Life inspirational article 1: life sentiment
Bing Xin said in his prose: "If this life is beautiful, why seek the afterlife?" If this life is not beautiful, how can I seek the afterlife? "
When I was a child, I was always severely criticized and scolded by my father who preferred sons to daughters. Even the neighbors who live in my house can't stand to see me beaten and scolded. Besides, my father dotes on my younger brother and treats me coldly.
As an adult, my parents were laid off, my father didn't have a job, and my mother sneaked into France to be a nanny for China's family in France. The conditions were better, but it's a pity that you came to me again. I'm crazy about love. He was sent to a mental hospital and stayed in the hospital for 1 month and a half. Facing life, I was desperate, and I didn't know how to go in the future. I looked at the disgusted eyes of passers-by and accidentally said the word "neuropathy". I had a dead heart. I eat and sleep at home every day. One day, one of my relatives asked me to work in other places, and my father asked me to go. As a result, I had another problem. I had a mental attack, fell off my motorcycle, was taken to the hospital, stayed for half a month, and was dragged home from other places. I fell ill for the second time and stayed in a mental hospital for 1 month and a half. After leaving the hospital, I was thinking about what to do with my life.
I still took the adult college entrance examination, passed the English department, studied English for 2 years, and passed CET-4 and CET-6. My mother gave me the money, and I read the book. I was only 24 when I graduated that year. I got a college diploma and found a job myself. It should be possible to fall in love if you have a job. So, every time I fall in love, I tell him that I am sick, either scaring away my mobile phone or scaring people away, and there is no one. Occasionally, there is something suitable for you, but I don't like it.
I turned 30 at once, changed jobs n times, and my boyfriend talked n times. Once working in an insurance company, I met a single customer, and after I was with him, I got pregnant and got married. I feel quite happy. Who knows, something unexpected happened. I went crazy on my wedding day. At the wedding reception, he lost face, aborted the child and divorced me. So, I was sent to a mental hospital again.
After leaving the hospital, I was still active, got a job and prepared to take a law class. Who knows, after watching too much, he was sent to a mental hospital and was hospitalized for 4 times.
I still haven't bowed to God and worked as a copywriter in my relative's company. I don't have a chance. I heard that they took pity on me and took care of me before I came in. I didn't expect to write the conference draft of WeChat and the company. As soon as I wrote this, they all said I was talented, so I stayed in the company.
Yes, everyone's life is a story, and everyone's story is unique. I always remember a saying that when God closes the door for himself, he always leaves an open window. Tell yourself whenever you are in pain, endure the test of heaven, and tell yourself when you are crazy that I am resting. When the pressure of work forces me to resign, I will do better in my next job. Whenever I am reviled by others, I always tell myself with a smile, what does it matter? I am as strong as when I was ill.
Those who can support me up to now, those who are not desperate, are all self-reliant. And social care.
When I was in the hospital, the careful care of doctors and nurses made my condition improve quickly. They said I was ill, but I was still awake and could communicate with them normally. At work, my boss and colleagues take good care of me, and the teaching of my predecessors and the boss's exhortation are endless every day. Emotionally, many men actively pursue it. One of them is very kind to me at present.
I am still young and have no feeling about life. I just write my own experience and encourage myself. I'm not afraid to go to the hospital if I have any difficulties in the future. The road ahead is still very long. I will continue to be strong, overcome my illness with perseverance, face the disappointment of life with a smile, accept the challenge of fate with an optimistic attitude, and treat those who love me sincerely.
Life inspiration 2: Let the soul cross the sky behind the clouds.
Everyone has weaknesses. People who can't achieve great things always stick to their weaknesses and can't change them all their lives. And a person who can achieve great things will always look for his own weaknesses and start from his own weaknesses. Breaking through weaknesses, a person who can't even correct his own shortcomings can only be a loser.
I heard a song when I was a child; How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? If you want to surpass others, you must pay several times or even dozens of times more efforts than others. God is fair, and will not let mediocre people enjoy success, let alone those whose efforts are in vain. Success depends on struggle, and struggle must be persisted. Beethoven, a famous musician in history, was blind and deaf, but he still created many well-known works. Beethoven once said, I will hold my destiny by the throat, and he will never let me completely yield.
Because when I was a child, I was not sensible and playful. Besides, I am in poor health and suffer from hemophilia. Once I fall, it is difficult to stop bleeding, which makes my legs and feet inconvenient. Disability is unfortunate, but life will not be unfortunate forever. Because after removing the names of the strong and the weak, we are all human beings first, and there is no difference. The weak are not the source of unlimited demand. Even if others give you what you want because of your weakness, it is only charity, not a beggar. We must try our best to find what we have lost and strive for what we want. Only after experiencing pain can we be stronger, and only after experiencing tears can we be braver. Maybe there is not only sunshine in life, but also clouds that block the sunshine and seal us in the dark corner. At this time, we should face bravely, strive for it, cherish our yearning for the sun, let our hearts fly to the blue sky outside the clouds, embrace the sun and laugh at the ups and downs; The weak will only lament under the clouds, and they will never go beyond the clouds and let their hearts fly freely.
