People should learn to be tolerant. More tolerance means less spiritual separation; More tolerance means more understanding, more trust and more friendliness.
Tolerance is the catalyst of feelings. This can be said from Qi Henggong in the Spring and Autumn Period. In those days, after Qi Henggong won the position of Chu Jun, he let bygones be bygones, and appointed Guan Zhong, who had been hostile to him before, as a phase, so that Guan Zhong was unmoved and burst into tears. After that, Guan Zhong fully assisted Qi Henggong, enabling Qi to govern the country and dominate one side. Based on historical data, why did Qi become the overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period? That's because Qi Henggong was tolerant, which influenced Guan Zhong, and then treated him with sincerity and repaid him with kindness!
Tolerance is a virtue between people. During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried after reading the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, Mrs. Zhang told the family to stand back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends.
Tolerance is the witness of friendship. Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".
Tolerance is an open-minded mind, a rare virtue, an art of life, an invisible appeal and cohesion, and the most shining light in the aura of personality charm. I am willing to praise all my life and follow forever.
The so-called prime minister can punt in his stomach, which is Shu during the Three Kingdoms period. After Zhuge Liang's death, Jiang Wan was appointed to preside over state affairs. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".