I don't think I need to read a book on love psychoanalysis, but I can read game theory. Love is an offensive and defensive war. Knowing some knowledge of game theory will be helpful to all aspects of your life and your feelings.
Recommend a series of books, such as How to Make People You Love Fall in Love with You by Flantz, and Intimacy by Christopher Meng. How to practice in love? When you start to love yourself, the whole world will love you and learn the art of love. There are many books recommended, which can be read according to your own situation. I hope you can practice in love and gain full happiness. I hope that * * * will make progress together!
Please go to the bookstore to buy or download such books online.
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Love Notes, like Allen de Botton, is a masterpiece with insight, poetry and wisdom. This work is partly a novel and partly a philosophical exploration of the origin and principle of love. The book tells a love story, and traces every stage of love through the wonderful combination of rational analysis and profound human emotional experience-from the initial lovesickness caused by dopamine to the despair of the end of love. In the network knowledge of De Botton's classic style, the narrator also shows the author's own understanding and writing style by quoting famous western philosophers with easy-to-understand brushstrokes. In Why We Fall in Love: The Nature and Chemical Effects of Love, Fisher carefully analyzed this point-this is a journey that combines neurochemistry with storytelling, and the stories in the book tell us everything about emotions. Fisher listed three elements of love, each of which contains a different connection with the brain system-desire, controlled by androgen and estrogen, that is, sexual satisfaction; Attraction is affected by high dopamine and norepinephrine levels and low serotonin. When everything goes well, people will feel happy, otherwise they will feel sad, people will concentrate, fall into thinking and have a strong desire for freedom. Attachment, controlled by oxytocin and combined with pituitary hormones, produces a sense of calm and stability when getting along with long-term partners-which leads researchers to observe basic issues, such as interest and obsession, happiness and jealousy, monogamy and divorce.
You may think of the work of biological anthropologist Helen Fisher, from her interesting discussion about how antidepressants affect love experiences. These are just countless equally fascinating aspects of love, which Fisher carefully analyzed in his book Why We Fall in Love: The Nature and Chemical Effects of Love-Brain Neurochemistry and Storytelling Journey. The story in the book tells us everything about emotion. Fisher listed three elements of love, each of which contains a different relationship with the brain system-desire, controlled by androgen and estrogen, sexual satisfaction, attraction, influenced by high levels of dopamine and norepinephrine and low levels of serotonin. Happiness and pleasure when everything goes well, a strong desire for freedom; Attachment, occupation by oxytocin, and the combination of pituitary hormones and the sense of calm and stability generated by getting along with long-term partners have led researchers to be interested in and obsessed with observing basic problems, joy and jealousy, monogamy and divorce.
For many people, love is the most important thing in their lives. Without love, they think life is flawed. But what is love? This question has been discussed by poets, novelists, philosophers, theorists, psychologists and so on. This book shows that contemporary psychologists try to study the relationship between love and intimacy, thus revealing the true meaning of love.
This book, together with The Psychology of New Love, became the best reading, and its subsequent 2008 edition-was a book of the same name.
In Falling in Love: Why We Choose Our Lovers, social psychologist and researcher Ayala? Malak? Pines used skillful social and clinical methods to deal with the mystery of many people's love psychology in choosing a partner and understanding love. This book puts forward the main points from three case studies: an interview-based 100 study on love relationship, a cross-cultural, data-based comparative study on love between Americans and Israelis, and a series of interviews on the reasons why 100 couples fall in love after having problems in love.
The General Theory of Love was co-authored by Thomas Reeves, Ray Emeney and Richard Lennon. It is a poetic comprehensive study. This book observes the natural development history of this greatest emotion through a pair of sincere social eyes.
Since the arrival of our human species, human beings have been content with such an uncontrollable emotional core in every place and every moment, thus making unpredictable or puzzling actions. Science cannot explain this. Hippocrates, the first doctor in the western world, suggested that emotions originated from the brain as early as 450 BC. His statement is correct-but in the next 2500 years, medicine can't give a more detailed explanation of emotional life. People seem to think only about art-literature, songs, poetry, painting, sculpture and dance. Until now.
The discovery of "hard science" of brain function and neuron chemistry is explained through the prism of human nature, thus providing a richer and deeper understanding of people's inner wishes.
The above are some books recommended for you, you can choose your favorite.
Intimacy and Five Languages of Love are classic books of gender psychology, and you can also see why love hurts people.
Ordinary Life is Ah Trouble by young White and a love novel by Anica Ronnie. The production you invented is the interpretation of Freud's dream and so on, which can guide you from a ... Now everyone can read anyway, so there are many practical ways and techniques to make the person you love fall in love with you, which are worth reading one by one.
Robert Jeffrey Sternberg, an American psychologist, put forward the theory of love in Psychology of Love, which is now recognized as a relatively thorough theory of sexual relations. He believes that love consists of three basic components: passion, intimacy and commitment. Passion is a sexual desire component in love and an emotional infatuation; Intimacy refers to the warm experience that can be caused in a love relationship; Commitment refers to the decision, expectation or guarantee to maintain the relationship. These three elements constitute seven types of love, such as spoony love, spoony love, empty love, romantic love, partner love, stupid love and perfect American love.
Psychology is all-encompassing, and love is naturally included.
Psychology of love, this is the name of this book. There are many psychological analyses about love, and you can buy them if you are interested.