Fate broke the sail of hope, rough childhood brought me despair of life, warm hands healed my unforgettable scars, love left the other side of success, willows withered, and sometimes they became green again; A hundred flowers have withered, but they will bloom again. Life is short. In this short life, make your life full of happiness. Sorrow is only the passport of the weak, and striving for success is the motto of the brave.
Physical reasons limit my future life, and the so-called way out is to break through the obstacles of understanding. No matter what kind of person you are, there will always be people who look up to you and people who look down on you. It is also a success to make people who like themselves look at you with new eyes. Before others give up on you, it is not that you can't give up on yourself, but that you have no right to give up on yourself. Don't give yourself any excuses. If you uphold this belief, you can cut off the back road. Only by constantly striving to surpass your beliefs can you reap your success.
If you pay, you will get something, but the quality of the harvest still lies in yourself. Don't look for objective reasons, don't pass the buck, and face the reality bravely. Life is always bumpy, don't be afraid, work hard in the future. Only by paying can you get something, and there is no good task of getting something for nothing. Shi Tiesheng fell and lost his legs, which was a heavy blow to anyone. But instead of losing confidence in life, he expressed his infinite love for life with his brain and hands.
I don't know how many bumps and tribulations I will encounter in my life. Many things happen in unexpected ways. But I am sickly, so I have to face the difficulties bravely and choose to go on strongly. Learn not to complain, not to complain. Sometimes, when things are not so good, you will complain, just like the sea is always sobbing in a low voice. If you keep complaining about life and the people and things around you, you will live very tired, and one day, you will be abandoned by life. There are storms and thorns on the road of life. Only by struggling and struggling will there be flowers and applause waiting for us. Celebrities have said that frustration is a bottomless pit for incompetent people, but it is a stepping stone to success for those who dare to face setbacks.
After graduating from junior high school, I didn't go to school again, lacking a lot of knowledge and experience, so I had to study at home. Heaven rewards diligence, and hard work and effort will always pay off. He who overcomes many difficulties and persists is the winner. Smart people will gradually become stupid if they are not diligent. People who are not smart will gradually become smart as long as they are diligent. Whether studying or working, diligence can achieve better results.
On the road of life, everyone is running, always catching up with some people and always being surpassed by some people. Enjoy the scenery along the way and reach distant destinations; Find a speed that suits you best, don't be overwhelmed by illness, and don't waste your life because of slowness; Life is happy, go your own way, see your own scenery, surpass others, don't be complacent, and don't lose your ambition when being surpassed by others. In despair, close your eyes and think about how much love there is around you and the meaning of existence. You will see the blue sky through the clouds and realize your dreams there.
Inspirational Life Part III: Way out, way out.
"way out, way out." This is what my mother often says. Whenever I face difficulties and feel afraid of difficulties, my mother uses this sentence to encourage me.
Many people have the same confusion and vomit, such as how depressed they are in their small hometown, how unwilling they are to spend their lives like this, how dissatisfied they are with their jobs, and whether to leave or fight back. You ask me, I don't know how you should choose, life is your own, and no one can make any choice for you.
There is a courier I know very well, and I worked with him for three years before. At the beginning of the cooperation, he was responsible for receiving and delivering goods. When I moved, he helped me arrange the company van twice. Sometimes when he delivers goods, he will put me in his triple jump and send me home as goods. He often tells me about his life as a farmer in his hometown, his parents' worries before entering the city, and the terrible city life described by the villagers for him. At that time, his salary was not high, he worked hard, his wife was pregnant, his child was about to be born, and he lived in the suburbs of Beijing.
There must be many people who want to say, "What are you doing in Beijing?" But he is cheerful every day, even if he sends the wrong express. One day, he suddenly handed me a bunch of express orders from other companies and said to me, "I have a courier company." I'll use mine if you like. " I'm a little confused, and I have a kind of "Oh, hello, Boss Zhang, can you still follow me today?" I haven't seen him since. I thought his child was born and went on holiday. Then, I can only see the list, not him.
One day I asked the courier of their company, and the young man said that the boss had gone to Shanghai and opened a new company in Shanghai. I asked him alarmingly, "isn't the market in Shanghai very fierce?" How to stop the new express! "The young man smiled and said," our boss must have a way! It has been several months, and it is said that it is doing very well! " "What about his wife and children? Isn't the child just born very young? " "In the past, we went to Shanghai together! "
At that moment, I looked back at my colleagues who were sitting in the office and looked at my face with a black screen. A breath of "Life is so hard, some things should not be exposed" rises in Ran Ran. It's not that it's great to jump ship and start a company. Staring at the screen in the company just doesn't develop. I mean, only courage can make you change.
