buried because of selfishness or illegality! Therefore, love is equality, love is respect, and love is compassion; Love is for what it needs, not what you think it needs; Love is to protect your independence and freedom! This was inspired by two trees long ago, but I didn't realize this simple truth until I lost the fruit tree. For a long time, many of us don't love flowers and trees, but use them; Not love, but play! We desecrated the true feelings and friendship of the trees, and we will surely reap the consequences, and we will regret it! People! Hurry and reflect on yourself! This is the inspiration from three trees.