Learning to do things seems to be an individual's pursuit of success, which is his own business and has nothing to do with others, but in fact, in the process of pursuing success, no one can do without cooperation with others. To be a good teacher, teachers must rely on students' learning; Students must rely on the teacher's education to become useful people to society; The boss relies on the work of employees to complete economic activities; Writers rely on readers' reading to become great writers. From this point of view, we can't do things without the support of others. If you want to succeed, you should try your best to get support and help from people around you. So, how can we get the cooperation of others? The answer is to be kind to others. Only when you treat others sincerely will others be willing to cooperate with you and stand up when you encounter difficulties.

Wu Qi, a famous Warring States player, knows very well that being kind to others means being kind to yourself. There is a story about Wu Qi in Historical Records: He loves soldiers like children and is deeply loved by soldiers. Once, a soldier who just joined the army was injured in the war. Due to the lack of medical care and medicine on the battlefield, the soldiers' wounds were festering and gangrenous when they returned to the rear after the war. Wu Qi found it while patrolling the camp. Without saying anything, he immediately squatted down and sucked the wound for the soldier with his mouth to reduce inflammation and heal. Seeing how the general treated himself, the little soldier was moved to tears and couldn't say a word. Other soldiers saw it and were deeply moved. When the soldier's mother heard about it, she burst into tears. Everyone thought she was moved to tears, but she said, "I'm worried about my son's fate!" " You don't know that General Wu was also injured for his father. As a result, his father was grateful for General Wu's kindness, risked his life to kill the enemy bravely, and finally died in battle. "On the other hand, it can be seen that it is precisely because Wuqi is so kind to soldiers that all soldiers are very brave and good at fighting.

It can be seen that being kind to others is a basic principle that we must abide by in the process of seeking success. In today's cooperative society, people are more interactive. Only by being kind to others and sincerely helping others can we handle interpersonal relationships and get happy cooperation from others.

Mencius once said, "A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others." Those who give generously and expect nothing in return are often easy to succeed. And those who are selfish, stingy and haggle over every ounce can not only find a partner, but may even become lonely. Some students will ask: What is kindness to others? Being kind to others is easy to say, but not easy to do. It covers a wide range of contents. Such as: caring for others, when friends encounter difficulties, take the initiative to lend a hand of friendship; Respect others and don't explore their privacy; Don't talk or criticize others behind their backs; Good at communicating with people; Good at interacting with people with different interests and personalities; Admit each other's value and efforts, and take responsibility for mistakes ... Generally speaking, the most important principle of being kind to others is "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you", and everything should be considered from each other's perspective. If you can follow this principle, you will get many good friends and partners.

Some people say that good interpersonal relationships are not obtained by actions, but by "flow" from the bottom of my heart. This sentence is very philosophical. It tells us that we should be honest with others in interpersonal communication, take our own heart as the criterion in everything, and communicate with people with "heart". Some middle school students are eager for friendship, but refuse to open their hearts to each other. Wang Rui, a middle school student in Hunan, once wrote to complain about the trouble of having no friends. She said: "After entering middle school, everyone may have grown up and become intrigued and used each other. I hate this situation, so I become deep and indifferent, and I am determined to wrap myself in loneliness and temper myself in inner pain. I am indifferent to the things in my class and take' going my own way' as my motto. Don't talk to classmates after class, make jokes, and don't talk in class ... "This practice of Wang Rui's classmates is inappropriate. When she longed for friendship, she didn't want to open her heart first and communicate with her classmates with her heart. In doing so, she can't get rid of herself, but it is easy to make herself more miserable and lonely. In the letters we received from boys and girls in the past, we often encountered this situation. Some middle school students often hold the psychology of "I won't answer you if you don't answer me" and "I don't want to make friends with you if you don't make friends with me". How can I get the cooperation and help from my friends?

There is a good saying: "Happiness does not depend on wealth, power and appearance, but on how you get along with the people around you." Do you want to be a happy person? Then let's start by being kind to others!