Each of us will feel more introverted, autistic and lonely in the process of growing up, so that we have the idea and feeling that "I don't think I can get along well with others in the new environment, so I have to endure and make do with it". Rather than being autistic, I am actually lazy and don't want to break through the hard-won security zone. So everyone lives in envy and hatred of others, complaining that life is not successful, so that the newly graduated students live like 30 years old.
There is a saying in Rejecting Mediocrity: Why do we often envy others' success? It is precisely because I know that it is not easy to do something, I don't want to do it, and then I am angry at my laziness and incompetence. I can only balance it with jealousy and slander.
In fact, you don't have to go anywhere when you go out, just emphasize changing the status quo that you are not satisfied with. Someone asked me, you always say to insist. How can you persist in running out every day? In fact, what you want to stick to is a belief, not a place. If you feel that a place makes your life particularly uncomfortable and your work particularly wronged, and you have no other thoughts except spitting and depression, then you should consider going out. As the lyrics say, "If your dream fails, change it." I can't say there is a bright future outside, but I believe you will meet new people, have new opportunities and even start over.
Many people feel that they can't do it in a company and need to think about whether there is a problem with their ability. There are many possibilities and distractions, not just abilities. Who says he can't do well here and can't go anywhere else? Think about it, it's true. There are always people in the workplace who can't stay in one place and feel at home in another. Sometimes going out is not only to find new opportunities, but more importantly, to find a suitable position and build new self-confidence and joy in life.
Don't torture yourself in the same place for too long, and don't embarrass yourself for too long. Way out, way out, way out.
Article 4: Learn to cherish yourself.
People, how many ups and downs have to go through in this life to understand the true meaning of life; How much suffering do you have to endure to understand that it is not easy to live; How much joy you have to lose before you know the value of cherishing; How much pain and ridicule do you have to endure to get live high out of the haze?
As the saying goes, there is a gain and a loss. Life will never have a perfect ending and beginning, and there will always be loss and regret.
Then why do we insist on perfection? We must surpass others to succeed, we must live better than others to be happy, and we must have more money or power than others to have dignity.
Is that really the case? I don't think, what is perfection, what is happiness and what is achievement? Who can tell!
The so-called perfection is not the perfection of the thing itself, but the imperfection of the foil. Even the emperor who is below one person and above ten thousand people dare not say that his life has no defects, so why bother himself? The so-called happiness is actually a feeling inside. It may be a book, a glass of water, a hug, or a paragraph.
As long as you feel happy, it is happy, and if you feel unhappy, it is unhappy. True happiness lies in the trivial things we face every day, and we need to listen, feel, cherish and tolerate with a delicate heart. The so-called achievement is a kind of self-identity in the mind after giving. Just as farmers sow in spring and harvest in autumn, fruits are the fruits of farmers, no matter how big or small, they are the results of their own efforts.
Therefore, in the absence of life, we don't need to criticize ourselves, and we don't need to be hard on ourselves. We should learn to cherish ourselves, speak with our hearts, tell ourselves that you are really good, and give ourselves a hug, which is both encouragement and comfort.
Nine times out of ten, there are unpleasant things in life, just like the moon is cloudy or sunny and the weather is unpredictable. No one can predict what will happen next second. We had to bite the bullet and grope across the river. Complaining, anger, comparison and demanding will only make us deeper into the abyss, unable to enjoy the beauty of life and see the beauty of the rainbow after the rain. Only by adjusting your mentality, being calm and calm, facing everything around you indifferently, and being arrogant and unwilling, can you drive away the "snow" in your heart and welcome the warm sunshine.
There is no cycle of life, so we have no reason not to treat life well and treat its shortcomings well. Since god has given us ideas, we must taste all the tastes in the world, love and hate; Sour, sweet, bitter and spicy; Joy, anger, sadness and joy are all gifts given by life, accompaniment of life and a series of checkpoints. If life is a game, then only if we try our best to cut off each level can you pass the customs smoothly. Although the process of customs clearance will be extremely difficult, it will be black and blue all over, but how can we experience the excitement of this game and taste the joy after customs clearance without a breakthrough?
Everyone is a passer-by on the journey of life. No matter how wonderful and unbearable the scenery along the way is, we have to walk, stop, walk, smile, cry and hurt. When we look back, isn't the footprint behind us the sublimation of life? Just as the most beautiful songs need the most beautiful notes to be perfect, so our life needs to be perfect and true.
Life is not a fairy tale, and we are not immortals. We can do anything we want in it.
