Frustration is not terrible, because it brings us the most severe test in life.
In the face of setbacks, some people are defeated by setbacks and have accomplished nothing since then; However, some people are not conquered by setbacks, but face them bravely. Since then, fate has opened the door to success for him!
There is such a person who does not give in to setbacks. He is from Jiutai City, Jilin Province. My father is an ordinary shoemaker and my mother is a mentally retarded person. During the day, he works in a restaurant except after class. So the monthly food expenses are pitiful, and he eats other people's leftovers in the restaurant. When he came home at night, in order to save electricity, he took a book and studied under the dim street lamp. Dim light, dark figure, only wise eyes staring at the book tightly. The night wind blows from time to time, and it is a little bleak. ......
But in the face of poor family, mentally retarded mother, embarrassing life and bleak future, he did not bow to setbacks. Through his own efforts, he overcame poverty and setbacks, finally admitted to Peking University, and realized his dream!
Setbacks are not terrible, because they bring people tests.
In America, everyone knows General Patton and regards him as a hero. However, who believes that he was a "bad student" when he was studying at West Point Military Academy in the United States, and he was also confined. At that time, in the eyes of teachers and classmates, he was not a general at all. However, he became a famous general and was admired by the world.
From the psychological point of view of ordinary people, being confined and warned will make people depressed and even lose confidence, but General Barton is not. Maybe he regretted it after the confinement, but he didn't feel depressed or give up. He still faces his future life with confidence. He worked hard until he became a general.
Setbacks are not terrible. The terrible thing is that you don't have the courage to face them. Therefore, when people are frustrated, never lose courage and confidence. This may be one of the secrets of General Barton's success!
In Balzac's words, "Setbacks are like stones. For the weak, it is like a stumbling block, which makes people flinch; For the strong, it is like a stepping stone, making people stand higher and see farther! "