In fact, people's greatest enemy is not others but themselves, and their troubles are not all from the pressure of life but emotional torture, but we can't adapt to the days without them at all, so we can only choose to be strong, fill our hearts with wisdom, tolerate our shortcomings with generosity, accumulate life with experience, and let go while saving ourselves. Life is just a passing thing, so why care too much? Remember that too much heart will make you tired, and too much thinking will hurt. Learn to cherish yourself, learn not to embarrass yourself when you are sad, and treat the shortcomings in life with an open mind, calm, calm and humble attitude at all times. Only in this way can we get inner peace, happiness and indifference, not be burdened by the heart, not be regretted by the heart, let go of yesterday and let today move forward happily.
In fact, the right or wrong of life is not built by the thing itself, but by the desire, which often makes us suffer from loss and gain, don't know what we really want, feel unhappy about the happiness we have, feel unloved about the love we have, feel not rich about the wealth we have, and have been pursuing and hesitating. Just like the invisible scenery is always the most beautiful, the stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, the fish that swims are always the best, and the grapes that can't be eaten are always the sweetest. I desperately want it when I can't get it, but when I really have it, I find that there are only so many, not as beautiful as I thought. Is it a little late to regret it?
Life is like a curtain. Putting down is a colorful halo, opening is confusing, and imagination will always surpass reality. No one can stop the desire to move forward, let alone predict whether the next stop will be happy or unhappy, owned or lost. Only by grasping what we have now is the truest and happiest.
No one is perfect, and nothing is impossible. Every journey of life will be accompanied by regrets. Learn to improve yourself in regrets and be kind to yourself in shortcomings. Whether it is bitter, happy, sweet or hurt, you don't have to care too much. If you care, it will only make you feel bored, let alone complain about the injustice of heaven, let alone envy others. Everyone has his own way of life and his own trajectory, and we are impeccable, not to mention judging who is right or wrong.
So, don't let yourself live too tired, don't be too hard on yourself, as long as you have a clear conscience when you do well or do badly, why care who said it and what you think? People live, destined to be accompanied by lack, intertwined with perfection, learn to be kind to lack, learn to love themselves, rely on when you are tired, cry when you are hurt, and get drunk when you are bored. Because there may be more than one person who loves you in this world, but you are the only one who knows yourself, so cherish yourself!
Article 5: The road is warm and the years are calm.
Su Shi wrote in his poem: Life is like sailing against the current, and I am also a pedestrian. Life has ups and downs, although there are still disappointments, but no one can stop it from moving forward, and it is too late to savor it. We have embarked on a new journey.
The road I have traveled has been lost and sad, but I just want to get there. A person has walked through the green mountains and green waters, experienced human feelings, tasted mixed dust, and gained a lot from his heart.
In one's life, one can see mountains as mountains and water as water. They must have experienced some ups and downs, unloaded their fresh clothes and horses, began to understand life, turned enemies into friends, and learned to treat the world gently.
No matter in plain days or when I am confused and depressed, I always try to get close to the sun. I like to look out in the sun just to find a bright color. As long as there is sunshine, there is hope.
Life inevitably has ups and downs, and years will always come and go. Please believe that everything given by fate, whether good or bad, is the best arrangement. Stick to it and it will become a lamp to illuminate your progress.
No matter how strong a person walks in the world, there will be times of loneliness and helplessness, so he is eager to be cared for. But life is always flickering and destiny is always on and off. Who can really understand, slowly learn to hold yourself tight, suffering beyond words, pain beyond words.
Lin Yutang said that the most important thing for us is not to care about truth and falsehood, gain and loss, fame and fortune, dignity and wealth, but how to live happily and find the poetry of life from it.
Although the days are dull, there are flashes. Although there will be trivial things, there will also be happiness and happiness. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. If we don't complain, we will have less troubles, and even if the days are dull, we can live a stable life.
I don't know when life began to have more responsibilities. When people reach middle age, they are separated from the years by several mountains and rivers. Once we all wanted to live our own lives, but we had to compromise with them. Once we all wanted to seize the time with our hands, but we had to go with the flow.
Life is really bitter, and no one's sky is always sunny. Perhaps only through disappointment can we better embrace poetry and distance and live. As long as there is a little progress today than yesterday, we must know how to be content.
If you don't have the fragrance of plum blossoms and the luxury of peony, then be a sunflower, warm the sunshine and live a simple and happy life every day.
The most important thing in life is to keep a good mood, be a happy person, collect beautiful things, don't dwell on regrets, and don't always regret and hesitate. Only by being broad-minded can we get rid of it, and only by knowing how to choose can we get close to happiness.
The years are deep, the sun shines, and the whole city is also a day of heavy rain. Cloudy and sunny, the scenery is comfortable. Smile is a kind of strength. Please don't be sad when you can choose to smile.
A person, who can not be affected by the changes of environment and weather, always wears his own bright smile, which is the best practice.
Calm down, witness the beauty of the years together, park your heart in a warm and bright place, smile warmly and feel at ease on the way forward.